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Domestic Men with Children how do you cope?
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[quote:NowIhavetothinkofaname:MV80NzUyOTE1Xzg2NTk0NjQxX0RFRjU0OTA4] [quote:Red John:MV80NzUyOTE1Xzg2NTk0MjA0X0NERkFEMDVG] [quote:NowIhavetothinkofaname:MV80NzUyOTE1Xzg2NTkzOTI3X0Y3NDczNDNG] [quote:Lover_Girl:MV80NzUyOTE1Xzg2NTkzMzY1XzcwQjIxNUMx] Divorce :1dunno1: sounds like you married a defective human [/quote] :shesright: Screw spending 1 hour a month fighting with someone you live with over crap you can't change. You're living in hell dood, you need to bounce. I would've bounced after the first nonsensical fight. [/quote] that's the lousy chicken shit way out marriage isn't about giving up and running away with your tail between your legs over the petty bullshit of day to day human interactions and misunderstandings keep your vows: - forsaking all others - for better or worse - for richer or poorer - in sickness and in health ~ ~note: mental illness is not exempted from this vow we're all defective no getting around that marriage is a commitment, covenant, and sacred union it's not all pie in the sky, valentines day every day [/quote] When you kiss your "wife" do you taste her boyfriend's cock? You sure do, because a "real man" wouldn't put up with that crap. OP knew his wife was crazy after the honeymoon ended, he had up to a decade to bounce on her but chose not to. OP chose to endure his misery, he could end his misery and make his wife behave by not tolerating her desire for drama and strife. She acts out because she is bored and wants to be entertained. OP probably likes it when his wife causes crap because he won't put his foot down and bring her into line for the sake of their kids. OP's kids are going to see their parent's relationship as the gold standard for how men and women interact and if OP doesn't do something about it they're going to have relationships just like his. All OP has to do is prove his wife is behaving in a unacceptable manner by not resorting to force because that will show her he's emotionally weak. IF OP shows his wife he'll be fine, or better off without her. She'll suck up to him because she'll be afraid to lose her "happy" home. OP needs to prove to his wife that she isn't worth all the hassle she brings with her, anything else and OP will be bitching about how his wife is complaining about her boyfriend to him. [/quote]
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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.
She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.
I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.
How do you cope?
I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
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