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User ID: 1389183 United States 05/22/2011 11:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think you need to get comfortable with being alone. You know you can't always count on someone being around and needing or craving to be in a relationship in order to feel fulfilled isn't a good thing in my opinion. Quoting: DebaucheryNo way, I think if you can be comfortable with being alone and stay comfortable with being alone you have lost something of your humanity. Having a partner is an essential part of being homo sapiens. The world is designed for people in pairs. And I have to agree with OP the worst thing in the world is when you're sick and no one is there to bring you that cup of tea or bowl of chicken soup. Think are right, if not then their enters Homo Sexual not Homo Sapien Tired of all these damn christians, muslims, jews, the church of this and the church of that. I fart in your general direction. Brian the Lion the Onion of France aka The Anti Christ, Lucifer Merlin The White Necromancer Paolin The Evil One - King Solomon RaHolDon MeTeTron HoPe JETT King Of Atlantis Last of The Fallen Zeus of Olympus |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1396149 Poland 05/22/2011 11:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Pft, don't come to me with that shit. Quoting: Mister ObviousNobody will tell you to fuck off quicker. I KNOW what it's like to be alone. I bet you don't actually know, considering you mentioned HAVING FRIENDS. Look, I learned to UNDERSTAND and LOVE myself through BEING ALONE. I suggest you fucking do the same. If you are talking the way you just did. maybe you need to work on loving yourself a little more, 'cuz it sounds like a little hostility coming from your direction. |
Debauchery
User ID: 1201998 United States 05/22/2011 11:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think you need to get comfortable with being alone. You know you can't always count on someone being around and needing or craving to be in a relationship in order to feel fulfilled isn't a good thing in my opinion. Quoting: DebaucheryNo way, I think if you can be comfortable with being alone and stay comfortable with being alone you have lost something of your humanity. Having a partner is an essential part of being homo sapiens. The world is designed for people in pairs. And I have to agree with OP the worst thing in the world is when you're sick and no one is there to bring you that cup of tea or bowl of chicken soup. I think it depends on a few different factors. We're not all built the same. I was married, I got used to living with someone and then it was over and I was alone and I loved it. It's given me time to focus on myself, who I am, what I really want out of life and so on. I enjoy it immensely..I also have 2 children that occupy my time, I have a full life. I don't need a sexual partner to fulfill me at all. I've experienced that, it was lovely at the time but life is full of so many other things. You can't dictate what's right for others, or say a person has lost their humanity if they don't have a desire to partner up. We all have our needs and as I said they're not all the same. And the LORD spake, saying, "First shalt thou take out the Holy Pin, then shalt thou count to three, no more, no less. Three shall be the number thou shalt count, and the number of the counting shall be three. Four shalt thou not count, neither count thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be reached, then lobbest thou thy Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch towards thy foe, who being naughty in My sight, shall snuff it. I am an evil giraffe, and I shall eat more leaves from this tree than perhaps I should, so that other giraffes may die. |
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User ID: 1389183 United States 05/22/2011 11:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Pft, don't come to me with that shit. Quoting: Mister ObviousNobody will tell you to fuck off quicker. I KNOW what it's like to be alone. I bet you don't actually know, considering you mentioned HAVING FRIENDS. Look, I learned to UNDERSTAND and LOVE myself through BEING ALONE. I suggest you fucking do the same. If you are talking the way you just did. maybe you need to work on loving yourself a little more, 'cuz it sounds like a little hostility coming from your direction. She is saying it is good to love yourself but we will never be entirely One with our Father in Heaven until we are in Heaven. And anyone who trys to tell her otherwise can fuck of and meet Michael at the Gates of the Abyss me thinks Tired of all these damn christians, muslims, jews, the church of this and the church of that. I fart in your general direction. Brian the Lion the Onion of France aka The Anti Christ, Lucifer Merlin The White Necromancer Paolin The Evil One - King Solomon RaHolDon MeTeTron HoPe JETT King Of Atlantis Last of The Fallen Zeus of Olympus |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1396149 Poland 05/22/2011 11:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe you should consider having less than 18 cats. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 983877Fewer. The word is fewer. Not this time, chumsky. Independent units call for the word fewer. When it is an aggregate, then the word is less. You can have less Jello, not fewer Jello because Jello is one thing. You can have fewer Jello pops because those are independent units. |
Haha TolD ya so
User ID: 1389183 United States 05/22/2011 11:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Pft, don't come to me with that shit. Quoting: Mister ObviousNobody will tell you to fuck off quicker. I KNOW what it's like to be alone. I bet you don't actually know, considering you mentioned HAVING FRIENDS. Look, I learned to UNDERSTAND and LOVE myself through BEING ALONE. I suggest you fucking do the same. If you are talking the way you just did. maybe you need to work on loving yourself a little more, 'cuz it sounds like a little hostility coming from your direction. She is saying it is good to love yourself but we will never be entirely One with our Father in Heaven until we are in Heaven. And anyone who trys to tell her otherwise can fuck of and meet Michael at the Gates of the Abyss me thinks Type sorry I meant Fuck Off Tired of all these damn christians, muslims, jews, the church of this and the church of that. I fart in your general direction. Brian the Lion the Onion of France aka The Anti Christ, Lucifer Merlin The White Necromancer Paolin The Evil One - King Solomon RaHolDon MeTeTron HoPe JETT King Of Atlantis Last of The Fallen Zeus of Olympus |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 983877 United States 05/22/2011 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe you should consider having less than 18 cats. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 983877Fewer. The word is fewer. Not this time, chumsky. Independent units call for the word fewer. When it is an aggregate, then the word is less. You can have less Jello, not fewer Jello because Jello is one thing. You can have fewer Jello pops because those are independent units. You live alone, don't you. |
hillcrest3
User ID: 1377753 United States 05/22/2011 11:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Once you're comfortable w/ & enjoy being alone then you're ready to be w/ someone. imho Quoting: CasinoPimpyep, that's the way it happened for me.. as soon as I accepted being alone, tne most wonderful, kindest man just showed up he is in Wiscsonin and his name is Al and everyday I grow to appreciate him more a song for him: My sweet Al: [link to www.youtube.com] Last Edited by hillcrest3 on 05/22/2011 11:54 PM Water always wins. |
ufoptics
User ID: 1366653 United States 05/22/2011 11:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My friends here have been with me for,lo these many years but I am TIRED of being alone. What am I doing wrong? What should I change? I do not want to 'go gentle into that good-night!Rage! Rage against the dying of the light!'. Quoting: Meow...Enjoy, thought I'd do something nice for you....hope it brightens your day/night. Your have friends here! |
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ObeyTheOctopus
User ID: 1388231 United States 05/23/2011 12:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Alone fifteen years? Wish I could say that. I wish everyone would just leave me the fuck alone, but they all want a piece of me all the time. I'm gonna sail off by myself, at least in the middle of the ocean they will leave me alone. But eventually I will have to make landfall, and then they will all want a piece of me again. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1270266Story of my life. Oh well... Amen to that. Being alone is awesome and liberating. Only the weak and helpless are terrified by it. Hell is other people. "Buy the ticket, take the ride." |
Prisoner of Technology
User ID: 792783 United States 05/23/2011 12:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No one has ever seen a perfect circle, nor a perfectly straight line, yet everyone knows what a circle and a straight line are. Perceived circles or lines are not exactly circular or straight, and true circles and lines could never be detected since by definition they are sets of infinitely small points. |
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TwinSister
User ID: 1372751 United States 05/23/2011 12:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My friends here have been with me for,lo these many years but I am TIRED of being alone. What am I doing wrong? What should I change? I do not want to 'go gentle into that good-night!Rage! Rage against the dying of the light!'. Quoting: Meow...Enjoy, thought I'd do something nice for you....hope it brightens your day/night. Your have friends here! ;) If you don't have control of your mind.....someone else will! |
Dildozer
User ID: 1396122 United States 05/23/2011 12:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Single people always want to be married and married people generally want to be single. In my opinion, the "friend with benefits" is the best of both worlds. My $0.02 -Dildozer |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1394053 United States 05/23/2011 12:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hey OP- Won't bore you with my story, but I think I know where you're at. I'm guessing you're like in your late 20's. It's a transitional time anyway for most anyone who is paying attention. And you definitely seem like you are. So trust your instincts first. Seems like you might need a little practice with trusting anyhow, (sounds like for good reason too). So, be honest with yourself about all of that and work to grow out of the pattern of distrust and victimhood. It served a purpose for you, but your growing beyond it and wanting more for yourself. First step, check. So take a step of faith and put yourself into a new environment (mentally and physically) where you can discover new beauty and goodness. Eat well, exercise, be mindful of the quality of the stuff you are consuming intellectually too. Go for quality stuff. Next, I think placing yourself in the right places is key. Places that attract people who ha ve qualities you admire and aspire to. Church? School? Volunteering to help others? Give it some real thought... what you really need and want... something sustainable and real. Then step out and be humble with others and patient with yourself. Probably the most important thing is to look beyond yourself... know and experience something greater than just "me." Once your get your mind off of "me" you'll find things have a way of working out for the better. Learn to look for other people who have mastered the same. General BS here, but I hope some of it helps. FWIW, I have a good feeling that you will do great. Oh, yeah, btw... get the hell away from GLP! Serious!! LOL!! |
Meow...
(OP) User ID: 1236021 United States 05/23/2011 01:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband died over three years ago and I still haven't been in a good relationship, or one that lasted more than a few dates. And its not them its me, I just stop answering the phone and don't return calls. I don't know whats wrong with me. Why was I stupid enough to answer the phone and call back the dick who was just screwing with me? Idiot! I am tired of being alone too. Quoting: SupaflyI feel for you. I do the same thing. Why??? The evil that men do lives after them. 'A Republic,if you can keep it.' |
Meow...
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1395743 United States 05/23/2011 01:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My friends here have been with me for,lo these many years but I am TIRED of being alone. What am I doing wrong? What should I change? I do not want to 'go gentle into that good-night!Rage! Rage against the dying of the light!'. Quoting: Meow...I know how you feel. I meet a lot of women and enjoy their company but none that I feel that I can cherish and hold for the rest of my life. |
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JDUB User ID: 741538 United States 05/23/2011 02:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My friends here have been with me for,lo these many years but I am TIRED of being alone. What am I doing wrong? What should I change? I do not want to 'go gentle into that good-night!Rage! Rage against the dying of the light!'. Quoting: Meow...I am too tired of feeling alone. What we don't realize is that in our heart we are not alone. Soon we'll all know that we're never alone. It's a deception. I'm here for you friend. LOVE |
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Meow...
(OP) User ID: 1236021 United States 05/23/2011 02:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My friends here have been with me for,lo these many years but I am TIRED of being alone. What am I doing wrong? What should I change? I do not want to 'go gentle into that good-night!Rage! Rage against the dying of the light!'. Quoting: Meow...I am too tired of feeling alone. What we don't realize is that in our heart we are not alone. Soon we'll all know that we're never alone. It's a deception. I'm here for you friend. LOVE Thank you. I am amazed at the friends I've found here...kindred hearts. The evil that men do lives after them. 'A Republic,if you can keep it.' |
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Sammie
User ID: 1256469 United States 05/23/2011 02:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Pft, don't come to me with that shit. Quoting: Mister ObviousNobody will tell you to fuck off quicker. I KNOW what it's like to be alone. I bet you don't actually know, considering you mentioned HAVING FRIENDS. Look, I learned to UNDERSTAND and LOVE myself through BEING ALONE. I suggest you fucking do the same. very sage advice and after all we are all truly alone not to belittle your desire OP but it is just that, you desire attachment and attachment causes suffering the grass is usually greener on the other side change your perception and realize how many blessing being single brings. count those blessings. be grateful for them and try to let go of the urge to cling to another. i think if you stop hungering for it and seeking it, it will find you. just let go of it. you are very much a whole and complete being all on your own. embrace that change your thoughts....change your world "Beware lest you lose the substance by grasping at the shadow". ~Aesop "Once in a dream I saw a snake swallowing its own tail, it swallowed and swallowed until it got halfway round, and there it stopped and there it stayed, it was stuffed with its own self. Some fix, that. We only have ourselves to go on, and it’s enough…" -Charles Bukowski "Grasping at things can only yield one of two results: Either the thing you are grasping at disappears, or you yourself disappear. It is only a matter of which occurs first." -Goenka |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1388659 Canada 05/23/2011 02:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Once you're comfortable w/ & enjoy being alone then you're ready to be w/ someone. imho Quoting: CasinoPimpyep, that's the way it happened for me.. as soon as I accepted being alone, tne most wonderful, kindest man just showed up Not me. I just said f*** it, I'm going to put all my effort into meeting someone. Approached it like a job hunt, and sent a message out to the Universe about what I wanted. I went on speed dating, online sites, asked friends to introduce me to single guys at every opportunity, forced myself to be more outgoing. In the space of about two months I met my now husband. Be outgoing, open-minded, always on the lookout, get to know the guy before ANYTHING else, socialize as often as you can outside of your comfort zone, change your attitude and realize that's your biggest barrier and you WILL meet someone. If you are moving and don't change your attitude you will meet a great guy just before you leave. If you DO change your attitude - new place, new you, you'll settle in a lot better and will probably meet a great guy fairly quickly. |