And...this statement really bugs me lady. I am a mom who raised a daughter (almost 19 now) with an alcoholic and abusive husband. I kept her safe and I didn't have much of a life during those years but I hardly feel like I "sacrificed" anything to raise her. You want to be free now after 13 years? Wow. I wish someone would have told ME that there was an expiration date on caring for the children we CHOSE to have.

He probably hates you because you make your feelings apparent to him (even if you don't come out and SAY the words). Kids aren't stupid.

You sound very immature. But enjoy that lovely Victorian house.