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Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 73538171:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY4NTAwXzQ2NzRBNjM3] [quote:IJumpInIt:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY2Mjk5X0JGQUM0NkM=] Hoping some ladies chime in on a serious note. To me anyway this is an area parents used to teach their kids but these days are divided by the feminist movement to -NOT- be that way. More specifically I am curious if mothers today are teaching their girls to find a man -AFTER- 30, if at all. Seems to be what the millenials are doing - waiting until 30+ to seek out a real marriage. Of course there are those who hook a guy to get prego and ass-rape his life so they have 'income' to look successful as a single mother, but that is not what this thread is about. [/quote] Two problems: [b] One[/b],there are too many low quality males vs husband material. First off, IQ distribution. Women's intelligence clusters closely to the average of 100. With males, especially white males, there is wider variety. There are more genius males and also there are more retarded males. Men are more likely to be in jail, many have substance abuse problems or are violent. [b]Two[/b], women over-rate their qualities. So many women list off what they want in a man - rich, good looking, travelled, professional - without it occurring to them to ask what they have to offer this fantastic guy? Too many women will get fat and then they can compensate with grooming and nice clothes. No! Men like the natural look. Do not get fat unless you are okay with being with a fat guy. Taking care of your looks isn't spending $100 a week at the salon and putting on designer clothes. Eat healthy, stay fit. Many women are stupid (relative to highly intelligent men). The higher caliber men do not want stupid women. They want women who can carry a conversation about something other than themselves or what their friends are up to. You are not going to attract that well-travelled, funny professional if all YOU do all day is work a boring office job and watch television when you come home. Too many women try to be men. Men want women who are feminine. Who don't try to one up them, or act and talk crudely. Now in defense of that, many MEN expect women to be more career driven and independent. That is not fair - women, especially feminine women, do not thrive in the sociopathic corporate world nor to they do well in the scheming, backstabbing public sector world where laziness is rewarded. Feminine women work hard, but they are not climbers, and male-tier ambition does not suit them. The biggest complaint I hear from single eligible men: women are CRAZY or TRASHY. They put a premium on women with no visible tattoos, and women who are smart enough not to date players (especially black men, not to be racist, but the rates of stds and illegitimate children is higher). They don't want women with drug or alcohol problems. They don't want women who are 30 but still carry on like a teenager, acting like an animal by getting falling down drunk, or flashing her breasts in public, or yelling, acting up. Act like a lady, and you will attract a gentleman. Act like trailer park trash and no decent guy will want you. [/quote]
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I came across this video while replying to another thread and thought it deserved its own. From a former matchmaker for women. She lays it out very well.
No women hater here but a man who has heard the same over and over through the years from happily married couples, and this woman lays it out for other women to hear.
Believe it or not this is not a political issue but a perception/expectation one and shows why so many women today are lonely and never happy.
Yes the video is 21 minutes long but is so very true as to what is not only holding many women back but also flat -WRONG- with the image-based society we many have fallen in to.
For those who want a synopsis there is no way to convey the video in two sentances. Maybe atch the last 5 minutes to get the most in short time.
Prepared for the estrogen brigade women-haters label when only being realistic.
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