I just work on straightening myself out, I have discernment so I can see where someone has gotten of course, but that's precisely what is bound to happen to us if we go holding grudges (I'm not saying that's precisely what you're doing).

What good would I be doing if I asked for money from, anybody? Possibly some since I'm just under 20, but I'm not planning on living some extravagant lifestyle, I just want to do the best I can to fulfill my true requirements, and be truly happy.

That is how I would really be setting an example for others.
;-)