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I bared myself heart and soul to my family yesterday and apologized for every wrong I have ever done

 
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I had a really nice lunch with my son who attends the Art Institute in Pittsburgh yesterday. After that I told my Wife (yes the one who asked for a divorce) and my children to come over to my oldest daughters house and that I wanted to talk.

After everyone got settled I started by bearing myself open and broken and apologizing for every wrong, mental trauma that they had to endure either through my misadventures and folly or every bad decision that I have made that affected them. Then I got on my knees and begged for their forgiveness. It was a very emotional moment. I figured that this was a start to try and keep my family together.

Then I told them that
The past is the past and I have made peace with it
Today is Today
Tomorrow is Tomorrow

All we can hope for is that each day is better than the day before and that tomorrow will be better than today.

It's a start I guess
At least she took divorce off the table for now

I only talk to my friends here because I've no one else to talk with. I hope you all understand that.

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Guitarguy55
 Quoting: Guitarguy55


What step in the program of AA is that?

How did they react?

What the fuck have you done to them?!
 Quoting: BRIEF


It's no step of AA and they reacted with tears and acceptance!! I'll bear my soul here and get crucified by the masses that wouldn't bother me. If you want me to
 Quoting: Guitarguy55


Nah, that's family stuff...just wanted to hear they accepted it.
 Quoting: BRIEF


Shocking that you didn't delve further!
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05/27/2014 01:24 PM
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From an outsider's perspective this really gives the impression of being a important marker point on your life journey, man....

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05/27/2014 01:40 PM
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Re: I bared myself heart and soul to my family yesterday and apologized for every wrong I have ever done
Well done. It must have been very difficult for you. Let the peace and healing begin!

I know you said you are not working AA but the 12 steps are very helpful in recovery from any trauma, pain, addiction or rage problem. You in fact worked a step and it takes a lot if courage to do a self inventory and make amends to those you hurt.

12 steps:

1 We admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.
2 Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
3 Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
4 Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5 Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6 Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7 Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8 Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
9 Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10 Continued to take personal inventory, and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.
11 Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
12 Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

If we all practiced this in our lives maybe the world would be a better place. This principles can benefit everyone.
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Re: I bared myself heart and soul to my family yesterday and apologized for every wrong I have ever done
I had a really nice lunch with my son who attends the Art Institute in Pittsburgh yesterday. After that I told my Wife (yes the one who asked for a divorce) and my children to come over to my oldest daughters house and that I wanted to talk.

After everyone got settled I started by bearing myself open and broken and apologizing for every wrong, mental trauma that they had to endure either through my misadventures and folly or every bad decision that I have made that affected them. Then I got on my knees and begged for their forgiveness. It was a very emotional moment. I figured that this was a start to try and keep my family together.

Then I told them that
The past is the past and I have made peace with it
Today is Today
Tomorrow is Tomorrow

All we can hope for is that each day is better than the day before and that tomorrow will be better than today.

It's a start I guess
At least she took divorce off the table for now

I only talk to my friends here because I've no one else to talk with. I hope you all understand that.

Peace and love
Guitarguy55
 Quoting: Guitarguy55


What step in the program of AA is that?

How did they react?

What the fuck have you done to them?!
 Quoting: BRIEF


It's no step of AA and they reacted with tears and acceptance!! I'll bear my soul here and get crucified by the masses that wouldn't bother me. If you want me to
 Quoting: Guitarguy55


Sounds awesome!

Kudos to you and your family.

You can all move forward again, together. It really can work with some effort, understanding and patience. :)
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05/27/2014 02:29 PM
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Re: I bared myself heart and soul to my family yesterday and apologized for every wrong I have ever done
"After that I told my Wife (yes the one who asked for a divorce)"

If you have more than one wife no wonder she's pissed at you.
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05/27/2014 02:44 PM
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just remember it is the beginning not the end ~ and those that feel wronged will test the new beginning. Understand it when it comes and keep your eye on what you saw as important enough to call this meeting.

its not the destination but the journey
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05/27/2014 05:01 PM
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Remember, though, that you will still have to assert yourself in the world and people may not like what you have to say. If you respond to their displeasure by retreating into a pansy state you will have robbed them of knowing you.

You're off to a good start but don't fool yourself by thinking this is the end of it. You and they will still grow and change. You will all need to learn how to negotiate the rough spots. Trust may be hard to come by. But you've shown courage and that's critical for any chance of success.
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Wise words thank you for that!!
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Re: I bared myself heart and soul to my family yesterday and apologized for every wrong I have ever done
"After that I told my Wife (yes the one who asked for a divorce)"

If you have more than one wife no wonder she's pissed at you.
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You haven't read my thread from the other day obviously!!
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Isn't it freeing to be so humble? I love it. Keep up the good work and I hope you won't have to apologize like that ever again. God bless you. :)
 Quoting: shyrlymyrly


I made a complete moral inventory of myself,my demons and skeletons that haunt me and made my peace with it! it was a freeing moment of humility and being humble before God and my family I can do no more than that!!
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Re: I bared myself heart and soul to my family yesterday and apologized for every wrong I have ever done
Someone called me a narcissistic Asshole in my Karma vault if they only knew how far from the truth that is. Believe me I don't look in the mirror and love myself. I never have put myself on a pedestal and said hey look at how wonderful I am If that person understood how broken I am they wouldn't say such things. I have reaped what I have sown and know the consequences of it.
I have made my peace with the past!!
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05/27/2014 05:36 PM
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Wow , it takes a lots of inner strength and Love to do that OP.
Wouldn't the world be an amazing place if everyone did that with people in their life ?
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Wow , it takes a lots of inner strength and Love to do that OP.
Wouldn't the world be an amazing place if everyone did that with people in their life ?
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Wouldn't it though!!!
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Re: I bared myself heart and soul to my family yesterday and apologized for every wrong I have ever done
Someone called me a narcissistic Asshole in my Karma vault if they only knew how far from the truth that is. Believe me I don't look in the mirror and love myself. I never have put myself on a pedestal and said hey look at how wonderful I am If that person understood how broken I am they wouldn't say such things. I have reaped what I have sown and know the consequences of it.
I have made my peace with the past!!
 Quoting: Guitarguy55


Don't try and prove yourself to anyone here.

hf


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Re: I bared myself heart and soul to my family yesterday and apologized for every wrong I have ever done
Someone called me a narcissistic Asshole in my Karma vault if they only knew how far from the truth that is. Believe me I don't look in the mirror and love myself. I never have put myself on a pedestal and said hey look at how wonderful I am If that person understood how broken I am they wouldn't say such things. I have reaped what I have sown and know the consequences of it.
I have made my peace with the past!!
 Quoting: Guitarguy55


Don't try and prove yourself to anyone here.

hf


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 Quoting: halman


I know it's just I have no one else to talk to!!! so I don't mind the occasional bashing that i get
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05/27/2014 06:19 PM
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Re: I bared myself heart and soul to my family yesterday and apologized for every wrong I have ever done
I have only the utmost respect for a man who not only hears, he listens.

You've done what you can, admitted the hurts you caused and apologized.

It's going to take time, GuitarGuy55.


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I have only the utmost respect for a man who not only hears, he listens.

You've done what you can, admitted the hurts you caused and apologized.

It's going to take time, GuitarGuy55.


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 Quoting: LaniJane


Thank you for the inspiration LaniJane that means alot!!
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