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Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage
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[quote:CigarTigher:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY4OTIyXzkzNTY1Q0ZE] [quote:Anonymous Coward 73538171:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY4ODY0XzFGOUI1NkZC] [quote:CigarTigher:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY4Nzk3X0E1NjVDQjM=] [quote:IJumpInIt:MV80MTAwMzE4Xzc0MzY2Mjk5X0JGQUM0NkM=] Hoping some ladies chime in on a serious note. To me anyway this is an area parents used to teach their kids but these days are divided by the feminist movement to -NOT- be that way. More specifically I am curious if mothers today are teaching their girls to find a man -AFTER- 30, if at all. Seems to be what the millenials are doing - waiting until 30+ to seek out a real marriage. Of course there are those who hook a guy to get prego and ass-rape his life so they have 'income' to look successful as a single mother, but that is not what this thread is about. [/quote] I’m 28, single . I wish I would’ve found a man earlier in life. Seems like I’m not good enough for the guys I’ve dated because they usually are the ones to break up with me. [/quote] I met my husband at age 32. You still have time. :hf: Keep looking and work on being the best you can be as an individual. Many men don't get their act together until they are around your age, but you need to be in an environment where you can meet them. Go to professional networking events, conferences, etc. as many as you can. Or if you go to a bar, find ones with live performances, as they attract a better quality crowd including single men. Scope around and be open to being approached. [/quote] Will do :). I also work a lot (trying to pay off my car). Which doesn’t help. I’m just going to remain patient. [/quote]
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I came across this video while replying to another thread and thought it deserved its own. From a former matchmaker for women. She lays it out very well.
No women hater here but a man who has heard the same over and over through the years from happily married couples, and this woman lays it out for other women to hear.
Believe it or not this is not a political issue but a perception/expectation one and shows why so many women today are lonely and never happy.
Yes the video is 21 minutes long but is so very true as to what is not only holding many women back but also flat -WRONG- with the image-based society we many have fallen in to.
For those who want a synopsis there is no way to convey the video in two sentances. Maybe atch the last 5 minutes to get the most in short time.
Prepared for the estrogen brigade women-haters label when only being realistic.
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