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Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 70646526:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY3MzM5XzQ4NkIyMUI0] This is in the main due to social engineering. Women are perceived within the "lock" of objectification by men. (The one to many valueless "perception model" that women seek to subconsciously (and sometimes consciously) avoid) Hence women raise their standards to go against their true natural instincts. It is an egotistical action. Their grading of men becomes empowered by their need for a man that does not objectify them. Hence they become so selective that their ideal can never be met. If men and women-only followed their spiritual and natural instincts together instead of a societal one, that would be empowering. That is not what the state wants though. The state wants powerless separation on all counts. All three parties are to blame. Male, female, society/state. Just saying. [/quote]
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I came across this video while replying to another thread and thought it deserved its own. From a former matchmaker for women. She lays it out very well.
No women hater here but a man who has heard the same over and over through the years from happily married couples, and this woman lays it out for other women to hear.
Believe it or not this is not a political issue but a perception/expectation one and shows why so many women today are lonely and never happy.
Yes the video is 21 minutes long but is so very true as to what is not only holding many women back but also flat -WRONG- with the image-based society we many have fallen in to.
For those who want a synopsis there is no way to convey the video in two sentances. Maybe atch the last 5 minutes to get the most in short time.
Prepared for the estrogen brigade women-haters label when only being realistic.
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