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Can You Make Friends Online?

 
smilesun
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11/02/2012 09:31 AM
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Can You Make Friends Online?
Remember when people interested in dating were ashamed to admit that they looked for partners online? It was seen as a sign of desperation and loser-dom to try to connect with strangers online. Can’t you meet real people face-to-face? Sure, maybe other people would “set you up,” but they would know the people they were recommending to you as matches.

Now, meeting potential romantic partners online is ordinary. But what if you are interested in platonic friends?

The New York Times addressed that question in a story that began like this:

“In 2008, when Janis Kupferer moved to Denver for a job, she was 40 and single and knew no one in the area. When browsing Match.com, she recalled, she would sometimes click on other women’s profiles and think: ‘Some of these women sound really neat. Why isn’t there a Web site where I can meet female friends?”

I would broaden the question: Why not a website where people can find female or male friends?

Read more [link to blogs.psychcentral.com]
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11/02/2012 09:36 AM
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Re: Can You Make Friends Online?
I thought that's what meetup.com was for...
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11/02/2012 09:42 AM
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I have some wonderful internet friends.

One I knew for 9 years before we meet. Meeting me was on her bucket list. She came to the beach, it was like meeting my sister for the first time.

She died a few months later. I miss her to this day
RIP Jan
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11/02/2012 09:43 AM
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I have some wonderful internet friends.

One I knew for 9 years before we meet. Meeting me was on her bucket list. She came to the beach, it was like meeting my sister for the first time.

She died a few months later. I miss her to this day
RIP Jan
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15057455


*met ... not meet
Oldmotherhubbard

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11/02/2012 09:43 AM
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Re: Can You Make Friends Online?
Sure you can, I've actually found many friends online via different networks (none here on GLP yet). It's funny how you actually DO judge people by their appearance and actions when you see them. I've Made friends with people that I'd probably had never approached IRL.

You can also meet some real freaky people too though so I err on the side of caution when bringing people I don't really "know" into my personal life.

Last Edited by Oldmotherhubbard on 11/02/2012 09:44 AM
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11/02/2012 09:46 AM
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I have some wonderful internet friends.

One I knew for 9 years before we meet. Meeting me was on her bucket list. She came to the beach, it was like meeting my sister for the first time.

She died a few months later. I miss her to this day
RIP Jan
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15057455


*met ... not meet
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15057455


hf
smilesun  (OP)

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11/02/2012 09:47 AM
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I thought that's what meetup.com was for...
 Quoting: The Light Under the Door


Meetup is the world's largest network of local groups. Meetup makes it easy for anyone to organize a local group or find one of the thousands already meeting up face-to-face. More than 9,000 groups get together in local communities each day, each one with the goal of improving themselves or their communities.

Meetup's mission is to revitalize local community and help people around the world self-organize. Meetup believes that people can change their personal world, or the whole world, by organizing themselves into groups that are powerful enough to make a difference.
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11/02/2012 09:52 AM
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I thought that's what meetup.com was for...
 Quoting: The Light Under the Door


I'm sorry for your dead friend.
smilesun  (OP)

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11/02/2012 10:18 AM
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Re: Can You Make Friends Online?
Sure you can, I've actually found many friends online via different networks (none here on GLP yet). It's funny how you actually DO judge people by their appearance and actions when you see them. I've Made friends with people that I'd probably had never approached IRL.

You can also meet some real freaky people too though so I err on the side of caution when bringing people I don't really "know" into my personal life.
 Quoting: Oldmotherhubbard


I'm very glad to hear your experience was a positive one, and hope it will always be.





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