ANY GOOD IDEAS for VALENTINE DAY for my husband??

I'll even consider some sex....

why thats big of you!

it's been 2 months...

his choice?

Try giving him head for christ's sake!

OP, why even celebrate the day that is just a means of parting you with money? It also causes fights and dissentions between couples when expectations fall short.

Why don't you and your hubby just celebrate each day you are together? Life is much sweeter then.

And getting things when you least expect means much more. I hate being forced to give when I don't want to just because the stores say I have to. So I don't.

Think about it.

Am giving my guy a solar watch...
runs on solar energy...needs no battery (they spoil the environment) can get at various prices from $69.00 - $2,000 depending on make and accessories.

not his choice...

he doesn't like heads...

don't have much money....

71513

i know...
i resent holidays for the same reasons...

Then why celebrate the day? Just ignore it.

I'm buying my wife ten Silver Eagles, IF I can locate same. A future 'life saveer' to be sure.

Eagle

If you don't like it then don't do it. Believe me you and your hubby will be much happier. Make your own traditions which don't involve money.

Anonymous Coward
User ID: 71509
2/9/2006 10:54 AM Re: ANY GOOD IDEAS for VALENTINE DAY for my husband??

not his choice...

he doesn't like heads...

don't have much money....
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Well then I would think the ideas would come pretty easy......

"he doesn't like heads..."

How many dicks does this guy have?? Anyways, if he doesn't like head then he's lying or you don't know how to give it right.

I don't know...
I always thought that my heads were great, just couple mishaps here and there...well, you know...it involved stitching and implants....
just kidding.

ask him if he would like you to go out and practice

Well, give him and you the gift of releasing yourselves from this materialistic day.

it's just his personality...he doesn't care for blow jobs.
he is more interested in real thing

Well, give him and you the gift of releasing yourselves from this materialistic day.

Well, that's possible.

*Each* day give each other a hug and tell one another that you love them. Be nice and respectful to each other and show appreciation. That is a really good gift that keeps on giving and it costs nothing but brings the greatest rewards.

it's hard for me to be perfect like that... :zkk_exanis:

i am moody, bitchy and opinionated...
It's hard to redeem myself and stick to being 'sweet' all the time. I tried though.

I know, hard for me to at times. But make yourself at least a few times a week. It will become a good habit.

sound like you have a lot of work to do other than a nice treat for VDay

Hmmm... yes, I would like to suggest that most guys (middle age or not) would probably be interested in the same thing they are always interested in, so why not offer that to one's husband in a more creative, imaginative way. Therefore, one year I gave my other-half a hand-made *Good as Gold* Coupon Book of I.O.U.s (which stood for I mmediately O bey U nquestioningly) & said that 'all of the following coupons are redeemable on demand.' There were coupons for such things as 'Shut Up for the next 10 minutes' to be used during a disagreement, 'Will Watch a Football Game with you (& actualy cheer for your team,)' 'Let's go to a Movie - Now,' 'Let's Eat Out - Now,' 'Hug and Kiss (When Undeserved),' etc.,... & then there was also a 'Bonus Section of coupons - Good Anytime' which included coupons for sex, sex, sex, and more sex, and still more sex, eggs benedict (which was an inside joke), sex, & finally, a 'Reorder Form: Be Sure to apply NOW for more... Sex!'

Anyway, please be careful with the coupons for sex (especially with a middle-aged man) & don't let him redeem too many of them in a short period of time as, unfortunately, the recipient of my coupon book (who was my husband) suffered a stroke from too much of a good thing.

Although, at the time, the quite original idea of the coupon book was much appreciated, for me now, it obviously brings back very bittersweet memories which are especially difficult to handle on Valentine's Day.

So, if you decide to make your own coupon book for your loved one, customize it to meet his or her individual needs, & should you decide to give the *sex* coupons (especially for someone of middle-age), please be sure that person passes a thourough physical examination before pursuing more strenuous- than- usual physical attempts.

Good luck to you & yours, & hope you both have a very Happy Valentine's Day!

Well, we have a trailer that we are selling, it's sitting in front of our house...
maybe I'll take him there for valentines...'wink'

Some anal?

give me the day off then,, kick him out of the house,, or you leave,,, maybe time apart,, for awhile,, would be the best gift?

not trying to be insulting,,, :)

Go with the DVDA - Double Vaginal, Double Anal. You said he doesn't like "heads", so the multi-cock issue must be addressed.

Shit.

71529

Yes, I gave him the coupon book like that couple years ago, he never used it...

We have many unresolved issues in our relationship...

My sexual drive atrophied because of his passivity in the past, so now when he wants it, I am not interested anymore.
In a way, I am 'punishing' him for what he put me through in the past when he was withholding from me...

war of the roses, eh???