They were in the same clothes I sent them in. My 9 year old's hair is so tangled it may need to be cut. The 2 year old has 15 mosquito bites on her little legs and they have not brushed their teeth the whole weekend. I am furious. My 9 year old told me that they don't have to take baths until right before I come and that since I came an hour early that's why they look dirty???? Can this be grounds for supervised visits? Apparently this is his "normal" behavior? I could spit nails right now!
Quoting: Pink Taco first of all: stop ranting. please.
your girls might think you are angry with them, too, even if you keep saying your just angry about their daddy. they might think they´ve done something wrong.
your girls won´t like mommy being angry about daddy, because they love both of you - and they don´t understand why you are angry about him. they don´t want you to be angry at each other.
It´s hard enough for them to have no parents as it should be: mom+dad together living with them. ok?
so if you really love your girls, keep calm.
are your girls happy with the time spent with their father? had they some quality time together? did they eat properly? having fun, playing games and so on?
then: that is all what counts! it´s just 2 days they have with their daddy!
if not: talk with your ex. _calmly_ !!! no rant.
ranting gets you nowhere, but hurts your 2 girls most - in the end.