Schools charging AUTISTIC & SPECIAL NEEDS children with ASSAULT!! ????? WTF is wrong with society?

The asshole that I married and still trying to divorce decided to put all my kids in school.

Anyone have any personal experiences to share?

Normal children have SPECIAL NEEDS too, like the need to be protected from violence. Hard as it may be for you to understand, other people do not want THEIR children to be beaten, kicked and spat on on a daily basis during their entire school life, just because their children had the bad luck to get stuck in the same class as your "special" son.

You and your ex should move him to a special school properly equipped to take care of him. Non-special schools are for non-special children, AKA children that can function reasonably normally in a group.

Your son can't do this! He's AUTISTIC for crying out loud! He CAN NOT function in a big group, period! WTF is he doing in a normal school class?!! The only thing that will happen, is that he will ruin the classroom situation completely for everyone.

As an autist, he needs a very controlled and calm environment, where his many convoluted personal routines are undisturbed, and where the teachers have lots of time to spend one-on-one with him. This is NOT the case in a normal school class, so STFU about the teachers not taking proper care of him, or not having the proper "training"! A class teacher CAN'T spend 80 % of the time making sure your son isn't running amok, they have 25 other kids to care for as well! Have you even thought about that?

When people charge these kids with assault, it's simply a desperate attempt to get them out of the way, so the OTHER 25 kids in the class won't have to live in a constant nightmare.

Put him in a suitable school form yourself BEFORE all the other parents have had enough and call on the government to intervene.

That's right... let's lock up all the autistic kids away from the rest of society so the other kids need not be subjected to their violent behaviors? This was exactly what I was talking about earlier...

How about this... how about as a race of humans we realize that we are not robots or zombies or sheep to all be and act the same way and make allowance and understanding for all? How about we teach our kids who are not 'special needs' to consider and make room for kids who are different and unique? How about we teach our 'normal' kids that different does not mean damaged or broken or just wrong?

As a rule, autistic kids are not violent. But how they experience life is very frequently assaulting to them and they are drugged and expected to conform to an assaulting society instead of the society bending and flexing from the rigid 'norms' to accomodate and bring them into the fold. And why? BECAUSE THEY ARE A THREAT TO THE MIND CONTROLLING NATURE OF THIS WORLD TO BRING EVERYONE INTO ASSIMILATION!!!!!

Dont they have schools for the handicapped in your area? My son went 10 yeas to a school for the handicapped now he is 42 and goes to an Adult day center for the handicapped. I would worry to much sending them to a regular school even if they had classrooms for them, they still would have to be around so call normal kids making fun of them, they have feeling too.

Look into sensory integration therapy for your autistic son and help him while you can. In the meantime keep working on getting him out of school. Talk to the judge and tell him your circumstances and concerns. The divorce alone is going to be difficult for your son.

Yes these kids are being targeted deliberately. Hopefully you won't have to find out why the hard way DA but no one is really immune... not even COINTELPRO agents dear.

The asshole that I married and still trying to divorce decided to put all my kids in school.


Sounds like a smart guy.

Anyone have any personal experiences to share?


My autistic nephew is over 21 and occasionally "goes off" in public places, supermarkets, etc. and kicks people who have nothing to do with whoever was with him and triggered the upset (he has 24/7 supervision). He has been charged with assault (justifiedly so, I believe...) at least 3 times and my sister's attorney always gets him off on grounds that he is disabled and the behavior is part of his disability.

I doubt that you can accomplish anything like that outside of school without a lawyer, but there should be some kind of advocate within the school system who could prevent assault charges within a school by reminding administrators of the law.

Anyone have any personal experiences to share?

What's sad is that many school districts don't/can't afford (?) to train their teachers on how to deal with children with Autism. My son has been in a regular classroom the last two years- last year with an aide, this year without. While the primary teachers have been very understanding, I do not believe that the teachers who teach gym and art and other "special" classes, are understanding at all. They do not know how to handle these kids, I think partly because there has never been a reason to train them. They also see kids like these maybe once a week, for an hour at most. So when the child exhibits behavior they're not used to, they assume the kid is acting out on purpose, and so they treat them like they would any other student. A better understand of child with Autism's needs - be it sensory, behavioral, social - is necessary. It should be a requirement that all teachers go through some kind of seminar or something. I have heard from therapists that working with these teachers can be a nightmare, because many have never heard of Sensory Processing, much less believe it's an actual diagnosis of a serious problem. My son has gotten in trouble twice this year for things which in my belief, were not really in his control. It's ridiculous. He's only 7, though. Puberty has not come into play yet, and I really don't look forward to when it does.

Just a theory:

Autism is not a disorder but more of a genetic mutation that has arisen from centuries of humans being bloodlined and genetically tampered with in order to be mind controlled. Autistics are resistant to it. I am not just talking about full blown autistics, I am talking about the full spectrum. So other means must be implemented to control them. Sometimes they are tortured, of course more often they are refered to psych agencies that isolate and pigeonhole them away from mainstream (mind controlled) society. In the case of this thread they are being labled as violent and crazy and treated as criminals for reacting to the insanity around them that is a slave existence. Autistics see this very clearly because of the resistance to programming. Many higher functioning autistics get hearded into the new age movement to be programmed and controlled as indigo or crystal children.

Interesting the OP's kid is an autistic. Explains alot.

Normal children have SPECIAL NEEDS too, like the need to be protected from violence. Hard as it may be for you to understand, other people do not want THEIR children to be beaten, kicked and spat on on a daily basis during their entire school life, just because their children had the bad luck to get stuck in the same class as your "special" son.

You and your ex should move him to a special school properly equipped to take care of him. Non-special schools are for non-special children, AKA children that can function reasonably normally in a group.

Your son can't do this! He's AUTISTIC for crying out loud! He CAN NOT function in a big group, period! WTF is he doing in a normal school class?!! The only thing that will happen, is that he will ruin the classroom situation completely for everyone.

As an autist, he needs a very controlled and calm environment, where his many convoluted personal routines are undisturbed, and where the teachers have lots of time to spend one-on-one with him. This is NOT the case in a normal school class, so STFU about the teachers not taking proper care of him, or not having the proper "training"! A class teacher CAN'T spend 80 % of the time making sure your son isn't running amok, they have 25 other kids to care for as well! Have you even thought about that?

When people charge these kids with assault, it's simply a desperate attempt to get them out of the way, so the OTHER 25 kids in the class won't have to live in a constant nightmare.

Put him in a suitable school form yourself BEFORE all the other parents have had enough and call on the government to intervene.

Normal children have SPECIAL NEEDS too, like the need to be protected from violence. Hard as it may be for you to understand, other people do not want THEIR children to be beaten, kicked and spat on on a daily basis during their entire school life, just because their children had the bad luck to get stuck in the same class as your "special" son.

You and your ex should move him to a special school properly equipped to take care of him. Non-special schools are for non-special children, AKA children that can function reasonably normally in a group.

Your son can't do this! He's AUTISTIC for crying out loud! He CAN NOT function in a big group, period! WTF is he doing in a normal school class?!! The only thing that will happen, is that he will ruin the classroom situation completely for everyone.

As an autist, he needs a very controlled and calm environment, where his many convoluted personal routines are undisturbed, and where the teachers have lots of time to spend one-on-one with him. This is NOT the case in a normal school class, so STFU about the teachers not taking proper care of him, or not having the proper "training"! A class teacher CAN'T spend 80 % of the time making sure your son isn't running amok, they have 25 other kids to care for as well! Have you even thought about that?

When people charge these kids with assault, it's simply a desperate attempt to get them out of the way, so the OTHER 25 kids in the class won't have to live in a constant nightmare.

Put him in a suitable school form yourself BEFORE all the other parents have had enough and call on the government to intervene.



That's right... let's lock up all the autistic kids away from the rest of society so the other kids need not be subjected to their violent behaviors? This was exactly what I was talking about earlier...

How about this... how about as a race of humans we realize that we are not robots or zombies or sheep to all be and act the same way and make allowance and understanding for all? How about we teach our kids who are not 'special needs' to consider and make room for kids who are different and unique? How about we teach our 'normal' kids that different does not mean damaged or broken or just wrong?

As a rule, autistic kids are not violent. But how they experience life is very frequently assaulting to them and they are drugged and expected to conform to an assaulting society instead of the society bending and flexing from the rigid 'norms' to accomodate and bring them into the fold. And why? BECAUSE THEY ARE A THREAT TO THE MIND CONTROLLING NATURE OF THIS WORLD TO BRING EVERYONE INTO ASSIMILATION!!!!!

Try this: Special people do not have the right to abuse others just because they're special. And if they are so special this is impossible for them to live by, they will have to be removed from the rest of society.

That's right... let's lock up all the autistic kids away from the rest of society so the other kids need not be subjected to their violent behaviors? This was exactly what I was talking about earlier...


Still not getting it I see...

Try this: Special people do not have the right to abuse others just because they're special. And if they are so special this is impossible for them to live by, they will have to be removed from the rest of society.


How about this... how about as a race of humans we realize that we are not robots or zombies or sheep to all be and act the same way and make allowance and understanding for all? How about we teach our kids who are not 'special needs' to consider and make room for kids who are different and unique? How about we teach our 'normal' kids that different does not mean damaged or broken or just wrong?


Yeah right. So you actually expect the parents to normal children to say:

"Yes, my son, I understand this other boy kicks you and spits on you, and disturbs order in the classroom so that no-one can get any work done, and that he drove the old teacher you loved to quit the job in frustration over her impossible workload. But you have to realize there is nothing wrong with this boy, he is just DIFFERENT! You must learn to understand and allow this! The next time he spits on you, remember this doesn't mean he's "damaged" or "broken" somehow! There is nothing wrong with him, it is YOU who need to learn to accept other people as they are! Now stop crying, and off to school with you!"

What an insane dream world you live in!


As a rule, autistic kids are not violent. But how they experience life is very frequently assaulting to them and they are drugged and expected to conform to an assaulting society instead of the society bending and flexing from the rigid 'norms' to accomodate and bring them into the fold. And why? BECAUSE THEY ARE A THREAT TO THE MIND CONTROLLING NATURE OF THIS WORLD TO BRING EVERYONE INTO ASSIMILATION!!!!!


Yes, it is necessary to ACCOMODATE these children, and the only way to do this is to put them in a special class, where they have the time and resources to do it, and where the expectations of performance can be put on a suitably low level.

Why were you against this again?

Try this: Special people do not have the right to abuse others just because they're special. And if they are so special this is impossible for them to live by, they will have to be removed from the rest of society.



I have an autistic son and I agree. We have already removed him from school once because we saw him repeatedly bully a smaller child and the teaching staff would just let it take place. If our child is a danger to another's well-being it is our responsibility to stop it.

Unfortunately, there is not enough support for these children. An education in my country is a human right, yet they don't seem to want to educate autistic children in my part of the world. Please remove him from the rest of society to a special group! The ABA playgroup we took him to at our own expense was only 2 hours a week but it was much better for him. Believe me, no one, except those with an autistic child (and I'm not talking about that aspergers shit), knows what an ordeal it is to have one. Yet that doesn't give us the right to be insensitive to the needs of others.

PS: We also found our child's behaviour did worsen when he began to attend school.

Just a theory:

Autism is not a disorder but more of a genetic mutation that has arisen from centuries of humans being bloodlined and genetically tampered with in order to be mind controlled. Autistics are resistant to it. I am not just talking about full blown autistics, I am talking about the full spectrum. So other means must be implemented to control them. Sometimes they are tortured, of course more often they are refered to psych agencies that isolate and pigeonhole them away from mainstream (mind controlled) society. In the case of this thread they are being labled as violent and crazy and treated as criminals for reacting to the insanity around them that is a slave existence. Autistics see this very clearly because of the resistance to programming. Many higher functioning autistics get hearded into the new age movement to be programmed and controlled as indigo or crystal children.

Interesting the OP's kid is an autistic. Explains alot.

My son's behavior has become sooooo much WORSE since he started school. He is much more angry and aggressive and it's making life at home a living hell!