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(OP) User ID: 57777016 United States 05/22/2014 11:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i guess cuz i never did it it seemed strange to me. Im actually glad you guys are saying you did so i know im overreacting lol. But i would have liked a notice telling me they were going to do them. not like i would have stopped it. Last Edited by SevenSantana on 05/22/2014 11:42 AM SevenSantana |
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User ID: 39685812 United States 05/22/2014 11:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i guess cuz i never did it it seemed strange to me. Im actually glad you guys are saying you did so i know im overreacting lol. But i would have liked a notice telling me they were going to do them. not like i would have stopped it. Quoting: SevenSantana Your kid probably takes a bus on field trips so it's probably best he get to practice too. When you find a piece of shit along side the road and you poke it with a stick, what do you expect to find inside of it, gold? No, it's just going to stink more. |
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User ID: 51098887 United States 05/22/2014 11:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We had bus drills, even for kids who didn't ride the bus. It is important, and I would be grateful that my son now knows how to get of a bus in a disaster, as most people honestly don't. Especially elementary aged kids, they are not going to know how to open those emergency exits. The school is probably just preparing for future years where they take buses on field trips. (It is not out of the ordinary to take field trips several times a year in grade school...) Point being, I'd say that school is in the right, and doing a great service by not overlooking the seemingly "unnecessary" drills. Those are the things that usually end in disaster when overlooked, after all... |
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User ID: 51098887 United States 05/22/2014 11:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i guess cuz i never did it it seemed strange to me. Im actually glad you guys are saying you did so i know im overreacting lol. But i would have liked a notice telling me they were going to do them. not like i would have stopped it. Quoting: SevenSantana Do you get notices for fire drills and tornado drills? Active shooter drills? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 57187107 United States 05/22/2014 12:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i guess cuz i never did it it seemed strange to me. Im actually glad you guys are saying you did so i know im overreacting lol. But i would have liked a notice telling me they were going to do them. not like i would have stopped it. Quoting: SevenSantana Fasten your seatbelt Momma ! My kid is in 6th grade and you have to moniter everything . Non stop stupidity ! we tried private school for 2 years but we picked a bad one and my son fell further behind (Montessori ) Stay strong |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 51544474 United States 05/22/2014 12:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "I never did that in any grade in school and I grew up in the same city ( Chicago) " Don't even try to compare what YOU experienced, with what the Victims in the School system in Chicongo are facing today? This is a completely infested, Psychopath controlled system, a freeloaders paradise, with zero border control, and a taxpayers nightmare. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35950636 United States 05/22/2014 12:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He walks to school and its a neighborhood school so there are no buses that bring kids there. ( Its actually a pretty bad school we are moving so he will be out of there it was just the only choice I had at the time ) ANyway... hes in kindergarten...and he said that they put all the kids on a bus and then taught them how to escape if something bad happened. I was like huh! I never did that in any grade in school and I grew up in the same city ( Chicago) going to public schools and taking buses when I was in a magnet school. I got no notice of this. You are putting 6 year olds on a school bus and teaching them how to escape in case of a disaster even tho no kids take buses there? Sigh. So ...i gotta contact the teacher. SO glad hes out of this school in two weeks. Wtf. I at least would have liked a note or notice saying that they would be going thru these exercises or something!! Quoting: SevenSantana Seriously? What planet are you from? I did this same thing in the 70s. Its the law inmost states to perform these drills. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 56215584 United States 05/22/2014 01:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He walks to school and its a neighborhood school so there are no buses that bring kids there. ( Its actually a pretty bad school we are moving so he will be out of there it was just the only choice I had at the time ) ANyway... hes in kindergarten...and he said that they put all the kids on a bus and then taught them how to escape if something bad happened. I was like huh! I never did that in any grade in school and I grew up in the same city ( Chicago) going to public schools and taking buses when I was in a magnet school. I got no notice of this. You are putting 6 year olds on a school bus and teaching them how to escape in case of a disaster even tho no kids take buses there? Sigh. So ...i gotta contact the teacher. SO glad hes out of this school in two weeks. Wtf. I at least would have liked a note or notice saying that they would be going thru these exercises or something!! Quoting: SevenSantana I don't understand what the problem is???? Hypersensitivity on your part? We were taught to hide under desks, we were taught to drop and cover, we were also taught to drop and roll so what's the big deal?????????????????????????????? In today's society it would seem prudent to teach children to take care of themselves when MOMMY isn't around. Do you think they should ask you about everything your child does and is taught? I suspect by the time you got around to giving him/her permission every time to go to the bathroom they would have already pissed themselves!!!!! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 57886787 United Kingdom 05/22/2014 01:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | mine where taught that in the event of a disaster most parent's dead so kids would need a carer an older teenage person to be exact and they may have to go off to an evacuee camp somewhere what fuckery is that then they tried to pass it off as if they where teaching the kids about ww2 scared the kids wasn't happy then a friends daughter who is at college who is doing child welfare asked if she could be there buddy some crap to do with the college course yeah right told her no straight out or am I being paranoid you decide |
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User ID: 247598 United States 05/22/2014 01:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe this warrants a thread of its own, but you made me remember something a family member went through last year in Illinois. -- He and his wife have two sons, maybe 9 and 5/6. They go to public school in rural Illinois about 3 - 4 hours from Chicago. The parents received no notification of this happening AT ALL, but one day in school the classes were talked to by someone from Child Protective Services, something like that, along with the classroom teacher. The students were asked various questions about whether or not their parents touch them inappropriately or do things that could signal abuse. All of these questions were asked to groups of students in their class together - not individually. Their youngest son, a 5 year old, when asked some question about being touched inappropriately, answered that yes, his dad touched his butt and that he didn't like it. Now... what he was thinking of was completely harmless spankings or pinches to get him to go to bed. Nothing sexual, nothing inappropriate. And the kid didn't like it because they were trying to get him to go to bed. So he described this to whoever this person was, and the dad pretty much automatically had some record of inappropriate activity, child abuse, something like that. They didn't even talk to the parents about it. I can't say that he was criminally charged with something, but it was on a record that became available to people in a background search. At the time the dad was trying to become a coach for the older son's baseball team - he couldn't do it because of this charge. He was also looking for a new job and had to withdrawl from that because of it possibly coming out in a background search. They live in a small town so word would have spread quickly. Does this freak anyone out here? I was absolutely shocked that students could be put through this type of questioning at such a young age, and without the parent's consent. Aren't parents supposed to know EVERYTHING that goes on with their kids at a public school? On the other hand though, I get that a parent that was actually abusing their kids could keep the kids home that day, or coach them in a response. So he's had to get a lawyer and deal with this, and i think looked into suing the school district. Not sure where it stands now. When I found out about it I was just shocked at the whole thing. What are your thoughts on this? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33924562 United States 05/22/2014 01:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe this warrants a thread of its own, but you made me remember something a family member went through last year in Illinois. Quoting: ThunderMud -- He and his wife have two sons, maybe 9 and 5/6. They go to public school in rural Illinois about 3 - 4 hours from Chicago. The parents received no notification of this happening AT ALL, but one day in school the classes were talked to by someone from Child Protective Services, something like that, along with the classroom teacher. The students were asked various questions about whether or not their parents touch them inappropriately or do things that could signal abuse. All of these questions were asked to groups of students in their class together - not individually. Their youngest son, a 5 year old, when asked some question about being touched inappropriately, answered that yes, his dad touched his butt and that he didn't like it. Now... what he was thinking of was completely harmless spankings or pinches to get him to go to bed. Nothing sexual, nothing inappropriate. And the kid didn't like it because they were trying to get him to go to bed. So he described this to whoever this person was, and the dad pretty much automatically had some record of inappropriate activity, child abuse, something like that. They didn't even talk to the parents about it. I can't say that he was criminally charged with something, but it was on a record that became available to people in a background search. At the time the dad was trying to become a coach for the older son's baseball team - he couldn't do it because of this charge. He was also looking for a new job and had to withdrawl from that because of it possibly coming out in a background search. They live in a small town so word would have spread quickly. Does this freak anyone out here? I was absolutely shocked that students could be put through this type of questioning at such a young age, and without the parent's consent. Aren't parents supposed to know EVERYTHING that goes on with their kids at a public school? On the other hand though, I get that a parent that was actually abusing their kids could keep the kids home that day, or coach them in a response. So he's had to get a lawyer and deal with this, and i think looked into suing the school district. Not sure where it stands now. When I found out about it I was just shocked at the whole thing. What are your thoughts on this? The breakdown of the nuclear family creates a vacuum which the State occupies. It's a gradual process happening over decades of time. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 58343908 United States 05/22/2014 01:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe this warrants a thread of its own, but you made me remember something a family member went through last year in Illinois. Quoting: ThunderMud -- He and his wife have two sons, maybe 9 and 5/6. They go to public school in rural Illinois about 3 - 4 hours from Chicago. The parents received no notification of this happening AT ALL, but one day in school the classes were talked to by someone from Child Protective Services, something like that, along with the classroom teacher. The students were asked various questions about whether or not their parents touch them inappropriately or do things that could signal abuse. All of these questions were asked to groups of students in their class together - not individually. Their youngest son, a 5 year old, when asked some question about being touched inappropriately, answered that yes, his dad touched his butt and that he didn't like it. Now... what he was thinking of was completely harmless spankings or pinches to get him to go to bed. Nothing sexual, nothing inappropriate. And the kid didn't like it because they were trying to get him to go to bed. So he described this to whoever this person was, and the dad pretty much automatically had some record of inappropriate activity, child abuse, something like that. They didn't even talk to the parents about it. I can't say that he was criminally charged with something, but it was on a record that became available to people in a background search. At the time the dad was trying to become a coach for the older son's baseball team - he couldn't do it because of this charge. He was also looking for a new job and had to withdrawl from that because of it possibly coming out in a background search. They live in a small town so word would have spread quickly. Does this freak anyone out here? I was absolutely shocked that students could be put through this type of questioning at such a young age, and without the parent's consent. Aren't parents supposed to know EVERYTHING that goes on with their kids at a public school? On the other hand though, I get that a parent that was actually abusing their kids could keep the kids home that day, or coach them in a response. So he's had to get a lawyer and deal with this, and i think looked into suing the school district. Not sure where it stands now. When I found out about it I was just shocked at the whole thing. What are your thoughts on this? My third grade grandson's teacher gave each child in class a journal to write in everyday about their feelings on things that bother them. The children were not allowed to bring the journals home until the end of the year. I asked if he writes in it everyday. He said he does but sometimes he doesn't know what to write about so the teacher asks him questions about his home life. She suggests he write about that. |