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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 01:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Like I said, women are just more capable. What about streetsmarts, common sense, reasoning? Book smarts is not the same. Their choice in mates? Women are in relative peace while most men are struggling. Most women have sexual satisfaction while men aren't. So how do you expect men to sit down and read a book or do purely intellectual work? OK, there might be a tendency for women to not be as intellectually 'superior'. But only because in their line of work they were pretty much not able to study. If their life was just about having sex, making and raising children I'm sure that takes some EQ. Last Edited by bannedfornoreason on 08/08/2012 02:10 PM bannedfornoreason |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21473275 Canada 08/08/2012 02:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Like I said, women are just more capable. What about streetsmarts, common sense, reasoning? Book smarts is not the same. Their choice in mates? Women are in relative peace while most men are struggling. Most women have sexual satisfaction while men aren't. So how do you expect men to sit down and read a book or do purely intellectual work? OK, there might be a tendency for women to not be as intellectually 'superior'. But only because in their line of work they were pretty much not able to study. If their life was just about having sex, making and raising children I'm sure that takes some EQ. Women are not more capable. Look at the top mathematicians. All of them are men. Girls excel in school because the current school system suits girls. Dull and rote memorization of mundane content are not suited for boys of developing age who are beginning to have their own ideas and thoughts. Girls on the other hand, do not have any ideas of their own. |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 02:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Like I said, women are just more capable. What about streetsmarts, common sense, reasoning? Book smarts is not the same. Their choice in mates? Women are in relative peace while most men are struggling. Most women have sexual satisfaction while men aren't. So how do you expect men to sit down and read a book or do purely intellectual work? OK, there might be a tendency for women to not be as intellectually 'superior'. But only because in their line of work they were pretty much not able to study. If their life was just about having sex, making and raising children I'm sure that takes some EQ. Women are not more capable. Look at the top mathematicians. All of them are men. Girls excel in school because the current school system suits girls. Dull and rote memorization of mundane content are not suited for boys of developing age who are beginning to have their own ideas and thoughts. Girls on the other hand, do not have any ideas of their own. I know. I'm in agreement. Except for the last part "girls ont he other hand don't have any ideas of their own". bannedfornoreason |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 03:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so, watching more manhood101.com videos. It says that inflicting pain does not = torture. ok. Further.. it spreads the idea that women ARE intellectually inferior. How so? All women want some kind of 'authoritative man' because APPARENTLY WOMEN CANNOT DECIDE WHAT'S RIGHT AND WRONG. Therefore, the ENTIRE responsibility is MAN'S responsibility. THAT's why women want such an authoritative man, because they want NO responsibility whatsoever. They want to be submissive to all men. Does that reflect the feminist view though? Why do so many women say the opposite now? They don't want men to make their decisions for them, or what? Perhaps secretly they do, they just want it to be be given Forcefully/Authoritatively? Because they have no reasoning capability to see what is even right or wrong? Last Edited by bannedfornoreason on 08/08/2012 03:24 PM bannedfornoreason |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 03:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wonder if this is just a result of our history. Being that, in our history males dominated. What about the Bonobos though? The females dominate their males. It's not as peaceful as many people would have you think though So really, isn't it a cultural thing that some women require dominance by males? Because their culture, their genes, etc. goes back to a time where males dominated women physically? understand though also, the Bonobos are only female dominated because they did not have to fight with the gorillas to attain food. So , naturally they evolved to be much more peaceful. Not that there aren't any conflicts in bonobo society either, just , relatively less than other chimps. So perhaps, in effect, the males of the bonobo society are simply not as violent, or "emasculated" according to some, such that the females were let to control them over many generations. And that's what we have as bonobo society now. But again, bonobo society isn't as peaceful a picture as many seem to paint. Last Edited by bannedfornoreason on 08/08/2012 03:30 PM bannedfornoreason |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 03:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | LOL, so women are like children. Need to be spanked and told what to do. Last Edited by bannedfornoreason on 08/08/2012 03:34 PM bannedfornoreason |
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User ID: 17391665 United States 08/08/2012 03:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Gone for a couple of hours and the sheer amount of just absolute bullshit peddled is overwhelming. Not to mention disgusting. Congrats for falling for the retarded belief that men are somehow better than women because "we haz musklez and we haz interrect". And the same guys sit there and wonder why they can't get laid. Maybe because you don't see women as human beings, only as 'trash' that wants 'assholes'. The same stereotype guys utter this cry. They have zero confidence, and they only want 'the hot chick' because "I'm a nice guy and I DESERVE a hot chick, dammit!" But then they can't understand why, when they are going for the shallow, vain bitches... "all women are vain, shallow bitches". But ask them why they're not going for the average, ordinary women, and it's because of course, these women aren't good enough for a "nice guy like me". But we should all feel sorry for them for not getting "a good woman" when their idea of a "good" woman is a shallow, vain, egotistical 'hot' chick. NATURALLY, though, we should accept their mental superiority! No more requests in the "Strangest things" thread please. :hf: Past Lives requests thread: Thread: That Which Once Was: Past Lives |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 03:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Gone for a couple of hours and the sheer amount of just absolute bullshit peddled is overwhelming. Not to mention disgusting. Quoting: Sandi_T Congrats for falling for the retarded belief that men are somehow better than women because "we haz musklez and we haz interrect". And the same guys sit there and wonder why they can't get laid. Maybe because you don't see women as human beings, only as 'trash' that wants 'assholes'. The same stereotype guys utter this cry. They have zero confidence, and they only want 'the hot chick' because "I'm a nice guy and I DESERVE a hot chick, dammit!" But then they can't understand why, when they are going for the shallow, vain bitches... "all women are vain, shallow bitches". But ask them why they're not going for the average, ordinary women, and it's because of course, these women aren't good enough for a "nice guy like me". But we should all feel sorry for them for not getting "a good woman" when their idea of a "good" woman is a shallow, vain, egotistical 'hot' chick. NATURALLY, though, we should accept their mental superiority! I'm only trying to understand. It's not like I'm not being open minded. BTW, non-hot girls are just the same... just as "vain, shallow" etc. I know this for fact. I've experienced it. most men are just trying to get laid, regardless of any perceived faults. These "non-hot" women get just as many oppostunities, to become just as vain as the hot chicks. Last Edited by bannedfornoreason on 08/08/2012 03:47 PM bannedfornoreason |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 03:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | LOL, you know.. this manhood academy seems to be teaching men to train women to stay as children who need to be spanked. By encouraging men to always see and treat women like children. What do you think will happen if you teach women they are like children who can't do anything on their own right? How about letting women learn about to rely less on men for their authority, and more on THEMSELVES. Last Edited by bannedfornoreason on 08/08/2012 03:51 PM bannedfornoreason |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 03:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What if this is just cultural, ie women evolved that way because men have treated women like children for thousands of years such that now it's a part of them, and they naturally have become like children? bannedfornoreason |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14596164 Canada 08/08/2012 03:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so, watching more manhood101.com videos. It says that inflicting pain does not = torture. Quoting: bannedfornoreason ok. Further.. it spreads the idea that women ARE intellectually inferior. How so? All women want some kind of 'authoritative man' because APPARENTLY WOMEN CANNOT DECIDE WHAT'S RIGHT AND WRONG. Therefore, the ENTIRE responsibility is MAN'S responsibility. THAT's why women want such an authoritative man, because they want NO responsibility whatsoever. They want to be submissive to all men. Does that reflect the feminist view though? Why do so many women say the opposite now? They don't want men to make their decisions for them, or what? Perhaps secretly they do, they just want it to be be given Forcefully/Authoritatively? Because they have no reasoning capability to see what is even right or wrong? This is very interesting. Obviously every woman feels differently about this, some women like a man making the decision's and some don't, it's a personality thing. It's hard to explain, but because men are bigger and stronger than women, (generally), Women feel like they have to give into them. Men also have deep voices which makes them sound more dominate. So it may not be that we can't decide what's right or wrong, we might just be scared too sometimes, so we leave it up to the man. Personally, I'm happy with that, call me old fashion I guess. I will give a strong opinion on certain decisions though if I feel I'm right. |
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User ID: 17391665 United States 08/08/2012 04:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm only trying to understand. It's not like I'm not being open minded. Quoting: bannedfornoreason BTW, non-hot girls are just the same... just as "vain, shallow" etc. I know this for fact. I've experienced it. most men are just trying to get laid, regardless of any perceived faults. These "non-hot" women get just as many oppostunities, to become just as vain as the hot chicks. Well, at least you understand that the problem is that men are too busy getting laid to actually offer anything of value. What you sense as 'vanity' in these girls isn't vanity, it's a quality of being jaded. Even many beautiful women experience that sense of being jaded. Because the only men who display confidence tend to be the ones who turn out to be assholes in the end. Confidence is sexy. Too few self-appointed "nice guys" have it. No more requests in the "Strangest things" thread please. :hf: Past Lives requests thread: Thread: That Which Once Was: Past Lives |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 04:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm only trying to understand. It's not like I'm not being open minded. Quoting: bannedfornoreason BTW, non-hot girls are just the same... just as "vain, shallow" etc. I know this for fact. I've experienced it. most men are just trying to get laid, regardless of any perceived faults. These "non-hot" women get just as many oppostunities, to become just as vain as the hot chicks. Well, at least you understand that the problem is that men are too busy getting laid to actually offer anything of value. What you sense as 'vanity' in these girls isn't vanity, it's a quality of being jaded. Even many beautiful women experience that sense of being jaded. Because the only men who display confidence tend to be the ones who turn out to be assholes in the end. Confidence is sexy. Too few self-appointed "nice guys" have it. You just brought up an assumption that men who are just trying to get laid have nothing of value. That's Purely an assumption. Also, let's take out the words "just" and "trying". Men who are looking to get laid have nothing of value? Let's take out the word looking. Men who are getting laid have nothing of value? LOL do you see my point? Last Edited by bannedfornoreason on 08/08/2012 04:13 PM bannedfornoreason |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21195063 United States 08/08/2012 04:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | and quite telling carry on, i have no more to add to this thread because it's obviously not a dialogue but a circle jerk psst now that the smart woman is gone you can start responding to her posts and feel superior because she isn't around to respond so you can pretend you're right and pat yourselves on the back the way of the coward impotence on display sandi, absolutely agree w/you but fear you're wasting your time these men aren't conversing to bridge divides and help improve the situations we're all faced with they're feeding into the same paradigm that created the problems agents of the status quo bitter at their own impotence having not done what men are supposed to do- protect their communities, women and children opting instead to pay taxes and pay others to do their jobs for them now they're stuck because they know they passed the buck as tptb wanted- tptb then abused that power men freely gave away to give us a world filled with tyranny and now the men need someone to blame so, as usual and predictable, it's blame women time peace out |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 04:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so, watching more manhood101.com videos. It says that inflicting pain does not = torture. Quoting: bannedfornoreason ok. Further.. it spreads the idea that women ARE intellectually inferior. How so? All women want some kind of 'authoritative man' because APPARENTLY WOMEN CANNOT DECIDE WHAT'S RIGHT AND WRONG. Therefore, the ENTIRE responsibility is MAN'S responsibility. THAT's why women want such an authoritative man, because they want NO responsibility whatsoever. They want to be submissive to all men. Does that reflect the feminist view though? Why do so many women say the opposite now? They don't want men to make their decisions for them, or what? Perhaps secretly they do, they just want it to be be given Forcefully/Authoritatively? Because they have no reasoning capability to see what is even right or wrong? This is very interesting. Obviously every woman feels differently about this, some women like a man making the decision's and some don't, it's a personality thing. It's hard to explain, but because men are bigger and stronger than women, (generally), Women feel like they have to give into them. Men also have deep voices which makes them sound more dominate. So it may not be that we can't decide what's right or wrong, we might just be scared too sometimes, so we leave it up to the man. Personally, I'm happy with that, call me old fashion I guess. I will give a strong opinion on certain decisions though if I feel I'm right. And what if the guy appeared to be confident but being a jackass? clearly, women do not care about this, because I see it all the time. Men are being jackasses with confidence, and that gets them tons more laid then a nice guy with slightly less confident appearance. APPEARANCE. And you would say that men only care about appearances right? Well here's a thought, women only care about feelings. bannedfornoreason |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 04:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | interesting that a female poster with a high iq is ignored by the female bashers Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21195063 and quite telling carry on, i have no more to add to this thread because it's obviously not a dialogue but a circle jerk psst now that the smart woman is gone you can start responding to her posts and feel superior because she isn't around to respond so you can pretend you're right and pat yourselves on the back the way of the coward impotence on display sandi, absolutely agree w/you but fear you're wasting your time these men aren't conversing to bridge divides and help improve the situations we're all faced with they're feeding into the same paradigm that created the problems agents of the status quo bitter at their own impotence having not done what men are supposed to do- protect their communities, women and children opting instead to pay taxes and pay others to do their jobs for them now they're stuck because they know they passed the buck as tptb wanted- tptb then abused that power men freely gave away to give us a world filled with tyranny and now the men need someone to blame so, as usual and predictable, it's blame women time peace out I'm all about discussion and pointing out logical fallacies as well. bannedfornoreason |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 04:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | interesting that a female poster with a high iq is ignored by the female bashers Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21195063 and quite telling carry on, i have no more to add to this thread because it's obviously not a dialogue but a circle jerk psst now that the smart woman is gone you can start responding to her posts and feel superior because she isn't around to respond so you can pretend you're right and pat yourselves on the back the way of the coward impotence on display sandi, absolutely agree w/you but fear you're wasting your time these men aren't conversing to bridge divides and help improve the situations we're all faced with they're feeding into the same paradigm that created the problems agents of the status quo bitter at their own impotence having not done what men are supposed to do- protect their communities, women and children opting instead to pay taxes and pay others to do their jobs for them now they're stuck because they know they passed the buck as tptb wanted- tptb then abused that power men freely gave away to give us a world filled with tyranny and now the men need someone to blame so, as usual and predictable, it's blame women time peace out I TRULY want to understand women. I don't want to overlay anything. I have provided things for and against some issues here. I do have a language barrier though. Last Edited by bannedfornoreason on 08/08/2012 04:29 PM bannedfornoreason |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14596164 Canada 08/08/2012 04:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so, watching more manhood101.com videos. It says that inflicting pain does not = torture. Quoting: bannedfornoreason ok. Further.. it spreads the idea that women ARE intellectually inferior. How so? All women want some kind of 'authoritative man' because APPARENTLY WOMEN CANNOT DECIDE WHAT'S RIGHT AND WRONG. Therefore, the ENTIRE responsibility is MAN'S responsibility. THAT's why women want such an authoritative man, because they want NO responsibility whatsoever. They want to be submissive to all men. Does that reflect the feminist view though? Why do so many women say the opposite now? They don't want men to make their decisions for them, or what? Perhaps secretly they do, they just want it to be be given Forcefully/Authoritatively? Because they have no reasoning capability to see what is even right or wrong? This is very interesting. Obviously every woman feels differently about this, some women like a man making the decision's and some don't, it's a personality thing. It's hard to explain, but because men are bigger and stronger than women, (generally), Women feel like they have to give into them. Men also have deep voices which makes them sound more dominate. So it may not be that we can't decide what's right or wrong, we might just be scared too sometimes, so we leave it up to the man. Personally, I'm happy with that, call me old fashion I guess. I will give a strong opinion on certain decisions though if I feel I'm right. And what if the guy appeared to be confident but being a jackass? clearly, women do not care about this, because I see it all the time. Men are being jackasses with confidence, and that gets them tons more laid then a nice guy with slightly less confident appearance. APPEARANCE. And you would say that men only care about appearances right? Well here's a thought, women only care about feelings. Well, initially it's a turn off, but then after a bit, it becomes appealing. I can't even tell you why that is, it makes no sense to me either. But I can tell you, that after a long while of men acting like a jackass, it becomes a turn off again, which then leads to arguments and separation. So in the end, the Jack-ass will lose! |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 04:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "Well, initially it's a turn off, but then after a bit, it becomes appealing. I can't even tell you why that is, it makes no sense to me either. But I can tell you, that after a long while of men acting like a jackass, it becomes a turn off again, which then leads to arguments and separation. So in the end, the Jack-ass will lose!" not before nice guys though... Last Edited by bannedfornoreason on 08/08/2012 04:47 PM bannedfornoreason |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1031605 Canada 08/08/2012 04:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You act like you don't know what women want. You're using the excuse that we all go for the alpha males. Some woemn don't, theylike a quiet type of guysometimes. It just depends on who or what kind of guy women are attracted to. Quoting: hawk8414 read it again,my first post. I asked you why you guys cannot figure out what women really want. Of course it varies what women really truly want. But a far too large percentage seem to more or less want it all, in their man. Humor, good looks, successful/good job and career, and/or respected in the community (or a celebrity), wealth, proactive, healthy, social and talkative, strong and able to defend, nice smile, of course a loving relationship, and so on and so forth. That's what most women seem to want. Basically all flawless. If we can't seem to figure out what women want, my friend, why do you keep on keeping it a secret? Why just not flat out tell us so we can make the necessary adjustments? At least I know *I* am not what most women really want, despite the fact I would care, love, support and try to create a mutually trusting/loving/supporting relationship that would have the goal of making us both prosper. But to be honest I do believe I am what you *should* want. I am that guy that so many girls lament they never find. Well, almost no girls (with some exceptions) look in my direction, so I suggest you girls start looking in the mirror for why you never find the kind of guy you want. The kind of guy you want is afraid of the shallow judgments that women make about men who approach them, among them the "all guys are creeps and only want pussy" myth. Well, most men I know of want beauty queens and trpohy wives. But youknow that's not possible. Not everyone is gonna be outstanding and drop dead gorgeous. Remember after she takes off the makeup there's a whole nother face underneath all that. To me, that's what a guy seems to fall for. He's so wired to see with his eyes,but he can't get to the real parts of a woman so that comes later, and he gets hurt or something happens and he's like wtf happened? I guess the beauty queen image is just that, an image that ya'll haven't learned to look beyond yet. Fellas, grow up and start Looking into a person's soul. Get tot he the real inside, the heart, the brains,if there are any, look beyond the superficial and see with something besides your eyes. learn to lookwith YOUR brain and YOUR heart. Use your common sense instead of thinking with your third leg. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14596164 Canada 08/08/2012 04:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "But they really are like children! Listen to their voices, just like children, high pitched, complaining all the time, etc". Quoting: bannedfornoreason What if this is just cultural, ie women evolved that way because men have treated women like children for thousands of years such that now it's a part of them, and they naturally have become like children? Okay OP, now it sounds like your bashing us women for having a girly voice that we have no control over and calling us a bunch of complainers. Do you want women to voice there opinions or not? Men are intimidating! |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 04:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You act like you don't know what women want. You're using the excuse that we all go for the alpha males. Some woemn don't, theylike a quiet type of guysometimes. It just depends on who or what kind of guy women are attracted to. Quoting: hawk8414 read it again,my first post. I asked you why you guys cannot figure out what women really want. Of course it varies what women really truly want. But a far too large percentage seem to more or less want it all, in their man. Humor, good looks, successful/good job and career, and/or respected in the community (or a celebrity), wealth, proactive, healthy, social and talkative, strong and able to defend, nice smile, of course a loving relationship, and so on and so forth. That's what most women seem to want. Basically all flawless. If we can't seem to figure out what women want, my friend, why do you keep on keeping it a secret? Why just not flat out tell us so we can make the necessary adjustments? At least I know *I* am not what most women really want, despite the fact I would care, love, support and try to create a mutually trusting/loving/supporting relationship that would have the goal of making us both prosper. But to be honest I do believe I am what you *should* want. I am that guy that so many girls lament they never find. Well, almost no girls (with some exceptions) look in my direction, so I suggest you girls start looking in the mirror for why you never find the kind of guy you want. The kind of guy you want is afraid of the shallow judgments that women make about men who approach them, among them the "all guys are creeps and only want pussy" myth. Well, most men I know of want beauty queens and trpohy wives. But youknow that's not possible. Not everyone is gonna be outstanding and drop dead gorgeous. Remember after she takes off the makeup there's a whole nother face underneath all that. To me, that's what a guy seems to fall for. He's so wired to see with his eyes,but he can't get to the real parts of a woman so that comes later, and he gets hurt or something happens and he's like wtf happened? I guess the beauty queen image is just that, an image that ya'll haven't learned to look beyond yet. Fellas, grow up and start Looking into a person's soul. Get tot he the real inside, the heart, the brains,if there are any, look beyond the superficial and see with something besides your eyes. learn to lookwith YOUR brain and YOUR heart. Use your common sense instead of thinking with your third leg. Stop using makeup then? I do wish women stopped wearing makeup. I mean sure, you can shave, for functionality only really. but.. it's not even necessary lol, women WILL STILL get laid. Beauty really comes from taking good care of yourself, ie diet, exercise, good thoughts, personality etc. Last Edited by bannedfornoreason on 08/08/2012 04:54 PM bannedfornoreason |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 04:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "But they really are like children! Listen to their voices, just like children, high pitched, complaining all the time, etc". Quoting: bannedfornoreason What if this is just cultural, ie women evolved that way because men have treated women like children for thousands of years such that now it's a part of them, and they naturally have become like children? Okay OP, now it sounds like your bashing us women for having a girly voice that we have no control over and calling us a bunch of complainers. Do you want women to voice there opinions or not? Men are intimidating! If you read later I thought maybe this was cultural, ie the voice pitch thing. But anyways, it does provide a balance to the harsher tones of the male voice. But you see... it also provides the balance for men's "authoritativeness".. women's natural voices seem to imply submissiveness... or softness rather. bannedfornoreason |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14596164 Canada 08/08/2012 05:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "Well, initially it's a turn off, but then after a bit, it becomes appealing. Quoting: bannedfornoreason I can't even tell you why that is, it makes no sense to me either. But I can tell you, that after a long while of men acting like a jackass, it becomes a turn off again, which then leads to arguments and separation. So in the end, the Jack-ass will lose!" not before nice guys though... Well I guess in certain situations, nice guys just don't stand out. This is all so hard to debate really, because I'm not the kind of girl to hang out at bars and go home with men and fuck them. Any asshole that I have ever dated never lasted longer than a week, because I can see right through them. Any nice guy that I ever dated, lasted 1 yr-3 years. In person I am also a bit shy, not like on this forum. So I tend to gravitate towards nice guys in person, and ass holes on this forum. Strange I know. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1031605 Canada 08/08/2012 05:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You act like you don't know what women want. You're using the excuse that we all go for the alpha males. Some woemn don't, theylike a quiet type of guysometimes. It just depends on who or what kind of guy women are attracted to. Quoting: hawk8414 read it again,my first post. I asked you why you guys cannot figure out what women really want. Of course it varies what women really truly want. But a far too large percentage seem to more or less want it all, in their man. Humor, good looks, successful/good job and career, and/or respected in the community (or a celebrity), wealth, proactive, healthy, social and talkative, strong and able to defend, nice smile, of course a loving relationship, and so on and so forth. That's what most women seem to want. Basically all flawless. If we can't seem to figure out what women want, my friend, why do you keep on keeping it a secret? Why just not flat out tell us so we can make the necessary adjustments? At least I know *I* am not what most women really want, despite the fact I would care, love, support and try to create a mutually trusting/loving/supporting relationship that would have the goal of making us both prosper. But to be honest I do believe I am what you *should* want. I am that guy that so many girls lament they never find. Well, almost no girls (with some exceptions) look in my direction, so I suggest you girls start looking in the mirror for why you never find the kind of guy you want. The kind of guy you want is afraid of the shallow judgments that women make about men who approach them, among them the "all guys are creeps and only want pussy" myth. Well, most men I know of want beauty queens and trpohy wives. But youknow that's not possible. Not everyone is gonna be outstanding and drop dead gorgeous. Remember after she takes off the makeup there's a whole nother face underneath all that. To me, that's what a guy seems to fall for. He's so wired to see with his eyes,but he can't get to the real parts of a woman so that comes later, and he gets hurt or something happens and he's like wtf happened? I guess the beauty queen image is just that, an image that ya'll haven't learned to look beyond yet. Fellas, grow up and start Looking into a person's soul. Get tot he the real inside, the heart, the brains,if there are any, look beyond the superficial and see with something besides your eyes. learn to lookwith YOUR brain and YOUR heart. Use your common sense instead of thinking with your third leg. Stop using makeup then? I do wish women stopped wearing makeup. I mean sure, you can shave, for functionality only really. but.. it's not even necessary lol, women WILL STILL get laid. Beauty really comes from taking good care of yourself, ie diet, exercise, good thoughts, personality etc. OP, Most women want to look their best why? Because you men expect us to look our best 24/7. Hell,I get tired of looking tired all the time. I usually don't wear makeup in hot weather anyway. But if I feel like I need t freshen up my look a bit,then yeah,I'm going to. Ya'll need to learn to start shaving and wearing decent clothing. Hell, I was in court today and the people there with me, the woemn were dressed better than the men, go figure. Ya'll need to shave your faces and brush your damn teeth,too. You want us to look good 24/7 but y'all look like something dragged out from under the porch and you don't think anything is wrong with that? I won't be seen in public with a guy who does not take care of himself,period! Men don't even tuck their shirt talils in anymore. Why not? Are you that slovenly? Please take better care of your appearances, it might help you get a nice girl for a change. Nobody wants to be seen with a knuckledragger. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14596164 Canada 08/08/2012 05:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You act like you don't know what women want. You're using the excuse that we all go for the alpha males. Some woemn don't, theylike a quiet type of guysometimes. It just depends on who or what kind of guy women are attracted to. Quoting: hawk8414 read it again,my first post. I asked you why you guys cannot figure out what women really want. Of course it varies what women really truly want. But a far too large percentage seem to more or less want it all, in their man. Humor, good looks, successful/good job and career, and/or respected in the community (or a celebrity), wealth, proactive, healthy, social and talkative, strong and able to defend, nice smile, of course a loving relationship, and so on and so forth. That's what most women seem to want. Basically all flawless. If we can't seem to figure out what women want, my friend, why do you keep on keeping it a secret? Why just not flat out tell us so we can make the necessary adjustments? At least I know *I* am not what most women really want, despite the fact I would care, love, support and try to create a mutually trusting/loving/supporting relationship that would have the goal of making us both prosper. But to be honest I do believe I am what you *should* want. I am that guy that so many girls lament they never find. Well, almost no girls (with some exceptions) look in my direction, so I suggest you girls start looking in the mirror for why you never find the kind of guy you want. The kind of guy you want is afraid of the shallow judgments that women make about men who approach them, among them the "all guys are creeps and only want pussy" myth. Well, most men I know of want beauty queens and trpohy wives. But youknow that's not possible. Not everyone is gonna be outstanding and drop dead gorgeous. Remember after she takes off the makeup there's a whole nother face underneath all that. To me, that's what a guy seems to fall for. He's so wired to see with his eyes,but he can't get to the real parts of a woman so that comes later, and he gets hurt or something happens and he's like wtf happened? I guess the beauty queen image is just that, an image that ya'll haven't learned to look beyond yet. Fellas, grow up and start Looking into a person's soul. Get tot he the real inside, the heart, the brains,if there are any, look beyond the superficial and see with something besides your eyes. learn to lookwith YOUR brain and YOUR heart. Use your common sense instead of thinking with your third leg. Stop using makeup then? I do wish women stopped wearing makeup. I mean sure, you can shave, for functionality only really. but.. it's not even necessary lol, women WILL STILL get laid. Beauty really comes from taking good care of yourself, ie diet, exercise, good thoughts, personality etc. Women love make up, I dont think that will ever change. Some women don't wear any, but then they get ridiculed by other women behind there backs, saying they are plain or ugly etc. |
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(OP) User ID: 7138989 United States 08/08/2012 05:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Lol, like I said, I prefer women's Natural beauty. Nature designs us this way. Last Edited by bannedfornoreason on 08/08/2012 05:08 PM bannedfornoreason |