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| ajk
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| Shoot-Straight Johnny
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| ajk
(OP) User ID: 29024587 United States09/08/2014 04:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation |  No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 60329519  Ukraine09/08/2014 05:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| ajk
(OP) User ID: 29024587 United States09/08/2014 05:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | real love grows Quoting: Anonymous Coward 60329519 But it's a common mistake to think love is a choice. You don't choose love, it happens. with what I'm going through right now...I totally agree....I NEVER expected I'd be feeling this way a week ago....it has blown me away. It's to where I literally feel I cannot ignore it, even if I wanted to. All from one ordinary get together, or so I thought it was to be ordinary anyway. Last Edited by ajk on 09/08/2014 05:09 AM No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
| Face Palmer
User ID: 62656653  Germany09/08/2014 05:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | sex drive (and it was always really high I might add) gone, very little interest in it anymore, like it feels wrong/odd if not shared with her in some form Quoting: ajk Soon you will hopefully learn the difference between mindless fucking and sweet love making. But be careful, you may loose all interest in mindless fucking and your male friends will eye you like you have lost your mind. Last Edited by Face Palmer on 09/08/2014 05:20 AM "The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title." Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 45396139 United Kingdom09/08/2014 05:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| ajk
(OP) User ID: 29024587 United States09/08/2014 05:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | sex drive (and it was always really high I might add) gone, very little interest in it anymore, like it feels wrong/odd if not shared with her in some form Quoting: ajk Soon you will hopefully learn the difference between mindless fucking and sweet love making. But be careful, you may loose all interest in mindless fucking and your male friends will eye you like you have lost your mind. In some ways? I feel like I'm there now. Like she's the only soul I'm really seeing out there right now.....and it's not even entirely physical despite the fact she's gorgeous and fit, it's more spiritual I feel. Funny thing is...I probably don't even have to let go of as much as I think, but I feel compelled to. It's a very weird feeling for me. No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
| Face Palmer
User ID: 62656653 Germany09/08/2014 05:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In some ways? I feel like I'm there now. Like she's the only soul I'm really seeing out there right now.....and it's not even entirely physical despite the fact she's gorgeous and fit, it's more spiritual I feel. Quoting: ajk Funny thing is...I probably don't even have to let go of as much as I think, but I feel compelled to. It's a very weird feeling for me. Well, what about her? "The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title." Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women |
| ajk
(OP) User ID: 29024587 United States09/08/2014 05:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In some ways? I feel like I'm there now. Like she's the only soul I'm really seeing out there right now.....and it's not even entirely physical despite the fact she's gorgeous and fit, it's more spiritual I feel. Quoting: ajk Funny thing is...I probably don't even have to let go of as much as I think, but I feel compelled to. It's a very weird feeling for me. Well, what about her? That I can't know yet...I suppose I'll find out soon enough. She is taken for the moment I know that (though from some tarot readings here, which in part is where these feelings I've had have grown from, she won't be for long), but I can't know much else yet. Haven't really talked since last week when we met, hoping to soon though, next few days and kinda go off that. I did feel she was flirting a little when I met her (it was a business thing mind you, wrestling/boxing session), she complimented me on my hair which I thought was kinda interesting.....and she was very playful in personality in general. I hadn't thought much more on it then though I knew I liked her and obviously that feeling has grown so..... No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
| Tangy
User ID: 43994199 United States09/08/2014 05:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Face Palmer
User ID: 62656653 Germany09/08/2014 05:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In some ways? I feel like I'm there now. Like she's the only soul I'm really seeing out there right now.....and it's not even entirely physical despite the fact she's gorgeous and fit, it's more spiritual I feel. Quoting: ajk Funny thing is...I probably don't even have to let go of as much as I think, but I feel compelled to. It's a very weird feeling for me. Well, what about her? That I can't know yet...I suppose I'll find out soon enough. She is taken for the moment I know that (though from some tarot readings here, which in part is where these feelings I've had have grown from, she won't be for long), but I can't know much else yet. Haven't really talked since last week when we met, hoping to soon though, next few days and kinda go off that. I did feel she was flirting a little when I met her (it was a business thing mind you, wrestling/boxing session), she complimented me on my hair which I thought was kinda interesting.....and she was very playful in personality in general. I hadn't thought much more on it then though I knew I liked her and obviously that feeling has grown so..... Ah I see. Well I wish you best of luck!  "The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title." Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women |
| ajk
(OP) User ID: 29024587 United States09/08/2014 05:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation |  She is taken? And you are all googlie eyed over her?  I guess this is better than the addicted to porn threads I remember you having.  Yeah I know it doesn't make much sense but.....I still have a feeling about her. It's crazy, illogical maybe but I do. No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
| ajk
(OP) User ID: 29024587 United States09/08/2014 05:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In some ways? I feel like I'm there now. Like she's the only soul I'm really seeing out there right now.....and it's not even entirely physical despite the fact she's gorgeous and fit, it's more spiritual I feel. Quoting: ajk Funny thing is...I probably don't even have to let go of as much as I think, but I feel compelled to. It's a very weird feeling for me. Well, what about her? That I can't know yet...I suppose I'll find out soon enough. She is taken for the moment I know that (though from some tarot readings here, which in part is where these feelings I've had have grown from, she won't be for long), but I can't know much else yet. Haven't really talked since last week when we met, hoping to soon though, next few days and kinda go off that. I did feel she was flirting a little when I met her (it was a business thing mind you, wrestling/boxing session), she complimented me on my hair which I thought was kinda interesting.....and she was very playful in personality in general. I hadn't thought much more on it then though I knew I liked her and obviously that feeling has grown so..... Ah I see. Well I wish you best of luck! Thank you. Last Edited by ajk on 09/08/2014 05:33 AM No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
| Tangy
User ID: 43994199 United States09/08/2014 05:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She is taken? And you are all googlie eyed over her? I guess this is better than the addicted to porn threads I remember you having. Yeah I know it doesn't make much sense but.....I still have a feeling about her. It's crazy, illogical maybe but I do. I find the thread title interesting, since SHE is in a relationship. You realize if she dumps a dude for you, she will most likely dump you for another dude. |
| ajk
(OP) User ID: 29024587 United States09/08/2014 05:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She is taken? And you are all googlie eyed over her? I guess this is better than the addicted to porn threads I remember you having. Yeah I know it doesn't make much sense but.....I still have a feeling about her. It's crazy, illogical maybe but I do. I find the thread title interesting, since SHE is in a relationship. You realize if she dumps a dude for you, she will most likely dump you for another dude. I understand where you're coming from. I can only go based on what my heart is saying though.....and it's saying there's something to this at the moment. No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
| Tangy
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| Face Palmer
User ID: 62656653 Germany09/08/2014 05:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She is taken? And you are all googlie eyed over her? I guess this is better than the addicted to porn threads I remember you having. Yeah I know it doesn't make much sense but.....I still have a feeling about her. It's crazy, illogical maybe but I do. I find the thread title interesting, since SHE is in a relationship. You realize if she dumps a dude for you, she will most likely dump you for another dude. Yeah women can't control their emotions. Its like a drug for them. But if OP is in love, he won't give a damn Tangy. "The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title." Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women |
| Tangy
User ID: 43994199 United States09/08/2014 05:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She is taken? And you are all googlie eyed over her? I guess this is better than the addicted to porn threads I remember you having. Yeah I know it doesn't make much sense but.....I still have a feeling about her. It's crazy, illogical maybe but I do. I find the thread title interesting, since SHE is in a relationship. You realize if she dumps a dude for you, she will most likely dump you for another dude. Yeah women can't control their emotions. Its like a drug for them. But if OP is in love, he won't give a damn Tangy. ajk is a dude, who seems to be the emotional one here. Not sure what point you were trying to make. Love, after one time talking? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 38986566 United States09/08/2014 05:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How old are you? I guess every one must experience this early in life but you met this woman a week ago... infatuation man. All it can be after only seven days. Keep your head on straight and take it slow or you gonna start doing some stupid crap and run her off. |
| Face Palmer
User ID: 1149868 Germany09/08/2014 05:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah women can't control their emotions. Its like a drug for them. But if OP is in love, he won't give a damn Tangy. Quoting: Face Palmer ajk is a dude, who seems to be the emotional one here. Not sure what point you were trying to make. Love, after one time talking? The point that women react on their feelings like ping-pong. It might indeed be more like some sort of crush, but who you are to judge? Instant attraction is a good thing. I guess you were not attracted to your hubby? Last Edited by Face Palmer on 09/08/2014 05:40 AM "The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title." Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women |
| Tangy
User ID: 43994199 United States09/08/2014 05:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How old are you? I guess every one must experience this early in life but you met this woman a week ago... infatuation man. All it can be after only seven days. Keep your head on straight and take it slow or you gonna start doing some stupid crap and run her off. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 38986566 lmao. Glad you posted. I was starting to feel like I was in a twilight zone episode. |
| Tangy
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| ajk
(OP) User ID: 29024587 United States09/08/2014 06:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One, lasted about 3, it was a decade ago though. No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
| Tangy
User ID: 43994199 United States09/08/2014 06:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Is it possible she is just overly friendly and enigmatic? Possible she compliments others on a regular basis? I worry about you falling so hard for someone that you already know is taken. Not to mention after one meeting this week. This is not where you should be putting your energy. You need to take a step back before you get hurt. |
| ajk
(OP) User ID: 29024587 United States09/08/2014 06:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Is it possible she is just overly friendly and enigmatic? Possible she compliments others on a regular basis? I worry about you falling so hard for someone that you already know is taken. Not to mention after one meeting this week. This is not where you should be putting your energy. You need to take a step back before you get hurt. well I know she has that type of personality about her.....but there was/is a feeling of a soul connection too, that I can't quite explain. I understand where you're coming from though course but I do believe there is more going on here. Maybe I'm wrong but it feels different from anything else I've experienced before. No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 62658829 United States09/08/2014 06:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 60286023  Singapore09/08/2014 08:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | when you met your significant other, or more to the point realized that they would become that.....how drastic a change did you feel in yourself when they weren't around? did you go through major mood shifts, losses of appetite, focus, etc? Quoting: ajk NO. Why would you go through any of this? A relationship should not cause you stress and you definitely should not feel anxiety... I ask because, ever since I met this woman a week ago now....and since I've really realized what she may mean to me...I've been consumed by her.....my thoughts are almost entirely fixated on her. Appetite is gone, sex drive (and it was always really high I might add) gone, very little interest in it anymore, like it feels wrong/odd if not shared with her in some form, focus on tasks, gone. It's like I'm going through the motions, like I'm almost missing a part of myself, of my soul. TOTAL NON-SENSE! You can't possibly realize what someone means to you in a week. Give it more time! The whole thing is like nothing I've ever felt, it's incredibly intense....I'd go travel with her tomorrow if she asked me to without even a thought. I've become THAT sure that there is something here....that I have to follow this path, follow what my heart seems to be screaming, despite anything else in the way. I've never had someone effect my life like this, nothing I've been through before or felt before can compare to it even remotely. This is called puppy love! This is how all relationships start. It wears away over time. Just wait until the puppy love stage is over and see how you feel about her afterwards. So anyway, I am just curious to hear some other experiences....this feels so crazy, but there has to be something to this doesn't there? I would just say take it slow. Once you get past around six (6) months see how you feel. I would be surprised if you have anything in common. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 62660601 United States09/08/2014 08:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | when you met your significant other, or more to the point realized that they would become that.....how drastic a change did you feel in yourself when they weren't around? did you go through major mood shifts, losses of appetite, focus, etc? Quoting: ajk I ask because, ever since I met this woman a week ago now....and since I've really realized what she may mean to me...I've been consumed by her.....my thoughts are almost entirely fixated on her. Appetite is gone, sex drive (and it was always really high I might add) gone, very little interest in it anymore, like it feels wrong/odd if not shared with her in some form, focus on tasks, gone. It's like I'm going through the motions, like I'm almost missing a part of myself, of my soul. The whole thing is like nothing I've ever felt, it's incredibly intense....I'd go travel with her tomorrow if she asked me to without even a thought. I've become THAT sure that there is something here....that I have to follow this path, follow what my heart seems to be screaming, despite anything else in the way. I've never had someone effect my life like this, nothing I've been through before or felt before can compare to it even remotely. So anyway, I am just curious to hear some other experiences....this feels so crazy, but there has to be something to this doesn't there? that is how it starts... you are in love! the for reals kind |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 61679013  Canada09/08/2014 08:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 62546423 United States09/08/2014 08:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Uh. Oh. One Relationship. 3 Months. A Decade Ago. This situation is not going to end well. OP is a mere babe in the woods and cannot discern infatuation from love. If it were true love/unconditional and she was already in a relationship, he would do the right thing without a shred of angst and NOT "explore" his feelings. But because what HE is feeling is the most important factor here, it can't end well. Oh well, sigh. This too is part of a bittersweet human experience. I only hope everyone (OP) stays sane enough not to cause consequential, irreversible damage - to himself and others. |
