Manager Made Pass @ Me During Community Service, What Should I Do?

The above sounds sensible. Anyway

Good deal. Hope it works out for you. Had a friend when I was younger and getting in trouble with the law. Long story short, he didn't take care of his shit like community service and it carried over onto his adult record. Lack of action snowballed until he actually got thrown in prison, all started from not doing his community service. Law doesn't mess around!

Ron Paul says to quit your job and go get another one... if you can't handle it... If he rapes you then call the police...

Very true, and as for garlic man and agree-ee, no thanks! I don't dig wearing perfume, or garlic, haha. I'm going to go with number 1. If people were a bit more kinder, I would love to help. Arrogance drives me away. Thanks for your help and compliment

yes, U have to be FIRM.
PRETEND if U have to.
seriously they actually want to be told what to do.

im so sorry for U OP.
i do understand.
U could ignore it, but the system will NOT believe U unless U have some solid proof.
i know he makes U uncomfortable but that isnt against the law.
either get proof or deal with it the best U can...

Definitely not going to put it off, check out this link, it's of my stomach being pressed in by the shoe of a police officer when I was arrested over this subject.

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^After that happened to me, I learned to take care of things and not fuck around.

Wear a hidden recording device while he is around you, or better yet get a hidden video recorder. Maybe you can get him making lewd or suggestive remarks.
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Haha, boot print in the stomach is awesome! Thanks for sharing :P Yep, i've had the knee in the back, not a good experience.

I weigh 110 pounds! The dude was heavy! I can't stomach the system, I have anxiety as it is, it's not too fun when a German Shepard trained to kill is snarling 5 inches away from your face being held by another officer with a gun in one hand and a wiggling leash in the other.

Last Edited by Aphrodite Harmonia on 02/04/2012 08:30 AM

Clearly the old basterd can't see.

Original man!

Well I have no choice now, guess I'll be speaking to the judge. The judge is a very sweet man, due to the situation I posted where the cops came, he knew I could have had a case over that, because it was a misunderstanding for them to break and enter without a warrant!

if the profile pic is you, then tghat could. explain a lot. Put on a shirt thats Not tight. dress down. blend in, dont stand out. you know,it fuckin urks me when hot chicks ware low cut tops that barley cover their tits. Then they get pissed when you look. wtf??

There's a difference between looking and groping someone.

I may be wearing one in my picture, but I was wearing a Fox sweater when I went for the interview, I'm not 'classy', I don't make it a point to try to dress nice. Ew.

Haha

Give him a dirty sanchez then a good falcon punch right up the ass.

Max Hardcore falcon punched a girl right up the ass once and he's a bad dood. Be like Max Hardcore and handle yo biz.

But you do dress pretty trampy tho (if that is you in your pic). He might just think you're an easy slore.

Did you dress decently for the job or did you present yourself in a WWE Diva outfit to spoon some soup in?

Come to think of it, you seem kinda vain too. Maybe he thinks you're playing hard to get?

I think you have brought this on yourself.

Read much?

Mind your own fucking business.

Yeah, I wouldn't go back and I'm sure the Judge will understand NP.

You're making me sick with your whining.
Homeless people are homelesss often because of mental illness or low social skills. They can't keep jobs, often because they just don't understand the concept of give and take. Keep thinking that way and you may end up in on the other side of the soup line yourself.

Just go out there, do your time and pay your debt to society. Alternatively you could just go to the judge and tell him that you want to do prison time instead. The ladies inside will teach you how to stand up for yourself against old men who look at your intentionally well displayed cleavage.

What the heck do ya think any man is going to do if you are wearing skin tight, skin showing shirts. Some men are just not so obvious. Wear something like your momma would wear, and I'll bet you have less issue there.

For one, I didn't wear a tight shirt. Two, I was very kind, and why would I try to make a pass at an old man? I was raped by one when I was 18 leaving me sexually inactive ever since. Third, when i say these people beg, and i don't even want to consider myself different than anyone, the 'homeless' that come there aren't mentally I'll, some not even homeless! I eat there when I can! But not anymore. Thanks everyone for the good advice, but for all the assholes saying i brought this to myself judging me by my avatar, you guys can kiss my pale ass.

Was you raped in a soup kitchen?

You knocked your ex's teeth out and then you wonder why the police acted with extreme force when they arrested you?

"I'm only 110 lbs, I couldn't possibly hurt anyone." You told that to the judge, but the physical evidence proved otherwise. The police were told to arrest a crazy psycho who knocks out guys teeth. They took no chances.

OP, I have a daughter about your age. If you were her, this is what I would say:

"Stop complaining, you're not a princess. You caused your own problems by acting like an animal. You don't go around punching people in the face. If you can't do the time, don't commit the crime. Put your big girl pants on and go do the hours at the soup kitchen and be glad that you didn't get a tougher punishment. If the old pervert continues to look at you after you show up in a baggy teeshirt, no makeup and large sweat pants, tell him loudly in front of other people to knock it off. If he touches you, call the police. In the meantime, keep your mouth shut and learn from this experience so maybe next time you won't end up in jail and ruin your chances at having a decent life. Learn how to manage situations in the proper way or this is the first of many problems you will face in life, and it will only continue to get worse."

Then I'd give you a hug and some cookies. Don't be mad at me OP, I love you, but you shouldn't be punching people in the face. That's not ok, learn from this experience.