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Need help finding the right song to play at my husbands funeral. Please help!!!

 
Deb1964
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Need help finding the right song to play at my husbands funeral. Please help!!!
My husband is stage IV Metastatic Colorectal Cancer and is terminal. The Oncologist said that he may live for another 6 months. We are going to the Cancer Treatment Centers of America in Oklahoma Monday in hopes that they can help him. They will be doing Genome testing. They will take the protein on the cancer and run hundreds of known clinical trial, natural, and other types of meds to see what will kill it. Then they will give him that medicine. This is out only hope. I know only God knows when he will take him home, but my husband wants me to pick a song and his son and daughter to pick one song each. The problem is..I dont know what song to pick. I have thought of Stairway to Heaven...this one is not exactly right. Can anyone help me find the right song?
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What does he want?
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What does he want?
 Quoting: ~sIcKaNdTwIsTeD~


I asked the same question. He said that he does not care...It is up to me.
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I like Eva Cassidy - a phenominal voice, a young woman who should be much better known, but she died young.

Here is a song, Fields of Gold, sung by her. You may recognize the song.


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I honestly don't even know how you can think of this or even post about it. :( I would never give up hope, and I couldn't possibly plan something for my husband's funeral while he was still alive.

We don't know your husband. Ugh. Sorry this just seems so impersonal. Not something I can wrap my head around.
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Never Forget. It's a video game theme from Halo but it's beautiful and haunting.

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and another song by Eva Cassidy that you may not know: Time is a Healer.


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hf
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What does he want?
 Quoting: ~sIcKaNdTwIsTeD~


I asked the same question. He said that he does not care...It is up to me.
 Quoting: Deb1964


I think you are wise and brave to think ahead.

There is always a chance he will live much longer than expected - much longer!

we still all will die some day.

Best of luck and prayers to you both!
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for my fathers funeral my youngest played Amazing Grace with the trumpet. everyone started crying, even the people from the village who hardly knew him.

crying can be healing ...

if you want help, try google, there should be enough suggestions for the right song.
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Nearly anything by Mark Schultz.
Never heard someone sing with so much emotion.
Look up his bio and you'll know why.

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What does he want?
 Quoting: ~sIcKaNdTwIsTeD~


I asked the same question. He said that he does not care...It is up to me.
 Quoting: Deb1964


I think you are wise and brave to think ahead.

There is always a chance he will live much longer than expected - much longer!

we still all will die some day.

Best of luck and prayers to you both!
 Quoting: beeches


Grief and letting go are a process, not an event

Preparation and focusing on music that reflects a life are a positive step

It allows the mind to sort of crystalize the reality of going through grief, experiencing it fully.

To set ones mind to mourn deeply and appropriately sets the groundwork to be able to heal and move forward in a healthy way

You are doing well, OP.
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That's Life

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In a few words, describe your husband. What is he like? Might help pick a tune.
Sorry to hear about the cancer. Give it your best fight! Hopefully, this won't be needed for many years.
Adversity is inevitable, misery is optional.

Do or do not. There is no try.

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I would play his all time favorite song.

hf
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We played this at my husband's funeral. Best wishes to you.


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seasons in the sun by Terry Jacks
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CTCOA is no better than any other hospital.

And they are not nearly as good as many.

If I was going to hail mary pass for a hospital,
I would go directly to Huntsman Cancer Institute.

[link to healthcare.utah.edu]
Non-profit and not in it for money, Huntsman has dedicated
1/2 his life and all his fortune fighting and researching cancer.

Huntsman Cancer Institute (HCI) is part of the University of Utah Health Care system. We serve cancer patients throughout the Intermountain West and provide academic and clinical training for future physicians and researchers.

Hope through Research: Our scientists focus on understanding cancer from its beginnings to create safer, more effective treatments. Researchers also study how genes function to look for ways to prevent or even reverse genetic changes that cause cancer.

Hope through Education: We provide free, expert and accurate information about cancers, risk factors, screening, prevention, and treatments to patients, family members, caregivers, physicians, and the public.

Hope through Patient Care: Our teams of doctors and health care professionals work together to provide compassionate, state-of-the-art care.
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Tell him no one is picking any songs bc he isn't going to die.
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Eva Cassidy songs are really beautiful. The Fields of Barley song sounds like a nice choice. It is beautiful, majestic, and helps your husband keep his dignity. God bless you.
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Praying for his recovery~~~~
Love & Light...
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I meant , Fields of Gold
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Played this one at my dad's funeral; not a dry eye...

Josh Groban;

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