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| TheWillowTree
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| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 05:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation |  ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 05:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | this is all i have done so far and i could only do it on myself. this is very simple and it is not peaking my curiosity lol. [link to s1164.photobucket.com] ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 62323787 United States05/31/2015 05:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok, so if anyone has seen my posts this is kind of different for me to bring up. recently my girlfriend has brought up BDSM. now im not the one to choke my girlfriend or slap her around and call her a dirty slut. but im also glad that she brought it up. Quoting: TheWillowTree when i was younger i liked biting and scratching and little restraints but it was only for lustful reasons(kind of the point i know) but i have been studying different types of BDSM and i believe i might be comfortable giving it a try. now the one that sticks out to me is rope play. i actually used to be in boy scouts (brownie points!) and i have always had a fascination for celtic knots etc. so i decided to work with a few techniques for knot play. the only problem i have run into is that my girlfriend is in Indiana and im in Colorado. i cant really practice unless i have a body to work on. my question is, what are the basic knots i should focus on and also, does anyone have good videos i could watch on the art and not just porn? im very interested in exploring this area with my girlfriend and would like some pointers to make it as *comfortable* and erotic for her as she wants it to be. thx ;) just stay with putting the sausage in the taco. all that bondage shit ruins a relationship. |
| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 05:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ill never understand women. I totally hate them. All women secretly crave for Bondage. That is why they should not be allowed to vote. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69152895 whats wrong with craving for bondage? and most women will not hold it a secret if you are talking about it the right way. im a male and i love the idea of it. even putting myself in bondage. so should i not be allowed to vote? you make no sense. ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
| ~Lavender~
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| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 05:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok, so if anyone has seen my posts this is kind of different for me to bring up. recently my girlfriend has brought up BDSM. now im not the one to choke my girlfriend or slap her around and call her a dirty slut. but im also glad that she brought it up. Quoting: TheWillowTree when i was younger i liked biting and scratching and little restraints but it was only for lustful reasons(kind of the point i know) but i have been studying different types of BDSM and i believe i might be comfortable giving it a try. now the one that sticks out to me is rope play. i actually used to be in boy scouts (brownie points!) and i have always had a fascination for celtic knots etc. so i decided to work with a few techniques for knot play. the only problem i have run into is that my girlfriend is in Indiana and im in Colorado. i cant really practice unless i have a body to work on. my question is, what are the basic knots i should focus on and also, does anyone have good videos i could watch on the art and not just porn? im very interested in exploring this area with my girlfriend and would like some pointers to make it as *comfortable* and erotic for her as she wants it to be. thx ;) just stay with putting the sausage in the taco. all that bondage shit ruins a relationship. quite the contrary. bondage is all about trust and faith in the other. see, with me, bondage is not about me tying up an innocent woman to fuck her. im passed that stage in life. when im intimate with a woman im wanting to please her. i already know how my orgasm will go if i go full force. ill come and thats the end of it. the end of a sexual act will always come to an end when the MAN is finished. thats the beauty of it. you can control how long the pleasure lasts just by focusing on pleasuring your woman. (FOREPLAY!!) now if your an average Joe? you want pussy, you want it now, and then you dont want to look at it anymore. sorry but i do not follow mainstream belief of masculine and feminine. ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 05:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | you should ask her what she wants to do first, Quoting: ~Lavender~ i doubt she cares what kind of knots the rope is in dude... she wants me to do everything... but im talking about the art. not sexual thrill. im looking for beauty when i tie this woman up. i want it to feel good and please the eyes. btw, i have an awesome camera and will be doing photography later when i have the experience. ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 06:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | see like this this is something pretty fucking simple. but its beautiful. and the woman is COMFORTABLE!! thats what you aim for. im even into meditation. do you realize how focused you could be on this? do you realize how important knots are? ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
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| grumpier
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| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 06:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't ever cheat on someone and then let them tie you up as a make up gift. That is all.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 64029046 lol cheating is out of the question. but im sorry for your experience. or did you like it? ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 06:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | BDSM Quoting: grumpier Bondage SM Tattoos Piercings Brandings Worse Simple....I am against it,...all of it. Change or get of my planet, I hate the mix up of fun stuff (=sex) with nasty stuff. well you didnt have to respond to the thread. and honestly im against most of it anyway but i dont judge other people for what they do or how they think. and the thread is specifically about knots that i could comfortably use while i was doing the act. im not bringing up nasty with sexual. ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 52415174  Netherlands05/31/2015 06:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | BDSM Quoting: grumpier Bondage SM Tattoos Piercings Brandings Worse Simple....I am against it,...all of it. Change or get of my planet, I hate the mix up of fun stuff (=sex) with nasty stuff. well you didnt have to respond to the thread. and honestly im against most of it anyway but i dont judge other people for what they do or how they think. and the thread is specifically about knots that i could comfortably use while i was doing the act. im not bringing up nasty with sexual. Dude, why do you even bother defending yourself against that asshole.. Do whatever you and your girl-woman want, it´s not of anybody´s business.. |
| grumpier
User ID: 1189758 China05/31/2015 06:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | BDSM Quoting: grumpier Bondage SM Tattoos Piercings Brandings Worse Simple....I am against it,...all of it. Change or get of my planet, I hate the mix up of fun stuff (=sex) with nasty stuff. well you didnt have to respond to the thread. and honestly im against most of it anyway but i dont judge other people for what they do or how they think. and the thread is specifically about knots that i could comfortably use while i was doing the act. im not bringing up nasty with sexual. It makes me very uncomfortable. I can recall past lives and had two of them ended while buried alive. Several while tied up. It is just nasty to me. If anyone would try to do this to me, I would go berserk. Everyone would die.....never again...dont toy with it. If you think a thread is important enough for others to read, go to page one and click on the green pin!!! |
| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 06:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | this is another cool one ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 62323787 United States05/31/2015 06:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok, so if anyone has seen my posts this is kind of different for me to bring up. recently my girlfriend has brought up BDSM. now im not the one to choke my girlfriend or slap her around and call her a dirty slut. but im also glad that she brought it up. Quoting: TheWillowTree when i was younger i liked biting and scratching and little restraints but it was only for lustful reasons(kind of the point i know) but i have been studying different types of BDSM and i believe i might be comfortable giving it a try. now the one that sticks out to me is rope play. i actually used to be in boy scouts (brownie points!) and i have always had a fascination for celtic knots etc. so i decided to work with a few techniques for knot play. the only problem i have run into is that my girlfriend is in Indiana and im in Colorado. i cant really practice unless i have a body to work on. my question is, what are the basic knots i should focus on and also, does anyone have good videos i could watch on the art and not just porn? im very interested in exploring this area with my girlfriend and would like some pointers to make it as *comfortable* and erotic for her as she wants it to be. thx ;) just stay with putting the sausage in the taco. all that bondage shit ruins a relationship. quite the contrary. bondage is all about trust and faith in the other. see, with me, bondage is not about me tying up an innocent woman to fuck her. im passed that stage in life. when im intimate with a woman im wanting to please her. i already know how my orgasm will go if i go full force. ill come and thats the end of it. the end of a sexual act will always come to an end when the MAN is finished. thats the beauty of it. you can control how long the pleasure lasts just by focusing on pleasuring your woman. (FOREPLAY!!) now if your an average Joe? you want pussy, you want it now, and then you dont want to look at it anymore. sorry but i do not follow mainstream belief of masculine and feminine. bullshit. Trust and faith is having normal sex and a normal relationship. I dated someone that was into that. While it may be interesting sexually, it does zero to develop a strong lasting relationship. Probably the opposite. |
| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 06:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | BDSM Quoting: grumpier Bondage SM Tattoos Piercings Brandings Worse Simple....I am against it,...all of it. Change or get of my planet, I hate the mix up of fun stuff (=sex) with nasty stuff. well you didnt have to respond to the thread. and honestly im against most of it anyway but i dont judge other people for what they do or how they think. and the thread is specifically about knots that i could comfortably use while i was doing the act. im not bringing up nasty with sexual. It makes me very uncomfortable. I can recall past lives and had two of them ended while buried alive. Several while tied up. It is just nasty to me. If anyone would try to do this to me, I would go berserk. Everyone would die.....never again...dont toy with it. I apologize for this being a sensitive subject for you. i never wanted to anger anyone with this. i dont know if you know a lot about astrology but i am a Taurus. Im all about sensitivity and touch. my partner and I are very comfortable with ourselves and I would never hurt anyone. in fact the part of bondage that im specifically trying to research about is trust and emotion. my girlfriend is the one that wants to get all kinky and dominant/submissive. i dont put labels to anything. it is just beautiful to me I am also very intrigued with reiki and meditation and i believe that certain things can trigger different emotions based on our past experiences. but i also believe any fear is able to cease if you open your mind to possibilities. please do not take offence, i am only sharing my thoughts and love :) ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 06:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok, so if anyone has seen my posts this is kind of different for me to bring up. recently my girlfriend has brought up BDSM. now im not the one to choke my girlfriend or slap her around and call her a dirty slut. but im also glad that she brought it up. Quoting: TheWillowTree when i was younger i liked biting and scratching and little restraints but it was only for lustful reasons(kind of the point i know) but i have been studying different types of BDSM and i believe i might be comfortable giving it a try. now the one that sticks out to me is rope play. i actually used to be in boy scouts (brownie points!) and i have always had a fascination for celtic knots etc. so i decided to work with a few techniques for knot play. the only problem i have run into is that my girlfriend is in Indiana and im in Colorado. i cant really practice unless i have a body to work on. my question is, what are the basic knots i should focus on and also, does anyone have good videos i could watch on the art and not just porn? im very interested in exploring this area with my girlfriend and would like some pointers to make it as *comfortable* and erotic for her as she wants it to be. thx ;) just stay with putting the sausage in the taco. all that bondage shit ruins a relationship. quite the contrary. bondage is all about trust and faith in the other. see, with me, bondage is not about me tying up an innocent woman to fuck her. im passed that stage in life. when im intimate with a woman im wanting to please her. i already know how my orgasm will go if i go full force. ill come and thats the end of it. the end of a sexual act will always come to an end when the MAN is finished. thats the beauty of it. you can control how long the pleasure lasts just by focusing on pleasuring your woman. (FOREPLAY!!) now if your an average Joe? you want pussy, you want it now, and then you dont want to look at it anymore. sorry but i do not follow mainstream belief of masculine and feminine. bullshit. Trust and faith is having normal sex and a normal relationship. I dated someone that was into that. While it may be interesting sexually, it does zero to develop a strong lasting relationship. Probably the opposite. it sounds like both parties wanted different things in the relationship. there is no such thing as normal so dont spout that shit at me. love is all about being expressive about oneself and trusting to share it with someone else. now again, if you are not going to talk about the subject at hand, please do not comment. ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
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| grumpier
User ID: 1189758 China05/31/2015 06:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I apologize for this being a sensitive subject for you. i never wanted to anger anyone with this. i dont know if you know a lot about astrology but i am a Taurus. Im all about sensitivity and touch. my partner and I are very comfortable with ourselves and I would never hurt anyone. in fact the part of bondage that im specifically trying to research about is trust and emotion. my girlfriend is the one that wants to get all kinky and dominant/submissive. i dont put labels to anything. it is just beautiful to me Quoting: TheWillowTree I am also very intrigued with reiki and meditation and i believe that certain things can trigger different emotions based on our past experiences. but i also believe any fear is able to cease if you open your mind to possibilities. please do not take offence, i am only sharing my thoughts and love :) Apologies accepted. To me its just nasty memories. Still think that this whole BDSM thing and tattoos and the metalware will be outlawed within the next 365 days, If you think a thread is important enough for others to read, go to page one and click on the green pin!!! |
| grumpier
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| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 06:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | thank you :) ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 69152895 United States05/31/2015 06:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok, so if anyone has seen my posts this is kind of different for me to bring up. recently my girlfriend has brought up BDSM. now im not the one to choke my girlfriend or slap her around and call her a dirty slut. but im also glad that she brought it up. Quoting: TheWillowTree when i was younger i liked biting and scratching and little restraints but it was only for lustful reasons(kind of the point i know) but i have been studying different types of BDSM and i believe i might be comfortable giving it a try. now the one that sticks out to me is rope play. i actually used to be in boy scouts (brownie points!) and i have always had a fascination for celtic knots etc. so i decided to work with a few techniques for knot play. the only problem i have run into is that my girlfriend is in Indiana and im in Colorado. i cant really practice unless i have a body to work on. my question is, what are the basic knots i should focus on and also, does anyone have good videos i could watch on the art and not just porn? im very interested in exploring this area with my girlfriend and would like some pointers to make it as *comfortable* and erotic for her as she wants it to be. thx ;) just stay with putting the sausage in the taco. all that bondage shit ruins a relationship. quite the contrary. bondage is all about trust and faith in the other. see, with me, bondage is not about me tying up an innocent woman to fuck her. im passed that stage in life. when im intimate with a woman im wanting to please her. i already know how my orgasm will go if i go full force. ill come and thats the end of it. the end of a sexual act will always come to an end when the MAN is finished. thats the beauty of it. you can control how long the pleasure lasts just by focusing on pleasuring your woman. (FOREPLAY!!) now if your an average Joe? you want pussy, you want it now, and then you dont want to look at it anymore. sorry but i do not follow mainstream belief of masculine and feminine. I disagree I think bondage is about giving up. They wanna live like fat hogs, and give up trust and faith in a sex that they hate (men)> If it was about trust and faith they would do it with their own sex. These are pigs to the slaughter. |
| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 06:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok, so if anyone has seen my posts this is kind of different for me to bring up. recently my girlfriend has brought up BDSM. now im not the one to choke my girlfriend or slap her around and call her a dirty slut. but im also glad that she brought it up. Quoting: TheWillowTree when i was younger i liked biting and scratching and little restraints but it was only for lustful reasons(kind of the point i know) but i have been studying different types of BDSM and i believe i might be comfortable giving it a try. now the one that sticks out to me is rope play. i actually used to be in boy scouts (brownie points!) and i have always had a fascination for celtic knots etc. so i decided to work with a few techniques for knot play. the only problem i have run into is that my girlfriend is in Indiana and im in Colorado. i cant really practice unless i have a body to work on. my question is, what are the basic knots i should focus on and also, does anyone have good videos i could watch on the art and not just porn? im very interested in exploring this area with my girlfriend and would like some pointers to make it as *comfortable* and erotic for her as she wants it to be. thx ;) just stay with putting the sausage in the taco. all that bondage shit ruins a relationship. quite the contrary. bondage is all about trust and faith in the other. see, with me, bondage is not about me tying up an innocent woman to fuck her. im passed that stage in life. when im intimate with a woman im wanting to please her. i already know how my orgasm will go if i go full force. ill come and thats the end of it. the end of a sexual act will always come to an end when the MAN is finished. thats the beauty of it. you can control how long the pleasure lasts just by focusing on pleasuring your woman. (FOREPLAY!!) now if your an average Joe? you want pussy, you want it now, and then you dont want to look at it anymore. sorry but i do not follow mainstream belief of masculine and feminine. I disagree I think bondage is about giving up. They wanna live like fat hogs, and give up trust and faith in a sex that they hate (men)> If it was about trust and faith they would do it with their own sex. These are pigs to the slaughter. you do not understand. you are stuck in your ways as a masculine figure and think that all women just lie on their back and stay in the kitchen. THIS THREAD IS NOT ABOUT SEX!! you people see one word and quickly relate it to something it has noting to do with. ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 41549759 United States05/31/2015 07:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok, so if anyone has seen my posts this is kind of different for me to bring up. recently my girlfriend has brought up BDSM. now im not the one to choke my girlfriend or slap her around and call her a dirty slut. but im also glad that she brought it up. Quoting: TheWillowTree when i was younger i liked biting and scratching and little restraints but it was only for lustful reasons(kind of the point i know) but i have been studying different types of BDSM and i believe i might be comfortable giving it a try. now the one that sticks out to me is rope play. i actually used to be in boy scouts (brownie points!) and i have always had a fascination for celtic knots etc. so i decided to work with a few techniques for knot play. the only problem i have run into is that my girlfriend is in Indiana and im in Colorado. i cant really practice unless i have a body to work on. my question is, what are the basic knots i should focus on and also, does anyone have good videos i could watch on the art and not just porn? im very interested in exploring this area with my girlfriend and would like some pointers to make it as *comfortable* and erotic for her as she wants it to be. thx ;) just stay with putting the sausage in the taco. all that bondage shit ruins a relationship. quite the contrary. bondage is all about trust and faith in the other. see, with me, bondage is not about me tying up an innocent woman to fuck her. im passed that stage in life. when im intimate with a woman im wanting to please her. i already know how my orgasm will go if i go full force. ill come and thats the end of it. the end of a sexual act will always come to an end when the MAN is finished. thats the beauty of it. you can control how long the pleasure lasts just by focusing on pleasuring your woman. (FOREPLAY!!) now if your an average Joe? you want pussy, you want it now, and then you dont want to look at it anymore. sorry but i do not follow mainstream belief of masculine and feminine. I think its wonderful that you are willing to learn about this for your woman. You're right, it is about trust and learning to express a person's deeper emotions as well. In saying that, if you are both new to this sort of thing, I suggest you take it slow and don't try to master everything at once. Rushing things will likely take the joy out of it, and will limit some of the intimate exploration that comes with this sort of interaction. Learning technique is a good thing, before you get into things, but it could also be beneficial to learn with your partner. Take it slow, small steps- do it together. One thing you could try is a simple rope bond between you and she around one of each of your wrists, or a decorative rope bond that does not restrict movement on your partner, until she and you are used to the new play. Make it fun. |
| TheWillowTree
(OP) User ID: 69285784 United States05/31/2015 07:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok, so if anyone has seen my posts this is kind of different for me to bring up. recently my girlfriend has brought up BDSM. now im not the one to choke my girlfriend or slap her around and call her a dirty slut. but im also glad that she brought it up. Quoting: TheWillowTree when i was younger i liked biting and scratching and little restraints but it was only for lustful reasons(kind of the point i know) but i have been studying different types of BDSM and i believe i might be comfortable giving it a try. now the one that sticks out to me is rope play. i actually used to be in boy scouts (brownie points!) and i have always had a fascination for celtic knots etc. so i decided to work with a few techniques for knot play. the only problem i have run into is that my girlfriend is in Indiana and im in Colorado. i cant really practice unless i have a body to work on. my question is, what are the basic knots i should focus on and also, does anyone have good videos i could watch on the art and not just porn? im very interested in exploring this area with my girlfriend and would like some pointers to make it as *comfortable* and erotic for her as she wants it to be. thx ;) just stay with putting the sausage in the taco. all that bondage shit ruins a relationship. quite the contrary. bondage is all about trust and faith in the other. see, with me, bondage is not about me tying up an innocent woman to fuck her. im passed that stage in life. when im intimate with a woman im wanting to please her. i already know how my orgasm will go if i go full force. ill come and thats the end of it. the end of a sexual act will always come to an end when the MAN is finished. thats the beauty of it. you can control how long the pleasure lasts just by focusing on pleasuring your woman. (FOREPLAY!!) now if your an average Joe? you want pussy, you want it now, and then you dont want to look at it anymore. sorry but i do not follow mainstream belief of masculine and feminine. I think its wonderful that you are willing to learn about this for your woman. You're right, it is about trust and learning to express a person's deeper emotions as well. In saying that, if you are both new to this sort of thing, I suggest you take it slow and don't try to master everything at once. Rushing things will likely take the joy out of it, and will limit some of the intimate exploration that comes with this sort of interaction. Learning technique is a good thing, before you get into things, but it could also be beneficial to learn with your partner. Take it slow, small steps- do it together. One thing you could try is a simple rope bond between you and she around one of each of your wrists, or a decorative rope bond that does not restrict movement on your partner, until she and you are used to the new play. Make it fun. Thank you! and yea we are both new to it. i only left Indiana a month ago and Damnit! we will be separated for a few months so this is going to give me time to study for it. i cant wait to do photography. she is so open and its beautiful. and thats what our goal is, is to make it fun. i love working with my hands and if im working on an art i will lose myself in it. ive looked up how to be safe. obviously safe words and safety shears just in case something happens. and i also already have some rope that is comfortable to the touch. and the bond between two people sounds amazing. ill have to study that more. your already giving me ideas for photography ha ha. thank you. ~we live every moment of our lives wandering whats going to happen the next moment, not knowing were living it right now~ ~Prayer to the Eagle Lord of the Skies I ask for your guidance for your keen sight from the heights above for your strength in the power of the winds take me on your wings and bring me high above the clouds for my prayers need answered you are my vessel to the father above~ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 30110932 United States05/31/2015 07:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm glad I could help. While you are researching, you might want to look up about rope fashions as well, since you are interested in the visual aspects of it. There are a lot of basic tutorials for decorative bondage available on the net, some are very simplistic like hair decorations. Search around, there's plenty to be found. Also, you might want to look into making a few safety loops (variants on slip knots) which are accessible to your partner's reach, if you decide to do something more complex. This can help ease one's mind until you get comfortable with it all. |
