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Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage
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[quote:MissCleo:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY4NzYzXzhBQTM4NDY1] [quote:IJumpInIt:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY4NjM3X0YxN0JERTBF] [quote:Anonymous Coward 21728709:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY4Mzk2XzdBNThDNEY5] I have 3 daughters, I have been married to their mother for 25 years, I'm a simple country boy and my standards are God, Family and friends. 2 of my girls are married to county boys with strong family instincts. tjey will do well. My only advice on their wedding day was the words exactly.. Keep his belly full and his balls empty, make him ache to want to come home and see you. Try to look nice for him because we are visual creatures. Don't complain because he's gone working. Be a good mother. [/quote] Have to admit - every happily married couple I have ever known said a variance of what you did there. Perhaps that is the secret sauce to keep it together. [/quote] The man is the provider. The woman is the... provider of comfort, children, love, sex, meals, education, housekeeping, joy, has to be beautiful all the time, and fill expectations of being a good mother? So what are men providing actually? just curious to see answers. [/quote]
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I came across this video while replying to another thread and thought it deserved its own. From a former matchmaker for women. She lays it out very well.
No women hater here but a man who has heard the same over and over through the years from happily married couples, and this woman lays it out for other women to hear.
Believe it or not this is not a political issue but a perception/expectation one and shows why so many women today are lonely and never happy.
Yes the video is 21 minutes long but is so very true as to what is not only holding many women back but also flat -WRONG- with the image-based society we many have fallen in to.
For those who want a synopsis there is no way to convey the video in two sentances. Maybe atch the last 5 minutes to get the most in short time.
Prepared for the estrogen brigade women-haters label when only being realistic.
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