I'm not the man I wanted to be. I fear to success I fear to achieve goals, I fear to live my life. Freaking comfort zone!!

I created account.

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But then again, bought it, havent read it

Apply at some place you think you'd like to work. Something low stress and maybe where you can listen to your headphones. Entry level machinist, screen printing, something where you can work on your machine and master it.

Just do it!

Well you are Polish after all...

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But I got a question. I have really great computer skills, there is no problems I can't solve. I'm very social and people who don't know me like me!

But I got this big problem. I'm afriad that I won't be good enough, that they will fire me after a month. That they will expect from me things I couldn't do. How can I solve this problem?

Saturn's return?

If you say so. Greetings to you my american friend..!

jak sie masz!

Dobrze! Dziekuje!

jak leci stary byku?

the secret to happiness is not in gaining more but in learning to enjoy less.

Ie. The good job leads to death. The band you start leads to death. The best girl leads to death. Life leads to death.

If you have nothing to lose you are have most freedom. Freedom leads to death.

Don't panic.

There is no future and there is no past. There is only that which is now. Stay there.

My advice: don't start with the books, videos, testimonies, tutorials, etc.-- they aren't what you need.

Before anything else, try to work things out with your girlfriend and family.

Don't stop caring about them, or anyone else for that matter, even if they hurt you. Don't stoop down to a level that you don't want others to be at.

Your comfort zone isn't harmful to you or anyone else around you, it doesn't seem/sound like, so why change it? I don't believe that's your true comfort zone if it makes you uncomfortable to be in it.

Try to make up your mind, think for yourself, and stay away from any "affirmation" video that someone tries to point you to.

You put "I'm broke" and "people have no respect for me" in one sentence, nothing else. That tells me you are either making the wrong friends, or paying far too much attention to what others think about you (or what you assume they think about you).
The alternative would be that you really do have no one that respects you due to other things that you do-- find people that care, treat them kindly/respectfully, and maybe then you'll find a new form of respect.

Happiness is not found in money or anything material.
And never, what-so-ever, assume the grass is greener on the other side . . . it's not.

Try with the best of your ability to put yourself into the shoes of others, you'll be surprised at what you find.

Just my two cents . . . I could be entirely wrong.
God bless.

If you set goals and don't finish it not because you are lazy, you moved out of your parent house that was a goal, you did it.

Lots of people think a goal even if they are good at it is what they truly want, think hard about what you really want in life not I.T or a band because you are good at playing a guitar, I have know many a person who are real good at playing a guitar, they don't have bands. They play the guitar because they like too.

What you have not done is really think about what you want out of life not what you set as a goal. If you want something for the rest of your life you will do it. Lazy goals are just that goals not really wanted, you just thought I can do this. When it comes down to it you don't finish or go on with it is it was not right in the first place.

I can do many things, but it they were not my goals in life, getting married and having a family was. I do all the other things I am good at. They are not left somewhere else. Fine what you want from living your life, talk to your girlfriend, or a friend, you just may find what you really want not goals. Goals are for people who have their life planned out for a long time, and they know what they want.

So, be quiet to the goals, listen to want you want out of life not necessarily money or at least a lot of money. I have known people whose goals were and they went ahead a finished their schooling but never went into the field really they, went back to what they thought of a full life and did that, they already had the skills they did have some more but they doing what they really wanted in the first place.

No one can tell you what that thing is you want, only you, go for it.

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Do you translate those sentences or do you know some polish words? So far you're doing well!

I'm half Polish...But don't tell anybody here. LOL

Zapraszamy do GLP! Jak znalazles te strone?

Thanks friends! Those are the words I needed! Yeah, I care too much what people think about me and because of that I do nothing just to not give them chances to laugh at me in case I failed again. Sometimes I think that I would be happy if I would make my parents proud. For example if I finish college. But in my heart I feel like this isn't me. I don't want to work in some company who don't even know my name.

Haha nice one! I'm anonymous GLPer for a looooong time! For 4 years I guess.

Start your own business. Help new computer users/older people to use their computer. Put an ad in the newspaper for computer tutor. There is a need for this. And give them a good rate since many are low on money.

Lubie delegowania anonimowo rowniez!

It's nice to have you here my friend!

Zycie bedzie lepsze dla was wkrotce. Have faith.

Post proof that this is a genuine concern.

Texts from your girlfriend screenshotted / photographed.

Photo of you in front of this thread crying like a b1tchboy.

Shill fkz ~_~



1.) Describe what a "serious job" is to you.



2.) Why do you think being in a band matters or helps society at all?



3.) Trying to graduate IT studies? WHAT "IT STUDIES" ...??

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We all feel that way sometimes! Stay safe and strong

Please stop drinking.

Thanks. I guess this is a part of some kind of awakening.

Yes, it could be a "paradigm shift". Something that starts a whole new life for you. Zmiana paradygmatu

My questions & demands are valid.

Answer them or forever be a VIP.

You take me for a fool my go0ooy1im.

You already have talent, your own home, a relationship, and now best of all a GLP account.

A man can't have it all.

You won't know if you can handle it if you don't try. You may surprise yourself. Go with the flow bro.

I feel the same way as you OP I just turned 25 also polish and I'm not who I want to be yet, sport was the thing for me but I fucked it up. I have no interests in any education as I see education as a contract for 3-8 years to become a professional worker and maybe earning 100k a year and even then it's not promised.