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Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...

 
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
cry more we are really interested
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
Maybe calm down a bit. It's not like they are dead or have some terrible disease. They're just a bit dirty, and that dirt will wash right off.

Remember you've got another 14 to 16 years of this.
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Well its more important if he loves them. I have been there, and in odd situations with my ex, but I also never forgo the really love they have for each other, and just keep on top of it. Fortunately ours is informal agreement and the kids had the say, in what I drew up a while ago.

Love is the most important part, for short term situations I'd say. Though, maybe a few instructions might be OK too.
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
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ummmm this coming from Pink Taco?

There are two parents, Ms. Taco.

PS - Hold the beef.
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Exactly.
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Children need the cooperation of both parents for their long term stability. Their needs are as important as yours so it would be wise to not use them as a tool to make yourself feel better about things. It's sad to see children used as pawns in between the war of two adults.
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
fuck all that!

let's see that pink taco!!!!
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Bet it's nasty shade of green.
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
They were in the same clothes I sent them in. My 9 year old's hair is so tangled it may need to be cut. The 2 year old has 15 mosquito bites on her little legs and they have not brushed their teeth the whole weekend. I am furious. My 9 year old told me that they don't have to take baths until right before I come and that since I came an hour early that's why they look dirty???? Can this be grounds for supervised visits? Apparently this is his "normal" behavior? I could spit nails right now!
 Quoting: Pink Taco


Give it a rest!

So what if they wore the same clothes all weekend.

I partied all night last, passed on the couch in my clothes and I'm still wearing ther same clothes.

I'm starting to stink a little bit, but, other than that, I'm not experiencing any negative effects.
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I think you should cut him some slack. Dads will never be moms, and kids don't mind getting a little dirty. They were probably doing outdoorsy things. He probably doesn't get to spend as much time with them anyway. As long as they enjoy their time with him that is the most important thing.
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Oh shut up, it's not like he gave them the bash!!!
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This thread makes it clear why this man is no longer your husband. I'm a woman, but I wouldn't want to be around someone as petty as you, either.
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I am just terribly pissed and I need to cool off a bit before I confront him. I just think it's time to stop making excuses for his inadequacies and see it for what it really is.
 Quoting: Pink Taco


Is he the same guy you met and had theses kids with? Is this some kind of shocking behavior from him? Maybe he is trying to counterbalance your overzealous parenting



BTW they are children not ladies...children like to get dirty and have fun, ladies not so much. Let them be kids once in a while

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I think OP has finally stopped bitching on ... thank god!
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pshhh, i wear the same clothes once a week. what's the problem
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
They were in the same clothes I sent them in. My 9 year old's hair is so tangled it may need to be cut. The 2 year old has 15 mosquito bites on her little legs and they have not brushed their teeth the whole weekend. I am furious. My 9 year old told me that they don't have to take baths until right before I come and that since I came an hour early that's why they look dirty???? Can this be grounds for supervised visits? Apparently this is his "normal" behavior? I could spit nails right now!
 Quoting: Pink Taco


Document everything. In the meantime, teach the nine year old how to take care of herself and her sibling. Watch her brush her hair, brush her teeth and teach her to do this for her sister. A nine year old should be able to do this unless she is just rebellious. You can teach her to bathe the two year old as well or at least sponge her off. Tell them why it is important to keep clean and change their clothes each day even if no one makes them. And send mosquito repellent with them or whatever you think they might need when they visit their dad until you can get the situation under control. Just do the best you can do. BTW, if she won't take care of brushing her hair tell her you will just cut it short. If she wants that then cut it and if she doesn't then she will make sure her hair is brushed. Maybe this is a good time to teach personal responsibility to the oldest since her dad isn't doing anything for them.
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
The world's going to hell, fast, in a handbasket, and this woman's worried that her kids didn't wash behind their ears.

Are you for real lady? This thread's a joke, right?

Let me guess -- tomorrow we'll hear about how you broke your fingernail?....
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
They were in the same clothes I sent them in. My 9 year old's hair is so tangled it may need to be cut. The 2 year old has 15 mosquito bites on her little legs and they have not brushed their teeth the whole weekend. I am furious. My 9 year old told me that they don't have to take baths until right before I come and that since I came an hour early that's why they look dirty???? Can this be grounds for supervised visits? Apparently this is his "normal" behavior? I could spit nails right now!
 Quoting: Pink Taco


Document everything. In the meantime, teach the nine year old how to take care of herself and her sibling. Watch her brush her hair, brush her teeth and teach her to do this for her sister. A nine year old should be able to do this unless she is just rebellious. You can teach her to bathe the two year old as well or at least sponge her off. Tell them why it is important to keep clean and change their clothes each day even if no one makes them. And send mosquito repellent with them or whatever you think they might need when they visit their dad until you can get the situation under control. Just do the best you can do. BTW, if she won't take care of brushing her hair tell her you will just cut it short. If she wants that then cut it and if she doesn't then she will make sure her hair is brushed. Maybe this is a good time to teach personal responsibility to the oldest since her dad isn't doing anything for them.
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Wow -- you sound as uptight as the OP. I feel sorry for men these days.
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It's good training for them for if sfan. Nobody will be having a bath every day when you need all that water for drinking and cooking.
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
They were in the same clothes I sent them in. My 9 year old's hair is so tangled it may need to be cut. The 2 year old has 15 mosquito bites on her little legs and they have not brushed their teeth the whole weekend. I am furious. My 9 year old told me that they don't have to take baths until right before I come and that since I came an hour early that's why they look dirty???? Can this be grounds for supervised visits? Apparently this is his "normal" behavior? I could spit nails right now!
 Quoting: Pink Taco


Document everything. In the meantime, teach the nine year old how to take care of herself and her sibling. Watch her brush her hair, brush her teeth and teach her to do this for her sister. A nine year old should be able to do this unless she is just rebellious. You can teach her to bathe the two year old as well or at least sponge her off. Tell them why it is important to keep clean and change their clothes each day even if no one makes them. And send mosquito repellent with them or whatever you think they might need when they visit their dad until you can get the situation under control. Just do the best you can do. BTW, if she won't take care of brushing her hair tell her you will just cut it short. If she wants that then cut it and if she doesn't then she will make sure her hair is brushed. Maybe this is a good time to teach personal responsibility to the oldest since her dad isn't doing anything for them.
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Wow -- you sound as uptight as the OP. I feel sorry for men these days
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Actually -- the ones I really feel sorry for are the kids.
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
They were in the same clothes I sent them in. My 9 year old's hair is so tangled it may need to be cut. The 2 year old has 15 mosquito bites on her little legs and they have not brushed their teeth the whole weekend. I am furious. My 9 year old told me that they don't have to take baths until right before I come and that since I came an hour early that's why they look dirty???? Can this be grounds for supervised visits? Apparently this is his "normal" behavior? I could spit nails right now!
 Quoting: Pink Taco


Document and present it before the judge. It will then get corrected.
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don't say anything! can't you see he is "wanting" you to be angry?

"supervised visits"? are u crazy? that is the LAST thing u ever want, to get a court or Child Protective Services to decide to take your babies to a "happier & safer" place.....FOREVER!

snap out of it woman
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Wow, I seems to be a whole lot of blind judgements being thrown around. I am certain that those of you with the nasty comments are probably compensating for your own inadequacies. Keep chucking those stones. Maybe you will feel a little better about your pathetic lives by putting someone else down.
 Quoting: Pink Taco


Isn't that what you're doing to your own husband by posting this nonsense on a thread?
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Did you ask them if they had a good time?
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
Wow, I seems to be a whole lot of blind judgements being thrown around. I am certain that those of you with the nasty comments are probably compensating for your own inadequacies. Keep chucking those stones. Maybe you will feel a little better about your pathetic lives by putting someone else down.
 Quoting: Pink Taco


Excuse me wasn't that what YOU were doing?
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Re: Just picked up my girls from weekend visitation with their father...
They were in the same clothes I sent them in. My 9 year old's hair is so tangled it may need to be cut. The 2 year old has 15 mosquito bites on her little legs and they have not brushed their teeth the whole weekend. I am furious. My 9 year old told me that they don't have to take baths until right before I come and that since I came an hour early that's why they look dirty???? Can this be grounds for supervised visits? Apparently this is his "normal" behavior? I could spit nails right now!
 Quoting: Pink Taco


Document and present it before the judge. It will then get corrected.

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5114133


Yes, we definitely need to tie up the courts with more of this nonsense. There's your tax dollars going to good use, citizens.





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