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Anonymous Coward
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01/07/2015 12:30 PM
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help needed asap please
Hello-

I am a mother of 3 on Long Island and need to leave my husband so I can give my kids back a normal life. The last 5 years have been bad but the last 2 - HORRIBLE and they do not deserve it and I cant do it anymore. The issue isnt physical abuse or anything like that - it is just well the most important is financial. My husband is unable to provide for the kids and I and continues to lie about work, money, bills and rent being paid until a eviction is carried out and I mean when Sheriffs come to throw out your property. Right now I do not have a penny to my name and need to move again. This has got to stop. I was unable to work the last few months due to numerous things that had to do with him again. The list is way to far to get into and please know, I am not lazy or on drugs or drink, its just been a nightmare. I need advise on options to get emergency help for EVERYTHING right now, and would like to know if anyone knows my best options, from assistance for getting in to a low cost apartment to food job for me to furniture - again everything. Especially now because he got arrested and will be away for about 45 days now and this could be the chance for me to save my family and become normal again. Any help with best options will be so appreciated. Thank you
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01/07/2015 12:43 PM
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Re: help needed asap please
Contact your local Help Center where you get Information.

You could also contact a Family Center or a Place for Woman
who need Protection from their abusive Husbands!
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01/07/2015 01:21 PM
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Hello-

I am a mother of 3 on Long Island and need to leave my husband so I can give my kids back a normal life. The last 5 years have been bad but the last 2 - HORRIBLE and they do not deserve it and I cant do it anymore. The issue isnt physical abuse or anything like that - it is just well the most important is financial. My husband is unable to provide for the kids and I and continues to lie about work, money, bills and rent being paid until a eviction is carried out and I mean when Sheriffs come to throw out your property. Right now I do not have a penny to my name and need to move again. This has got to stop. I was unable to work the last few months due to numerous things that had to do with him again. The list is way to far to get into and please know, I am not lazy or on drugs or drink, its just been a nightmare. I need advise on options to get emergency help for EVERYTHING right now, and would like to know if anyone knows my best options, from assistance for getting in to a low cost apartment to food job for me to furniture - again everything. Especially now because he got arrested and will be away for about 45 days now and this could be the chance for me to save my family and become normal again. Any help with best options will be so appreciated. Thank you
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27556013


So what you are saying is that your family life is dysfunctional because of the relationship with your husband.

It does sound a nightmare.

Now he is in prison change the locks and get a key chain fitted on the door. If he breaks this this is regarded as breaking and entering which is an offence of course.

If you have a shed put his belongings in there and tell the police that he is a nuisance and stalks you and get a restraining order.

They may ask questions of physical abuse but if you stick to the stalking and his own criminal record this places all blame on him which by the sounds of it sounds about right.

Show no pity and no mercy, you are a mother and have 3 growing children to take care of, this man and his choices in life are not your responsibility.
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01/07/2015 01:25 PM
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Hello-

I am a mother of 3 on Long Island and need to leave my husband so I can give my kids back a normal life. The last 5 years have been bad but the last 2 - HORRIBLE and they do not deserve it and I cant do it anymore. The issue isnt physical abuse or anything like that - it is just well the most important is financial. My husband is unable to provide for the kids and I and continues to lie about work, money, bills and rent being paid until a eviction is carried out and I mean when Sheriffs come to throw out your property. Right now I do not have a penny to my name and need to move again. This has got to stop. I was unable to work the last few months due to numerous things that had to do with him again. The list is way to far to get into and please know, I am not lazy or on drugs or drink, its just been a nightmare. I need advise on options to get emergency help for EVERYTHING right now, and would like to know if anyone knows my best options, from assistance for getting in to a low cost apartment to food job for me to furniture - again everything. Especially now because he got arrested and will be away for about 45 days now and this could be the chance for me to save my family and become normal again. Any help with best options will be so appreciated. Thank you
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27556013


So what you are saying is that your family life is dysfunctional because of the relationship with your husband.

It does sound a nightmare.

Now he is in prison change the locks and get a key chain fitted on the door. If he breaks this this is regarded as breaking and entering which is an offence of course.

If you have a shed put his belongings in there and tell the police that he is a nuisance and stalks you and get a restraining order.

They may ask questions of physical abuse but if you stick to the stalking and his own criminal record this places all blame on him which by the sounds of it sounds about right.

Show no pity and no mercy, you are a mother and have 3 growing children to take care of, this man and his choices in life are not your responsibility.
 Quoting: Dark Form


I would also like to add that I see his behaviour in a way as parasitic. He is living with you not contributing and draining you and your children's quality of life.

If he is unable to provide for 3 children and his wife he is not a man.

You also seem depressed, this will pass when this stalker is out of your life.

It seems as if he pressured you into a relationship at your lowest ebb, hence why you are still stuck with him now.

Stalkers and con men don't have to do that as a profession, this man does it as a hobby.

Do as I told you, stick to your guns and do not tolerate any threats either.
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01/07/2015 01:30 PM

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you need immediate help for sure

finding a place to stay seems critical

can you get the housing worked out ? you said being evicted. do you have family ?

if you move it will be more expensive than staying. will they give you time?

get in touch with churches, assistance from gov takes a while

furniture? free section in craigslist

jobs? are you in a large town? transportation?

so many things need to be addressed
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01/07/2015 01:31 PM
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You're not going to like this, but I'm going to tell you the absolute simple truth. You are going to have 2 options. You are going to sink or you're going to swim and YOU are the only one that can make this choice. It will depend on just how much you WANT to be free. It can be done. Trust me, it can be done. It's what you are willing to do to get it done. And that is the TRUTH.
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01/07/2015 01:35 PM
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Hello-

I am a mother of 3 on Long Island and need to leave my husband so I can give my kids back a normal life. The last 5 years have been bad but the last 2 - HORRIBLE and they do not deserve it and I cant do it anymore. The issue isnt physical abuse or anything like that - it is just well the most important is financial. My husband is unable to provide for the kids and I and continues to lie about work, money, bills and rent being paid until a eviction is carried out and I mean when Sheriffs come to throw out your property. Right now I do not have a penny to my name and need to move again. This has got to stop. I was unable to work the last few months due to numerous things that had to do with him again. The list is way to far to get into and please know, I am not lazy or on drugs or drink, its just been a nightmare. I need advise on options to get emergency help for EVERYTHING right now, and would like to know if anyone knows my best options, from assistance for getting in to a low cost apartment to food job for me to furniture - again everything. Especially now because he got arrested and will be away for about 45 days now and this could be the chance for me to save my family and become normal again. Any help with best options will be so appreciated. Thank you
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27556013


I bind evil spirits preventing you from reading my post in Jesus name Father I pray there marriage works out I pray they come to you with there problems I pray if they don't know you and are not cleansed and redeemed by the Blood of Jesus Christ that they find that today .

I pray for financial help for them father if they seek you and believe .

Believe op . Grace be upon you
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01/07/2015 01:37 PM
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If you have a shed put his belongings in there and tell the police that he is a nuisance and stalks you and get a restraining order.
 Quoting: Dark Form


In other words, OP, don't use the system in the way it's intended to. Lie to the police and manipulate the system to get what you want. It doesn't matter how morally or legally wrong it is when it comes to getting what you want from a man or getting a man you no longer want out of your life.
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01/07/2015 01:44 PM
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Move in with a relative. Take responsibility. You are a mom and responsible for your own actions. Stop trying to portray yourself as a victim and be a role model for your kids. So pathetic. You should be providing for your own kids not expecting him or anyone else to do it. Plenty of single moms work and have been through much worse without complaining.
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01/07/2015 01:51 PM
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See if you have a domestic violence shelter in your area. They will help with a place to stay and help you on your own feet. Sounds scary, but it will be ok. I was at one. For 6 months, while trying to get on my own feet. Its been really hard doing it on my own, for my 2 little boys. But Im doing it. I hit a hard spot awhile ago and GLP helped me thru it. And christmas would have not happened but I had a few GLP members help with a couple gifts for the boys. Its hard, and it will take strength but you WILL be able to do it. A year ago I never thought I would be where I am now. Just be strong and never give up.
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01/11/2015 05:28 PM
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thank you, I'm trying





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