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Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 1466838:MV8xNzQyNzcxXzI4ODc0OTU4Xzk4MDZDOEJE] [quote:Pink Taco:MV8xNzQyNzcxXzI4ODc0OTEzXzZCQjhENDMx] [quote:Anonymous Coward 1466838:MV8xNzQyNzcxXzI4ODc0ODYyXzUyM0MxODU3] [quote:Pink Taco:MV8xNzQyNzcxXzI4ODc0ODI3XzQ2M0EyOURD] [quote:Anonymous Coward 888734:MV8xNzQyNzcxXzI4ODc0NzEyXzE2MjFDOUFE] [quote:Pink Taco:MV8xNzQyNzcxXzI4ODc0NjkyX0RGM0EyOTky] [quote:Anonymous Coward 888734:MV8xNzQyNzcxXzI4ODc0NjQ3XzFBRkVBMzUw] [quote:Pink Taco:MV8xNzQyNzcxXzI4ODc0NjAwX0UwRjZGM0Y3] They do have "fun" there. He puts them in front of a tv. The oldest is now old enough to play video games with him so they do all weekend. I do not agree but, it is not something I have a say in. I am simply frustrated that their basic daily hygiene is of no concern to him. I pack their bags each visit and include everything they need. He has no obligation to purchase clothes, toiletries or even food. I am terribly considerate to him in that I even provide transportation because in the past he has claimed that it is not convenient. I do all of these things because the girls want to see him. [/quote] You feel like you do everything and he is not stepping up to the plate, correct? [/quote] Yes. I am so afraid that he just want's the kids to disappear. They need happy interaction with both parents. They ask to see him. [/quote] You and him seperated for reasons. Is he still displaying the characteristics that led to the seperation? [/quote] The separation was because he spent our life savings on a gambling addiction. He hid it for years and when he was offered treatment and help he chose to sell his truck and disappear for 3 months. When he returned he stole jewelry from his grandmother and took another hiatus. The third time he came home the house was empty and I moved into something smaller that I could manage alone. The home we lived in was owned out right. His parents purchased it. I moved when I got a notice he took out a mortgage on it and it was to be foreclosed on. [/quote] Is he more stable now? Has he stopped gambling? Addictions are horrible. [/quote] I am not sure. I don't pry. He still does not have a vehicle. I know he is employed. I just provide everything the kids need because I don't know if he can afford it. [/quote] Well, the question should be are the kids safe with him and if they are then there really is no more to say. Now whether he was a good husband or should you have stayed with him for the sake of the kids is a whole nother subject. [/quote]
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