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Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage
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[quote:Anonymous Coward 73538171:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY4NzMzX0Y3RDQ3MDIw] [quote:Anonymous Coward 77862205:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY4MzY3XzhBQzdFOEEw] [quote:IJumpInIt:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY4MzA3X0RDOUQ0RjI2] [quote:Anonymous Coward 72040834:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY4MDcxXzc4RjlDMjhE] I never men a man I liked. They either have drinking problems or anger management problems or controlling problems. [/quote] The life of a provider/protector is not always an easy one however the right match will have a calming/stregthening effect on both of you. Sounds like you never got to experience that. A good conservative man might be the ticket for you hard to say. [/quote] If youve been paying attention, the steady, reliable responsible white male is THE exact thing being demonized from every direction and sources. The only acceptable male according to the media is a black rapper with a whole bunch of babymommasand a long history of run ins with the law. [/quote] Look at it this way: the media are filtering out the low caliber women for that steady reliable white male. The women who get suckered in are the dumber ones anyway. Quality guys can now go look in Facebook and screen out the ones with ink up and down their arms, or the ones being hugged from behind by Tyrone. Here is what my eligible bachelors like: Women with no children, especially ones that will not look like them. A single mom has already proven she makes bad decisions and lacks the ability for future planning. No, you are not responsible because you work three jobs to support your two-year-old by some jail bird. The responsible woman does not get knocked up out of wedlock to begin with. Women who are sober. A few beers or drinks on the weekend is fine, so is wine at dinner, but don't get falling down drunk all the time. Women who are natural looking. Men prefer when women don't look plastic. They are not looking for perfect women, they are looking for women who are FIT - who don't eat a ton of junk food, and who exercise regularly. They don't care that your nose is too fat, or your eyes are too far apart or you have a spot on your forehead. Just have a nice hair style (natural and long preferred) and wear clothes that fit properly (no muffin tops). No tattoos. Many respectable men will judge you for them like it or not. They see tattoos as a sign of poor mental health, a bad family upbringing, and a lack of forward thinking. Most of the better men do not have tattoos. Women who can be wife material. Sure many guys can cook, but men value when women can prepare meals at home rather than go out to eat all the time. The diet is healthier anyway. Women who are assertive but not aggressive. Again, you are not a man. Say what is on your mind and don't play too many games, but don't act like one of the guys, don't try to best them in everything for the sake of besting them. Be a counterbalance not a competitor. Women who do not whore around. Men are not expecting virgins. But they prefer that you never lived with a guy previously (platonic room mates excepted), that you do not have children already, that you don't keep around a bunch of male 'friends' you've shagged. Why? Because men want to raise their own children, not someone else's and whores are more likely to sneak in some other guy's genes. Women who are mentally stable. Men appreciate women who can keep their emotions in check, who aren't going to have a crying fit at the slightest wrong word, or have a meltdown like a toddler if she doesn't get what she wants. Men do not want brats. Women who are considerate of others. Many men complain so many women are too self-absorbed. All they care about are likes on social media, and spending big, living the high life. They say these women fall for players because they are so clued out and into themselves that they miss obvious signs the guy is bad news. They want women who will raise their children, not just keep them distracted with a iPad all the time or shove them into daycare first chance. Women who can be thoughtful and who have good manners. [/quote]
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I came across this video while replying to another thread and thought it deserved its own. From a former matchmaker for women. She lays it out very well.
No women hater here but a man who has heard the same over and over through the years from happily married couples, and this woman lays it out for other women to hear.
Believe it or not this is not a political issue but a perception/expectation one and shows why so many women today are lonely and never happy.
Yes the video is 21 minutes long but is so very true as to what is not only holding many women back but also flat -WRONG- with the image-based society we many have fallen in to.
For those who want a synopsis there is no way to convey the video in two sentances. Maybe atch the last 5 minutes to get the most in short time.
Prepared for the estrogen brigade women-haters label when only being realistic.
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