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Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...

 
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Stop talking to the stupid stuck up bitch ...
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I am just terribly pissed and I need to cool off a bit before I confront him. I just think it's time to stop making excuses for his inadequacies and see it for what it really is.
 Quoting: Pink Taco


confront him WHY. SO WHAT. the oldest is old enough to comb her hair, let it ge cut off then.
 Quoting: Nobody in Particular


Noooooo...the hair is in "stasis"; silly

cruise
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01/01/2012 11:13 PM
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
for you OP

:Dr. Seuss:
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01/01/2012 11:14 PM
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If he is a gambler and a thief I am surprised she is even letting him spend time with the girls. But she is...
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01/01/2012 11:14 PM
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Wow, I seems to be a whole lot of blind judgements being thrown around. I am certain that those of you with the nasty comments are probably compensating for your own inadequacies. Keep chucking those stones. Maybe you will feel a little better about your pathetic lives by putting someone else down.
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Well you started this whole thing off by proving you aren't a lady. Who the hell names themselves "Pink Taco"??That's fucking lewd and everyone here agrees.

You're most likely just as whorish in real life, considering you chose to represent yourself as "Pink Taco" WTF?
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01/01/2012 11:15 PM
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If he is a gambler and a thief I am surprised she is even letting him spend time with the girls. But she is...
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You believe she is telling the truth ... lol
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01/01/2012 11:15 PM
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OMG! Mosquito Bites! OMG! He let the children out of doors!
Men are such beasts! Oh the drama!

Count the one star votes.
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01/01/2012 11:16 PM
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You feel like you do everything and he is not stepping up to the plate, correct?
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Yes. I am so afraid that he just want's the kids to disappear. They need happy interaction with both parents. They ask to see him.
 Quoting: Pink Taco


You and him seperated for reasons. Is he still displaying the characteristics that led to the seperation?
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The separation was because he spent our life savings on a gambling addiction. He hid it for years and when he was offered treatment and help he chose to sell his truck and disappear for 3 months. When he returned he stole jewelry from his grandmother and took another hiatus. The third time he came home the house was empty and I moved into something smaller that I could manage alone. The home we lived in was owned out right. His parents purchased it. I moved when I got a notice he took out a mortgage on it and it was to be foreclosed on.
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His loss, he sounds like he wasted a good woman. Its hard and irritating sometimes but try to keep the peace for the sake of the children as much as possible. No harm no foul.
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01/02/2012 12:03 AM
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
You remind me of my ex wife. A controlling bitch. I almost stopped seeing my daughter because my ex was destroying my life as best she could. First and last marriage. Too bad most women nowadays are life you. /puke
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01/02/2012 12:05 AM
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Hard to take seriously anything written by an alleged woman who calls herself "Pink Taco"
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01/02/2012 12:21 AM
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I'd say the kids are screwed either way. A dad who lets them sit in filth all weekend and a mother who decides the best nickname to describe herself is "pink taco".

I bet they think your bedroom is a truck stop...
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01/02/2012 12:30 AM
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I must be old..what is a pink taco
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01/02/2012 12:38 AM
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you sound like a prima donna self indulgent narcissistic cunt.
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01/02/2012 12:39 AM
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
They were in the same clothes I sent them in. My 9 year old's hair is so tangled it may need to be cut. The 2 year old has 15 mosquito bites on her little legs and they have not brushed their teeth the whole weekend. I am furious. My 9 year old told me that they don't have to take baths until right before I come and that since I came an hour early that's why they look dirty???? Can this be grounds for supervised visits? Apparently this is his "normal" behavior? I could spit nails right now!
 Quoting: Pink Taco


Usually dads send kids back in the same clothes because we never see the new clothes we bought for them to wear during our "visits" returned (kids visit relatives and have shared custody with parents, even if just weekends). Thats what I do, as I otherwise have my kids show up every weekend in older clothes and sent back in new clothes that never come back. This is just typical and nothing to rage about. Your reading too much into it. Did they spend the whole weekend in the same, unwashed, clothes?

Mosquito bites? Sounds like dad took kids out of the house like dads should do. My kids love fishing and hikes, and mosquito bites are just part of that. Better than TV? Yes. Child abuse? No.

Kids say teeth not brushed for two days? Well, not good and not child abuse. Say something and he will change his ways out of shame. Not good but not the end of the world eighter. Be a problem solver, not a drama starter.

Given your reaction, I would guess that you are vindictive and itching to get back at him for god knows what. But its not about you. Its about the kids. They have a right to have access and time to both parents, so be a responsible and reasonable parent. Voice your concerns and see that your concerns are addressed rather than "getting even" and robbing your kids of what little time they might still have with their father. Some really petty gripes you've got there....
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01/02/2012 12:44 AM
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I am just terribly pissed and I need to cool off a bit before I confront him. I just think it's time to stop making excuses for his inadequacies and see it for what it really is.
 Quoting: Pink Taco


confront him WHY. SO WHAT. the oldest is old enough to comb her hair, let it ge cut off then.
 Quoting: Nobody in Particular


Noooooo...the hair is in "stasis"; silly

cruise
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Can you get UFOs to comb your hair?
Anonymous Coward
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01/02/2012 12:45 AM
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
So get a grip !!!


If I was your new man, I'd say....Honey, he's their father, if they don't mind dads rough and tumble ways then pack them up some mozzie rub, ask them why they didn't brush thier hair and cleen their teeth.

Hug your little ones and tell them you and dady love them, and its good to have this just the way it is.

Dads love in dad ways.


Mums in mum ways.



Dad will never spit on his sleave and wipe your face over, but heck who says his love is wrong.


Just chill......


You will see it is all fantastic really, please don't be too fussy, treat it like away camping.


Sounds like something wonderfull you can't control, so don't fuck it up !!!

churchlady
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01/02/2012 12:47 AM
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Stop answering this fucking troll.
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01/02/2012 12:48 AM
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this thread is fucking hilarious.

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fuck ewwwwwwww OP
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01/02/2012 12:48 AM
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I must be old..what is a pink taco
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A vagina apparently ... sick bitch.
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01/02/2012 12:57 AM
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
OP makes sense of one thing seen recently

once you go black
you're a single mom
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01/02/2012 01:02 AM
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Op is a woman who calls herself vagina and puts up the picture of another woman getting it doggy style ... it's easy to see who is the bad parent!!!

What is your job ... a prostitute?

Do you let the kids watch?
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01/02/2012 01:08 AM
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
Sounds like the 9 year old's hair tangles easily. Get her some detangler. Her dad will spray it on if she asks him. This takes like two seconds. Otherwise, she should be good on her own. Teach her to help the littler girl to wash her face and hands, brush her teeth, and comb her hair. Skipping one bath isn't so serious.

You might ask your ex if you need to send different stuff than you're sending. He might not know for certain what to even buy if they need something different.

I kind of don't believe this thread. But, people are right... this isn't really a big deal.
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01/02/2012 01:11 AM
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
The majority of these comments are ridiculous and it's no wonder men get a bad reputation. It doesn't matter if the oldest can take care of herself or not, that is irrelevant. Love is not just a word or a feeling it's a meaning. He may say he loves them but when you love someone you treat them with respect and do everything possible to show it. What is the point of having children if you want nothing to do with them. I am a 28 year old man with a wife and child and I could never imagine treating my daughter that way. My father wasnt around my whole life and I think that is better than being treated like garbage. You remember things and when they get older they will wonder why he did'nt want to do anything with them other than play video games or why he did'nt provide food, or why he did nothing but be a dead beat. You're making this lady feel like she is doing something wrong when all she is doing is caring for her children. It sounds like he is an unfit father and should be supervised, who knows what else could be going on.
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01/02/2012 01:42 AM
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
i gotta call bullshit on some of the comments here. Thinking back to my couple separations in which i had the kid and kids(s).

I GOT NEWS FOR SOME OF YOU.

The reason, as i learned from my own experience, is because we guys JUST DONT KNOW. We never did it, never worried about it. We are not nurturers.

in my case i had help from my mother, to show me how to brush my kids hair, set times for brushing teethe, changing clothes. Etc. etc. And my wifes mother showed and helped me too.

After a while i LEARNED how to be a nurturer.

And surprise, surprise. I became the anal parent. I was fanatic with "brushy teethey time" and had a system for everything, kids structured, all food groups each meal..
Then i sent the kids back to their mother, and i was freaking out ON HER, for not giving them a vegetable or not keeping the schedule.
I had the kids putting whatever they took out back, chores down. The mother was more so the slacker is how it panned out and i was giving HER a hard time.

But ill admit, i never quite got the braiding my daughters hair thing down but i brushed the hell out of it and her clothes were spotless. All her clothes cleaned when returned no dirty laundry shipped back and she even had a organizer for her things to bring with her.
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01/02/2012 01:43 AM
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Op is a woman who calls herself vagina and puts up the picture of another woman getting it doggy style ... it's easy to see who is the bad parent!!!

What is your job ... a prostitute?

Do you let the kids watch?
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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 945308
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01/02/2012 01:44 AM
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
After reading all kinds of STUPID stuff...this one finally is the STUPIDEST you take the cake Pink Taco...At least he wants to spend time with them and that's what is important to keep in mind..your daughters will cherish any and all memories made with their Father...I hope for their sake you aren't poisoning their minds with your vitriolic inane ranting about their Father...I'm not saying he's perfect, but you owe them the opportunity to love their Father without feeling they are choosing him over you...and you know that's what this really all about...I'm guessing you were a middle child and always felt your parents didn't care as much for you as they did your siblings...you should seek professional counseling for yourself...there's some good ones out there...think good things and be thankful he isn't physically, verbal abusive...You sound like you're a good mom and want what's best for your kids...and a good relationship with their Father is especially important for girls...it will color all their future relationships...so as long as he isn't dangerous or puts them in truly dangerous situations and doesn't commit mental, physical, verbal or any other kind of abuse...you should acknowledge people have different styles and you obviously differ between his and yours...maybe try asking in kind motherly way if he would make sure they bathe more than once and try and use some bug spray...Lighten up Francis...
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
The majority of these comments are ridiculous and it's no wonder men get a bad reputation. It doesn't matter if the oldest can take care of herself or not, that is irrelevant. Love is not just a word or a feeling it's a meaning. He may say he loves them but when you love someone you treat them with respect and do everything possible to show it. What is the point of having children if you want nothing to do with them. I am a 28 year old man with a wife and child and I could never imagine treating my daughter that way. My father wasnt around my whole life and I think that is better than being treated like garbage. You remember things and when they get older they will wonder why he did'nt want to do anything with them other than play video games or why he did'nt provide food, or why he did nothing but be a dead beat. You're making this lady feel like she is doing something wrong when all she is doing is caring for her children. It sounds like he is an unfit father and should be supervised, who knows what else could be going on.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6839101


Fuck off idiot, the man did feed the kids and he played with them and they love being with him so how did he treat them like garbage?

The mother comes on forums and calls herself vagina and posts a picture of woman having it doggy style ... two bets as to who is the bad parent!
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01/02/2012 02:08 AM
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
The majority of these comments are ridiculous and it's no wonder men get a bad reputation. It doesn't matter if the oldest can take care of herself or not, that is irrelevant. Love is not just a word or a feeling it's a meaning. He may say he loves them but when you love someone you treat them with respect and do everything possible to show it. What is the point of having children if you want nothing to do with them. I am a 28 year old man with a wife and child and I could never imagine treating my daughter that way. My father wasnt around my whole life and I think that is better than being treated like garbage. You remember things and when they get older they will wonder why he did'nt want to do anything with them other than play video games or why he did'nt provide food, or why he did nothing but be a dead beat. You're making this lady feel like she is doing something wrong when all she is doing is caring for her children. It sounds like he is an unfit father and should be supervised, who knows what else could be going on.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6839101


i gotta call bullshit on some of the comments here. Thinking back to my couple separations in which i had the kid and kids(s).

I GOT NEWS FOR SOME OF YOU.

The reason, as i learned from my own experience, is because we guys JUST DONT KNOW. We never did it, never worried about it. We are not nurturers.

in my case i had help from my mother, to show me how to brush my kids hair, set times for brushing teethe, changing clothes. Etc. etc. And my wifes mother showed and helped me too.

After a while i LEARNED how to be a nurturer.

And surprise, surprise. I became the anal parent. I was fanatic with "brushy teethey time" and had a system for everything, kids structured, all food groups each meal..
Then i sent the kids back to their mother, and i was freaking out ON HER, for not giving them a vegetable or not keeping the schedule.
I had the kids putting whatever they took out back, chores down. The mother was more so the slacker is how it panned out and i was giving HER a hard time.

But ill admit, i never quite got the braiding my daughters hair thing down but i brushed the hell out of it and her clothes were spotless. All her clothes cleaned when returned no dirty laundry shipped back and she even had a organizer for her things to bring with her.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1446051


Both of you grow a pair and be real men. Whiny little bitches.
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01/02/2012 04:56 AM
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this thread is fucking hilarious.

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fuck ewwwwwwww OP
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
They were in the same clothes I sent them in. My 9 year old's hair is so tangled it may need to be cut. The 2 year old has 15 mosquito bites on her little legs and they have not brushed their teeth the whole weekend. I am furious. My 9 year old told me that they don't have to take baths until right before I come and that since I came an hour early that's why they look dirty???? Can this be grounds for supervised visits? Apparently this is his "normal" behavior? I could spit nails right now!
 Quoting: Pink Taco


Document everything. In the meantime, teach the nine year old how to take care of herself and her sibling. Watch her brush her hair, brush her teeth and teach her to do this for her sister. A nine year old should be able to do this unless she is just rebellious. You can teach her to bathe the two year old as well or at least sponge her off. Tell them why it is important to keep clean and change their clothes each day even if no one makes them. And send mosquito repellent with them or whatever you think they might need when they visit their dad until you can get the situation under control. Just do the best you can do. BTW, if she won't take care of brushing her hair tell her you will just cut it short. If she wants that then cut it and if she doesn't then she will make sure her hair is brushed. Maybe this is a good time to teach personal responsibility to the oldest since her dad isn't doing anything for them.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1466838


Wow -- you sound as uptight as the OP. I feel sorry for men these days
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Actually -- the ones I really feel sorry for are the kids.
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kitty I'd say that you seem to have gotten it just about right.





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