Chemo & 7 Days later

Keep praying, prayer sent up for you.

Wow, sweetie...

I do hope things get better sooner than later...


Gawd, I know that doesn't do you any good. I'm sorry you're having such a hard time.

Thank you so much...all prayers count xoxoxo

who had the chemo ?
you or hubby ?

i mean alotta of us have significant others, husbands that sleep all day , we could be dead on the floor and they'd still ask what's for dinner--seriously.

anyway , only thing i can think of regarding the self invited "guests" is either THEY HELP OUT with some repairs-or YOU WILL GO WHERE THEY LIVE WHILE THEY ARE IN YOUR PLACE.

Maybe the company can help
you with repairs.

^THIS^ I am praying for you! Help is on the way! Hang in there!

I am so sorry you are going through this ! Hang in there !

You are a very nice person...with great ideas...my husband is the best...spoiled me for 28 years...I hate to see him this way..it just hurts, he always been my rock. TY for the advise. XOXOXO!

Who kicked the dog?

how about stop whining and take care of your husband. cancel the guests, get the house fixed, dont worry about the stupid dog, and TAKE CARE OF YOUR HUSBAND.

Wow, sweetie...

I do hope things get better sooner than later...


Gawd, I know that doesn't do you any good. I'm sorry you're having such a hard time.
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You will never know how your words touched my heart.. I really feel like getting back in the fight. XOXOXOXOXOXOXOOXOXOXOX Seriously.....Sue

My hubby..my dog..Hooch is mad..no park time much anymore.
He pee pee and well, Daddy got mad.

I'd fix your house free of charge if you are near me. Central NM mountains here. Cancer sucks and chemo is probably worse.

I really do not know what to tell you to make it better, but hang in there, it'll turn out how it turns out.

Lost my wife to cancer.

The guy who suffered 7 months of chemotherapy

My dog, Hooch is not stupid....I have trouble seeing your heart. I'm sitting right next to my husband...I'm always here for him.

Whining? Well when someone in your family may be dyeing, you might feel different, and hope to God some people friends will be there to comfort you.

See, all the prayers are tricklin' down and giving you strength!

What a beautiful thing!

You made me laugh..been along time..TY

I watched my Dad do the same with his treatments for lung cancer.

It literally kicked his butt.

Strongly recommend you find an in-house hobby so you are around.

Best recommendation is to start an intensive study of the Bible, but
with the help of a top notch commentary series:

[link to www.gty.org]

33 volumes with a verse by verse exposition.

Get one at a time and slowly work your way through.

You will do your own soul invaluable benefit.

You will do your husband a tremendous favor.

I'm so glad of your post....really...you lifted my heart. May the Lord God Bless you and keep you strong for the rest of us. Seriously! TYTYTYTYTY Sue, Mesa, Arizona

I am a Shepherds Chapel student for 6 years...Pastor Murray taught me well for the last 6 years, and I love to quilt.

To All of you that gave me strength tonight...I love your souls, I will ask God to Bless you all...TYTYTY...I will never forget, ever!

...well, Sue, I am very touched. I had no idea it could mean that much to you, lovey.

Thank you so very much for the blessing and kind words...

Something good must be coming your way. You are facing all this because you can. In any cancer, the patient and the loved ones both go through hell. He suffers and you suffer. No vistors after chemo they bring germs and chemo destroys immunity.
Write a list, take one at a time. Check them off as you get through them. Make,your loved one drinks tons of water to flush the,poison out. Buy some nice flowers. As soon as they wilt throw them out. Feed your loved one cereal. Any kind does not matter. As much as they can eat. It is never going to be easy but you can make it manageable.
I am a ALL Leukemia survivor along with a Allogenic Bone Marrow Transplant. Never been the same since. We all went through hell. Not,saying it picnic now but it is manageable.

Yeah nothing like getting kicked in the nutsack, or crotch, when you're already down.

I've had that happen. A lot.

I'm sorry you are having a rough time. At least your husband is home. Unlike my friend that went to chemo and never came back.

Seems the entire world is full of nothing but grief these days...stress, people wondering around, not knowing where they are trying to go.

It may not help but just know, you are not alone. There is lots of pain out there and it doesn't seem there is any solution for any of us anymore.

I wish I had words of encouragement but my faith in the human experiment is at a low right now. I pray for healing, not just for your husband, not just for you, not just for myself but for our world....I only wonder if God is listening any longer, Lord knows we don't deserve his ear.

I'm so sorry about your wife. I live with that thought each day.....When is the last day? It hurts, never knowing the end.
What a kind person you are to offer to fix our house...TYTY we are okay remodel starts soon. I do wish I had a name for you, AC just don't sound right. Sue, Mesa, AZ

Keeping a good mindset is important when dealing with loved ones during cancer.
Not trying to make you feel bad, but hoping you see the gratitude you can cultivate...
He is alive... your husband is well enough to kick the dog.
He is able to sleep, and find some rest, rather than struggle awake in agony.
You have friends... people who want to visit.
You have the means to repair... many do not.
You are well enough to care for a dog... many are not.
You've had a 28 year marriage, congratulations for that.
So sorry anyone deals with hard times, but dig deep and find appreciation, you have a lucky life.

Hold on to hope. I encourage you.

I usually don't comment on here but I just want you to know that I've been on chemo for 5yrs. I missed my daughters wedding this passed weekend and it broke my heart. I tried and went as far as I could go and just could not go any futher. Carried a garbage can around throwing up. I finally just gave up. Your husband is going through a bad time knowing he can't do anything. I don't know what to tell you excepts God sees your troubles.

Chemo sucks. Just did 6 months but didn't get any down time. Let him rest and be there for him. If it wasn't for my wife, I would not have made it so well.

Sorry things are rough for you and I hope they get better, but right now it's all about your husband. Find a good outlet (like GLP !) to come and vent, let out a little frustration and find some entertainment. Let it out here so your mind is ready when you go back to reality.

I wish you both the best. Give it a bit of time for the trials to pass.