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[quote:NowIhavetothinkofaname:MV80NjI2MzI5XzkwMDMzNDA1X0UzQzY2RDI0] [quote:Louis in Richmond:MV80NjI2MzI5XzkwMDMyOTcwXzZDODlGQjVB] [quote:NowIhavetothinkofaname:MV80NjI2MzI5XzkwMDMyNzQ3X0QzNUUxMDMw] You're obviously miserable, why not just divorce her? Sell the house or any property you two own together and pay her alimony to get rid of her. Sure it will cost you a lot, but divorce is expensive because it's worth it. You know you'll regain your positive peace of mind and who knows you might even not just make yourself happy, but her too! She's probably being mean to you so you'll divorce her and she'll be able to tell her friends and new leading man that you were an awful husband who didn't deserve her. Both of you want to be free, so that is what you should want for the two of you. :tomato: [/quote] It may well come to that. She has mental issues and I feel obligated to maintain her. I'll die soon enough. I can't sell the house as I'm still in a battle with my bank and their mortgage processor over its ownership. I already paid over $250K USD in a divorce thirty years ago, I cannot do that again; I've still not recovered from that. It seems some evil is drawn to me as a moth to flame, only in this case it wishes to extinguish the light. I will not allow it to prevail, yet I know it is costing me my health. [/quote] I get your wife has mental issues but so do you. You're obviously mildly depressed about your living situation and I'm sure you realize that. A divorce means you get to live the rest of your life in whatever capacity you can. Your wife will be looked after by whoever she can afford to have care for her and the same goes for you. Just take your name off the deed of the house and tell the bank it belongs to her now, it's what she wants. She'll get it in the divorce and if you die before she does, she'll get the house anyway. Don't think of the divorce as freeing your wife only, it also frees you. You could remote work from a trailer by the sea in Mexico or SE Asia. You realize things have to change and what has to happen but you're still hesitant. That's the only reason why you have cause for complaint, not your wife, not her friends, not the bank issue. I don't understand why you'd spend another day being miserable when you could just say, "It's over, thanks for the memories." [/quote]
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