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Why Does It Seem That Women Are Attracted To Bad Boys - Here's Why....

 
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Stockholm Syndrome would apply after a person is captured, or in this case in the relationship. These are women that are attracted to someone beforehand. Unless you are stating that their whole life is one big capture-bonding experience.
 Quoting: H0NEYBEE

I've got some bad news... all of life is "one big capture-bonding experience." It's just done with politically correct contract terminology. Everyone "chooses" everything now. Of course, people play absolutely ruthless, sadistic games in order to create environments where "choosing" traumatic capture-bonding is the only way most people can see to stay alive, but hey, it's your "choice." Yeah, right. The IRS Commissioner recently testified to Congress that income tax is voluntary. In other words, people "choose" to pay it. No capture-bonding going one there, no sireee. It's the model of modern life - pleasant, smiling sadistic, calculating monsters with politically correct terminology, with all laws supporting their power structure, and with at least half, if not more, of those ruthless and heartless people being female. But just dare to point it out, and see what hell you pay, as they grin to each other.

What if it is none of that? What about women who choose to hold off on settling down and starting a family due to their career?
 Quoting: H0NEYBEE

No one and nothing stops women from having a career. But women want everything, and be happy doing everything, and have people praise and support them for doing everything - oh I'm sorry, they want MEN to support them and praise them and help them do everything. The same men who are shits if they don't provide what women wouldn't think of being held to, now that they are liberated.

Men are waking up, though. Waking up, and walking away. But it will be a cold day in hell before women EVER admit the monsters they've become. Men can be the monsters. Women universally agree men are monsters. They even strip them of their manhood and refer to them as "males." But if you so much as question the most ludicrous and destructive act of a woman, hell decends on your head.

Am I anti-woman? Nope. I'm an American man. I live in a country where feral, hateful packs of women laugh over their constant, endless abuse of men, their destruction of fair laws, and their pussyfication of boys. I'm a survivor, like millions of American men. I watch, and stay far, far away from the disgusting hypocrisy and cruelty that American women have become. Is it lonely, is it frustrating and difficult, is it depressing to stay away? Yes. But all of that is nothing compared to the hell that happens when you get involved with an American woman.

This used to be whispered - it's not anymore. American men are turning away from poisonously narcissistic, hateful and power-mad American... females... in droves, because the alternative is madness.

But it won't last much longer. All these females can do is destroy. So either they will be stopped somehow, or they will succeed in electing enough power-mad maniacs to destroy the country that it will finally be brought down on our heads. Either way, look around, everything is going straight to hell right in front of our eyes - things can't last much longer like this.

P.S. for those of you who want to ask I'm I'm saying the destruction of the country is "women's fault," my short answer is yes, it is - and not by accident. It's women's fault because American women are openly TRYING to destroy the country, because they've been told by other women and men that destroying the country is the only way they will ever get all the things they want in life. Destroy the country, destroy men, destroy culture, destroy law and destroy freedom, and replace it with a dream totalitarianism run by women. Because after all the necessary hundreds of millions of obstructionists are killed, women will be more compassionate leaders.

And history shows us this is more than possible, it happens all the time. All you need is a group of people who believe that they are above needing any morality. Who believe they are literally the chosen, superior beings. Who are willing to destroy the vermin who don't understand how special they are, so that they can rule in enlightened way. That defines, the Nazis, the Soviet and Chinese Communists - and the insane level of privileged superiority of the mind of American Female.

And it will end the same way it always has - in misery and death for millions.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43102795


Don't take this the wrong way, and I might be completely wrong. But you sound like someone who in most of your relationships did not have the woman sexually interested in you. Or maybe didn't deal with it successfully when she stopped for a while being sexually interested. That happens to almost all married couples, it has definitely happened to me.

I am no expert but my marriage held together, largely because God picked me up and guided me when things got really tough. A man should never lose his connection to God. Generally, he's the representative of God in the marriage. Sorry women, but I think it's true. But I am off topic with this.

Regarding your post above, the women do act like packs when they don't have desire. But when they do have desire, they could not give a shit about their girlfriends. They often see the girlfriends as competitors. They would throw the girlfriend over a cliff if it came to it. You see, a woman is all about lack of balance. If she doesn't want you she chats with her girlfriends and compares notes. Maybe she can upgrade to a guy with a higher income or more toys. or at least she has to chat to smooth her guilt feelings over being such a bitch. But if she has desire, that's all that fills her little mind.

So I'd be careful about impregnating any women before you're ready to have kids (marriage would be a good point for this in my opinion, but that's up to you) so use a condom if you don't mind too much. But learn to create desire, by attitude, smell, flashing gold-plated chains and saying they're solid gold, whatever it takes to make the moisture flow, and then (and only then) does the story begin.
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That's called Stockolm syndrome
Stockholm syndrome, or capture–bonding, is a psychological phenomenon in which hostages express empathy and sympathy and have positive feelings toward their captors, sometimes to the point of defending them. These feelings are generally considered irrational in light of the danger or risk endured by the victims, who essentially mistake a lack of abuse from their captors for an act of kindness. The FBI's Hostage Barricade Database System shows that roughly 27% of victims show evidence of Stockholm syndrome. Stockholm syndrome can be seen as a form of traumatic bonding, which does not necessarily require a hostage scenario, but which describes “strong emotional ties that develop between two persons where one person intermittently harasses, beats, threatens, abuses, or intimidates the other.” [link to en.wikipedia.org]
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31404386


Stockholm Syndrome would apply after a person is captured, or in this case in the relationship. These are women that are attracted to someone beforehand. Unless you are stating that their whole life is one big capture-bonding experience.
 Quoting: H0NEYBEE


and Patty Hurst...Honeybee, Why do you find such low ittligent people worth conversing with? I find it for entertainment value...and some of the morans are freaking funny!!
 Quoting: PimpMYRide


I converse with all different types of people...part of what makes the world go round. It's interesting to hear some of the different view points.

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Stockholm Syndrome would apply after a person is captured, or in this case in the relationship. These are women that are attracted to someone beforehand. Unless you are stating that their whole life is one big capture-bonding experience.
 Quoting: H0NEYBEE

I've got some bad news... all of life is "one big capture-bonding experience." It's just done with politically correct contract terminology. Everyone "chooses" everything now. Of course, people play absolutely ruthless, sadistic games in order to create environments where "choosing" traumatic capture-bonding is the only way most people can see to stay alive, but hey, it's your "choice." Yeah, right. The IRS Commissioner recently testified to Congress that income tax is voluntary. In other words, people "choose" to pay it. No capture-bonding going one there, no sireee. It's the model of modern life - pleasant, smiling sadistic, calculating monsters with politically correct terminology, with all laws supporting their power structure, and with at least half, if not more, of those ruthless and heartless people being female. But just dare to point it out, and see what hell you pay, as they grin to each other.

What if it is none of that? What about women who choose to hold off on settling down and starting a family due to their career?
 Quoting: H0NEYBEE

No one and nothing stops women from having a career. But women want everything, and be happy doing everything, and have people praise and support them for doing everything - oh I'm sorry, they want MEN to support them and praise them and help them do everything. The same men who are shits if they don't provide what women wouldn't think of being held to, now that they are liberated.

Men are waking up, though. Waking up, and walking away. But it will be a cold day in hell before women EVER admit the monsters they've become. Men can be the monsters. Women universally agree men are monsters. They even strip them of their manhood and refer to them as "males." But if you so much as question the most ludicrous and destructive act of a woman, hell decends on your head.

Am I anti-woman? Nope. I'm an American man. I live in a country where feral, hateful packs of women laugh over their constant, endless abuse of men, their destruction of fair laws, and their pussyfication of boys. I'm a survivor, like millions of American men. I watch, and stay far, far away from the disgusting hypocrisy and cruelty that American women have become. Is it lonely, is it frustrating and difficult, is it depressing to stay away? Yes. But all of that is nothing compared to the hell that happens when you get involved with an American woman.

This used to be whispered - it's not anymore. American men are turning away from poisonously narcissistic, hateful and power-mad American... females... in droves, because the alternative is madness.

But it won't last much longer. All these females can do is destroy. So either they will be stopped somehow, or they will succeed in electing enough power-mad maniacs to destroy the country that it will finally be brought down on our heads. Either way, look around, everything is going straight to hell right in front of our eyes - things can't last much longer like this.

P.S. for those of you who want to ask I'm I'm saying the destruction of the country is "women's fault," my short answer is yes, it is - and not by accident. It's women's fault because American women are openly TRYING to destroy the country, because they've been told by other women and men that destroying the country is the only way they will ever get all the things they want in life. Destroy the country, destroy men, destroy culture, destroy law and destroy freedom, and replace it with a dream totalitarianism run by women. Because after all the necessary hundreds of millions of obstructionists are killed, women will be more compassionate leaders.

And history shows us this is more than possible, it happens all the time. All you need is a group of people who believe that they are above needing any morality. Who believe they are literally the chosen, superior beings. Who are willing to destroy the vermin who don't understand how special they are, so that they can rule in enlightened way. That defines, the Nazis, the Soviet and Chinese Communists - and the insane level of privileged superiority of the mind of American Female.

And it will end the same way it always has - in misery and death for millions.
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I tip my hat to this gentleman, just telling it like it is.
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Okay, hold on...these quotes are being taken out of context. My response was to one gentleman's question. It had nothing to do with the first quote. I was just meaning not to judge a woman based on if she has had a child or not by 30 or her past relationships.

I am for "legitimate equality" but not this supremacy women's movement. (I know there are going to be some females on here that are going to hate me for that)...but I'm being honest. I have helped men fight for their rights in the justice system. It has gone too far the other way on many issues on trying to make men second class.

I believe a woman can have a career and be married. I don't believe that a man has to support a woman, if there is a field that she has a passion for, and she is good at it..then she should be able to continue. I was married to a guy that did not want me to have my own career. A career that I was very good at. I gave it up for him and helped him build his business. Even putting off having children to do that. Needless to say, we did not work out.

If a couple decides that they want the wife to say home...then that's their choice. It's the great thing of us all being different. My choices now are different based on life experience. It takes two to make a relationship work. Equality and respect for both the male and female. Granted, I have been called "old fashioned"...but that's my choice and my life.
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Best ever explanation, and spot on.
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I can't believe you meat-sacks are still blathering about this.

Hilarious!!
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It's the human condition, war of the sexes, what topic of conversation could be more engaging than this!?
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dasbier

Actually, it's not suppose to be the war of the sexes but about why women seem to be attracted to "bad boys"...lol
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That's called Stockolm syndrome
Stockholm syndrome, or capture–bonding, is a psychological phenomenon in which hostages express empathy and sympathy and have positive feelings toward their captors, sometimes to the point of defending them. These feelings are generally considered irrational in light of the danger or risk endured by the victims, who essentially mistake a lack of abuse from their captors for an act of kindness. The FBI's Hostage Barricade Database System shows that roughly 27% of victims show evidence of Stockholm syndrome. Stockholm syndrome can be seen as a form of traumatic bonding, which does not necessarily require a hostage scenario, but which describes “strong emotional ties that develop between two persons where one person intermittently harasses, beats, threatens, abuses, or intimidates the other.” [link to en.wikipedia.org]
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31404386


Stockholm Syndrome would apply after a person is captured, or in this case in the relationship. These are women that are attracted to someone beforehand. Unless you are stating that their whole life is one big capture-bonding experience.
 Quoting: H0NEYBEE


and Patty Hurst...Honeybee, Why do you find such low ittligent people worth conversing with? I find it for entertainment value...and some of the morans are freaking funny!!
 Quoting: PimpMYRide


I converse with all different types of people...part of what makes the world go round. It's interesting to hear some of the different view points.

hugs
 Quoting: H0NEYBEE


and hear some CRAZY POV. I am here to proove that retards are really among us
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Stockholm Syndrome would apply after a person is captured, or in this case in the relationship. These are women that are attracted to someone beforehand. Unless you are stating that their whole life is one big capture-bonding experience.
 Quoting: H0NEYBEE


and Patty Hurst...Honeybee, Why do you find such low ittligent people worth conversing with? I find it for entertainment value...and some of the morans are freaking funny!!
 Quoting: PimpMYRide


I converse with all different types of people...part of what makes the world go round. It's interesting to hear some of the different view points.

hugs
 Quoting: H0NEYBEE


and hear some CRAZY POV. I am here to proove that retards are really among us
 Quoting: PimpMYRide


Would that be a "retard apocalypse" ?!?!? muaha
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Women are always looking for a project. They want a man they can mold into the man of their dreams. They seem to think the nice guys are too boring. The bad boys are more fun, but they want to change them. When I met my wife, the first thing I told her is "If you like me as I am, lets go, but I'm not going to change". It worked out. My first wife told me she wanted a divorce because "You haven't changed". I told her "No shit, you knew who I was when we met". If you want a project, please buy an old car.
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OP, much affection for starting this thread. A woman discovers basic PUA material and uses it to introspect. Rather than getting all angry, she sees the truth in it.

How do we men know there's truth in it? Well it works. I managed to figure out some of the basics myself before there were PUA websites, so maybe it was easier for me, because the raunchy truths of it were not talked about openly so much yet. (Therefore there was even less competition from other men, but even so today I don't get the impression that competition between men is a problem.) Even sources like Penthouse Magazine were about stimulation far more than knowledge. FWIW I don't remember how I figured out what I did, doesn't seem important any more.

So you see don't ask women what women want. Most of them don't know, and so they can't talk about it. They surely cannot talk about it with other women. Women don't talk about this stuff!

What women talk about with each other, these days, seems to be a lot of their expectations for each other. They're keeping each other on the feminist straight-and-narrow. See how OP says other women would react negatively to her rejection of the worst of feminism? It really is a sort of cult, and we have a generation of very tough girls, made so by each other.

But even that cannot overcome desire. Men it's up to you to help these girls, because the other girls surely won't. They can fight each other but they cannot fight you. They cannot counteract your girl's desire for you. Once a girl is yours, she is yours and all the other stuff falls away like magic, but then you can help by keeping her interested once in a while. And don't overreact to her crap. Generally speaking, if you don't lead it, it won't get done. That includes divorce. She may try everything to get you to do it, but what if you don't? You are still the leader. Whether you like it or not, and whether she likes it or not. And whether she says it or not, she does like it.

If the conditions in the above paragraph do not hold, I suspect the physical attraction is not there. And then you, the man, must either change that, or get out without getting her pregnant. If she has your child and she doesn't want you deep inside (i.e. never did -- all women become bitchy when they're mothers but she can't make her desire go away, only hide it) she'll leave you with nothing but an order for child support payments.

Back to women vs. women, though -- the territory that is not directly observable to me as a man. Women don't seem to talk about this either. Probably because they don't think about it either. From what I understand of most female "friendships" they're not very friendly. They are certainly not committed or loyal, they are based on mutual expectations and comparison, even competition. Even the arch-feminist Betty Friedan said once to her bitch co-conspirators "we may not like each other but we can work together". So if any men are intimidated by women running in packs or whatever, I think this may clarify things. Or, OP, do you agree with what I am saying here?
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One more thing -- sorry I hit "post" too soon.

Why do women like bad boys? I dunno, maybe they just like being led, they get hot for leaders, and one big part of being a leader is leading them, and when they're hot the place they want to be led is into bed. But you have to do it. They'll know if your doing it, even if you're doing it gradually, but being timid (scared to take a step, rather than taking your time) will be obvious and turn them off.

And how would you describe someone who is pretty unconcerned about the woman's expressed opinion at the time, and is certainly willing to break those social taboos that form our protection zone, standing between meeting someone and fucking them? A bad boy is likely to be good at it.
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Admittedly I spedread this, was going to simply point that it's evolution. Women utilize more of their right hemispere, are in charge of dna(seperate convo), preserve life by their very purpose of nurturing. According to HIS-STORY, we are versus men's insatiable desire to end life through violence, greed, rape, and war...We women KNOW this is not who they really are, they are entranced with an idea of who they are that is false. It is not a wise man that believes killing is who he is.



Hence, women love the "Bad Boys" to advance humanity.


Women need to wake up and be aware of this, next step.

Do women honestly think that 1,000's of years of free labor based on a monetary system built around women as property was going to be fixed by acting like men?? Women don't understand their own power yet.

Perhaps it is women that need to get to know their shadow, for it is NOT pleasant. It is in your genetic memory. And SHE is angry, and that is ok.

Oh, and tell patriarchal monotheism to fuck off.
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A smart bad boy will be making sexy eyes at the boss's daughter, and then go down to the loading dock and use the forklift to load 10 trucks with 4000 bags of corn sitting on pallets of 25 bags each by lunch time, then take the boss's daughter to lunch and then back to his apartment to bang the living shit out of her for three hours before he comes back to work at the end of the day to tell you you did a good job as you load the last bag of corn off of your shoulders.

Then he'll get the manager's job at the boss's weekend barbeque while also sneaking off to screw the bosses other daughter in a back bedroom. On Monday, he'll sell out the boss to his competitor with knowledge he learned at the barbeque for a hefty bonus and new job, and then screw that boss's daughter whily helping lobby new laws for his competitor. That will bring him into politics, where he will be elected congressman while screwing everyone's daughter, and then he will be hired by Monsanto to pass laws to destroy the corn industry and plunge his entire State into a depression as the corn business shifts to China, where he will go for payoffs to lower Chinese agriculture import duties, while screwing every Chinese daughter he can find.

He will live to be over 100, he will be praised as a statesman and role model of morality, and the world will sing his praises in songs that schoolchildren will write. He will finally die of a heart attack screwing his best friend's wife, and women's groups will praise him for his lifelong example of supporting women's rights.

Welcome to Reality.
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Reality?

cruise

shit. that sounds all fine and fuck dandy in your head. but in REALITY the "boss" has no daughter... the forklift was out on a loan job... a surprise order came in... and I netted 500 fucking dollars in a single day for carrying a "few" bags of corn...

im the bastard people call when "smart" boys sit around dreaming up stupid shit in their lil fantasy world... where they pretend to be super heros and multi-million dollar play boys.

when "smart" boys sit around scratching and farting up tall tales... my phone rings because i solve peoples problems. i get it the fuck done.

Thats how the real world is ran... not by dreamers or wanna be's or "tough guy bad boys" its ran by people who get out and get shit done...

If you good enough at getting shit done you can make a fortune doing shit that most people get paid peanuts to do...

Reality... lol



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At what point do we stop saying "women like bad boys" and start saying "women are fucking stupid, soulless, moronic whores who choose THE most shallow, awful qualities in mate"?

Someone please tell me.

But no, no, no, it's all "biology".

That mom sold her kid for $4,000 because of "biology", she just couldn't resist having her bad boy boyfriend be in jail any longer.

At what point do we finally admit... these women are pieces of utter shit?
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Yes, this woman that calls herself a mother is a piece of shit. It's one thing if she were only responsible for her own life and her mistakes. But to drag children into it.. I don't even have the words.


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OP, much affection for starting this thread. A woman discovers basic PUA material and uses it to introspect. Rather than getting all angry, she sees the truth in it.

How do we men know there's truth in it? Well it works. I managed to figure out some of the basics myself before there were PUA websites, so maybe it was easier for me, because the raunchy truths of it were not talked about openly so much yet. (Therefore there was even less competition from other men, but even so today I don't get the impression that competition between men is a problem.) Even sources like Penthouse Magazine were about stimulation far more than knowledge. FWIW I don't remember how I figured out what I did, doesn't seem important any more.

So you see don't ask women what women want. Most of them don't know, and so they can't talk about it. They surely cannot talk about it with other women. Women don't talk about this stuff!

What women talk about with each other, these days, seems to be a lot of their expectations for each other. They're keeping each other on the feminist straight-and-narrow. See how OP says other women would react negatively to her rejection of the worst of feminism? It really is a sort of cult, and we have a generation of very tough girls, made so by each other.

But even that cannot overcome desire. Men it's up to you to help these girls, because the other girls surely won't. They can fight each other but they cannot fight you. They cannot counteract your girl's desire for you. Once a girl is yours, she is yours and all the other stuff falls away like magic, but then you can help by keeping her interested once in a while. And don't overreact to her crap. Generally speaking, if you don't lead it, it won't get done. That includes divorce. She may try everything to get you to do it, but what if you don't? You are still the leader. Whether you like it or not, and whether she likes it or not. And whether she says it or not, she does like it.

If the conditions in the above paragraph do not hold, I suspect the physical attraction is not there. And then you, the man, must either change that, or get out without getting her pregnant. If she has your child and she doesn't want you deep inside (i.e. never did -- all women become bitchy when they're mothers but she can't make her desire go away, only hide it) she'll leave you with nothing but an order for child support payments.

Back to women vs. women, though -- the territory that is not directly observable to me as a man. Women don't seem to talk about this either. Probably because they don't think about it either. From what I understand of most female "friendships" they're not very friendly. They are certainly not committed or loyal, they are based on mutual expectations and comparison, even competition. Even the arch-feminist Betty Friedan said once to her bitch co-conspirators "we may not like each other but we can work together". So if any men are intimidated by women running in packs or whatever, I think this may clarify things. Or, OP, do you agree with what I am saying here?
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Well, this really wasn't about women vs. women, but my friends and I talk. And we are good friends that are loyal to one another. I think you have to know who is in your group, they are either for you or against you. No matter what gender you are, you need to know who are really your friends. Granted we are somewhat like minded on these type issues and are not angry women. I can't speak for everyone else, just my own experiences and my own circle.
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We are no longer the "land of the free" we are now the "largest prison nation in the world."
"Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” Martin Luther King,Jr.
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Ms. Honeybee...Is there a special man in your life?
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It don't matter...Would you like another one?

A florida bad boy
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I see why you asked now, no bad boys for me....
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My dearest Honeybee, as I stated in my previous replies, I have reformed and given up my bad boy ways. I was always a nice guy who reinvented myself just so I would not have to live in a world of rejection. Being that you are a GLPer ,would it be safe to say that your mind works differently than most others and you can understand things on a broad spectrum? Its hard to relate to narrow minded and shallow people especially in the realm of dating. Have you ever tried to have a GLP like conversation at a bar? Disaster wasnt it.

While I deployed the "MANS SECRET" concept thru out my turf of NE FL, to keep me from being alone, it did not keep me from being lonely. In the long run , depth and connection is better than shallow and lies.
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Yeah, it's safe to say that my mind works differently. This place was recommended to me because my mind works differently..lol. No, I've not had GLP like conversations at a bar. I've been busy being an advocate against injustice in the judicial system. I've been busy working with the Law and Justice Committee and State Legislators. Speaking before them to lobby against bad laws and to create better laws that will look into corrupt practices. I'm an activist..but not a feminist. Sorta like "steampunk" Modern but Old World.

A reformed bad boy...well, working in the justice field...I tend to hear that a lot..lol.

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America-We represent 5% of the world, yet we represent 25% of the incarcerated world.
We are no longer the "land of the free" we are now the "largest prison nation in the world."
"Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” Martin Luther King,Jr.
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At what point do we stop saying "women like bad boys" and start saying "women are fucking stupid, soulless, moronic whores who choose THE most shallow, awful qualities in mate"?

Someone please tell me.

But no, no, no, it's all "biology".

That mom sold her kid for $4,000 because of "biology", she just couldn't resist having her bad boy boyfriend be in jail any longer.

At what point do we finally admit... these women are pieces of utter shit?
 Quoting: Super Bowl Dave


Yes, this woman that calls herself a mother is a piece of shit. It's one thing if she were only responsible for her own life and her mistakes. But to drag children into it.. I don't even have the words.


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I'm just tired of the "ohh women can't resist bad boys it's biology"... that's like saying... "stealing / lying / being stupid is just biology, stop being judgmental."

Nah. You spread that snatch for some douchebag, pop a kid out and have NO family structure in place, you deserve all that comes to you, and you deserve to be spat on and shunned by society. That person is trash. That is a trash woman.

I'm done defending this shit, like it's biology, or PLAYING INTO IT.

"Deerp I gotta act like a douche and a jerk and play this game and be kinda 'dangerous' to get a woman." How could I ever respect a woman who RESPONDS to that garbage? I couldn't. And the assholes don't.
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Hey! I'm not spreading it...this was all in the article..those are not MY words. I didn't believe it, until another guy shared it with me, thus I shared it with everyone on here. To see how others felt about this topic. It's been interesting, that's for sure!

I would tell guys NOT to change into bad boys. I think it's more about the confidence a man carries in himself than it is about being "bad." If a woman really thought about it, yes the guy can be "bad"...end up in prison and then she is all alone. Real fun times.
"I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples." Mother Teresa
America-We represent 5% of the world, yet we represent 25% of the incarcerated world.
We are no longer the "land of the free" we are now the "largest prison nation in the world."
"Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” Martin Luther King,Jr.
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I think, that one has a desire to be on the EDGy side. Like Bonnie and Clyde.

To rebel from the moral teaching being the governor (for us elder folks) on the mustang...Then we realize we screwed up...and married better boys....

Oh, I had my years, they were AWESOME...but I hurt myself and a lot of people...But mostly I have learned a great deal.
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We are no longer the "land of the free" we are now the "largest prison nation in the world."
"Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” Martin Luther King,Jr.
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