find your local WIC office (Women, Infants, Children) but send her in solo the first time. First impressions go a long way around there - it's not cold of you to keep the car warm while she barters for attention in there and if the stamp lady doesn't like her story it'll won't win you any favors.

MOST DESPERATE = MOST ATTENTION, MOST OF THE TIME

I narrowly dodged that bullet a few times myself and I know how you feel about the pro-choice issue, too. I was adamantly pro-choice until we thought we'd gotten pregnant - good luck, bro...