Love and prayers for you, OP. You are a good person, and showed restraint and I'm glad the person got arrested instead of going home scot-free.

I was married to an alcoholic and it's impossible to have an argument with a drunk, they are irrational and angry and won't remember any of it the next day anyway. Sucks because most alcoholics I know are intelligent, kind, good-hearted people who probably drink because they are self-medicating for their sensitivity to the pain of this world.

I knew a doctor who worked on a drowned 6-year-old girl for 3 hours before giving up and calling it. God bless all of you who work for the betterment of humanity and cope with a child dying in your arms. Most of us couldn't do it; I am glad people like you do.