FACT: Monogomy is the SINGLE BIGGEST LIE ever unloaded onto humanity.

Thats right ! .. Free pussy for all damn it !

The old ball and chain on yer back again eh?

Then explain jealousy. If we were not meant to be monogamous, why would we experience such a powerful emotion over one particular person?

Easy.

Jealousy creates competition.

Competition is key to advancement.

next?

Why don't you just let people decide for themselves what they want? Make your own choice and don't worry about others.

Unfortunate that it didn't.

Now we have the human virus unleashing ridiculous amounts of pollution and disease on the planet...

Disease spread through sex, through pollution, through everything humans touch...

The result of humans NOT going extinct is a slow degrading process of the death of humans (and probably all other life on earth) through horrible biological illness being regurgitated and bred through all humans until they're too sickly and disease ridden to survive anymore.

Taking with it all other (more) valuable life on the planet, because of the destructive and uncontrollable nature of the human.

Absolutely worthless, it would seem. At least that's what I'm writing down.

Hard to argue with that.

So why don't lions experience the same?

And why do post-menopausal women experience it, when there's no need for competition at that point?

Monogamy might not be right for YOU, but the majority of us seem okay with it.

GOOD POINT !

I'm sure lions and many other animals feel jealousy...my dog gets jealous when I'm playing with my cat for too long...seriously.

Jealously has nothing to do with sex anyway. It's much more far reaching.

Monogomy is a man-made creation. Created via religious indoctrination to CONTROL you.

Hurt, betrayal, the list goes on & on. Maybe OP has never really been in love.

Seems unfair for the women, from my western perspective.

Sure, a different girl occasionally for sex.. would be awesome.

But what about the woman?
What if he satisfies her sexually, and stimulates her mind... basically being everything she needs.

What would be her incentive on being with different men?


Are women wired like us now?

I enjoy looking but I don't think it would be right to my girl to be with other people. Vice versa.

yeah haha fuck you, MAN

You are right, monogomy is not natural, but it's doable, especially in a strong culture.

I disagree. I have total control as to who I sleep with, form relationships with, etc. I'm simply just a one-man kind of woman.

I dated a man who sounds exactly like you. He wanted an open relationship, so I cut him free and started dating someone else. He ended up being over-the-top jealous and abruptly changed his mindset.

Perhaps you simply haven't found a woman worth being monogamous with. The moment you do, I'm sure you'll change your tune and tout the benefits of having a soul-deep connection to one specific person.

Those are all emotions used to secure a mate. Of course you need to secure a mate long enough to reproduce a time or two, but if you truly believe we were ever meant to be with one person forever, you're simply a religious nut, and have no place in this debate.

All I can say,Is I hope I do not get shot by one of my three girlfriends.Its a distracting lifestyle.May sound like fun.But I have never played the role of a liar.Swinger yea.I try to break up with a couple of em.And its drama until I give in,Because I am just way to nice.

Remember, monogomy means ONE PERSON...that's it.

If monogomy were natural, then why is the divorce/separation rate at 60%+?

Why do people cheat over and over?

What to you seems more "natural"?

Were I a religious nut, I would have a place in any debate I so chose. As it is, I am not religious whatsoever and am well versed in the mind-control we are subjected to.

Jealousy can continue for a lifetime, whether offspring are produced or not. We are not simply physical beings; if we were, I might agree with you. You are discounting an entire side to humanity, and this is why we will never agree on this particular topic.

Monogomy was meant to control disease such as std's. Probably the main reason was so one would know who their baby's daddy is.

I've been in love 1 time, we broke up...11 years ago. I still love him & would be with him & only him should he walk back into my life today.

You must have a penis...and in that case you have no place in this debate, Man.

Because of the mind-control you speak of. United we stand, divided we fall. TPTB have successfully split up the family unit, thanks to fuelling the ego that exists within all of us.

Sex is now considered more important than love, the stress of money is responsible for most breakups, etc. etc. etc. The list is endless, really.

How can people NOT cheat over and over when sex is thrown in their faces wherever they look? When men use porn to get off instead of investing their time with their partner?

With my ex in particular, he was more interested in getting HIMSELF off (through porn, through quickies, etc.) and was an incredibly selfish lover, which left me ridiculously unsatisfied. Had I been a different kind of person, I would have cheated. Instead, I ended it and am now very happy with a very selfless man.

Yes, it's coming to me now...you have a penis and you've never really loved a woman. End of debate.

No women aren't wired for casual sex or sex as a sport. They may act as they are but when they are home alone crying thier eyes out because they are ashamed of themselves.

I have been married to my husband for 24 years and have never had any desire to be with anyone else. I don't want anyone else. I am 100% sure he feels the same about me.

Maybe some people view sex differently but I think it's more about the closeness and the fact that someone loves you. Maybe I am just old fashioned!!!

I dunno, OP. Sex with my wife is orders of magnitude better than anything I had before marriage.

Were not supposed to be monogamous. The whole LOVE MAGIC has been so commercialized that it doesnt even make it as a mere mention in any of the previous reply's to this post.

LOVE is the energy that we humans have and we choose to materialize its expression and we seek to want to own its characteristics.

One must question first the motive of being married. Not that having a soul-mate or being accompanied throughout your life thru blissful marriage isnt fulfilling.

But all humans are a vastly different levels of consciousness. Some of us are wise enough to know we long and desire the company of just one more soul. And the rest of us are still trying partners on for size.

THE FACT THAT THESE ACTIONS are judged and even measured to be help up to someone else's indoctrinated dogma of righteousness is a blasphemous challenge to the idea of experimenting in evolution thru homosepians.

i think people get jealous because they are acculturated to be insecure.

I’d take one women over none…

And besides having more than one would drive me nuts.

Even good Relationships are emotionally draining.

So why the hell you would want to multiply that is beyond me.

programmed to be fearful of not being able to predict whats being programmed into their brains.

So if you really like someone you have sex with, you wouldn't care if they sleep around and then come around again?
Yuk
I would.