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Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? | |
| Oldboy
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User ID: 19569737 United States02/12/2016 05:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? Sounds pretty cool! “I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.” Marilyn Monroe WE ARE NOT ALLOWED A MONOPOLY BUT WE ALLOW A MONOPOLY. by me The truth is out there. Anybody got the URL? CAPS LOCK – Preventing Login Since 1980. |
| Oldboy
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 68737180  Canada02/12/2016 05:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? OP, send the dozen read roses, someone gave a coupon code to the guy who wanted to send his grandmother flowers. And, reveal who you are because number 1, flowers are expensive and why not get the credit and number 2. she might embarrass herself by thinking it's some other guy and then when you reveal yourself get mad at you. A scenario that actually happened to a friend of mine. That year he was described as the guy who learned the road to hell is paved with good intentions. |
| Oldboy
(OP) User ID: 69953222 United States02/12/2016 05:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? OP, send the dozen read roses, someone gave a coupon code to the guy who wanted to send his grandmother flowers. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 68737180 And, reveal who you are because number 1, flowers are expensive and why not get the credit and number 2. she might embarrass herself by thinking it's some other guy and then when you reveal yourself get mad at you. A scenario that actually happened to a friend of mine. That year he was described as the guy who learned the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Thanks friend...I will take this into consideration. Positive |
| Debauchery
User ID: 71355332 United States02/12/2016 05:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? Someone I worked with had a ginormous arrangement sent to me, at work, on V day. It didn't go over well. It freaked me out. Might work for you though. And the LORD spake, saying, "First shalt thou take out the Holy Pin, then shalt thou count to three, no more, no less. Three shall be the number thou shalt count, and the number of the counting shall be three. Four shalt thou not count, neither count thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be reached, then lobbest thou thy Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch towards thy foe, who being naughty in My sight, shall snuff it. I am an evil giraffe, and I shall eat more leaves from this tree than perhaps I should, so that other giraffes may die. |
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| Oldboy
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 68737180 Canada02/12/2016 05:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? technically you are revealing yourself if you leave the phone number, right? if she is too creeped out she won't call. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65988170 Yes it is my phone # but she does not know it. OP, you just have to go for it and take the risk. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. |
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User ID: 19569737 United States02/12/2016 05:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? Really?.. Quoting: Oldboy Was gonna send a small arrangement ...with white and pink flowers...no red. Yes, i'm sure she will be happy to get them. “I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.” Marilyn Monroe WE ARE NOT ALLOWED A MONOPOLY BUT WE ALLOW A MONOPOLY. by me The truth is out there. Anybody got the URL? CAPS LOCK – Preventing Login Since 1980. |
| Debauchery
User ID: 71355332 United States02/12/2016 05:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? Someone I worked with had a ginormous arrangement sent to me, at work, on V day. Quoting: Debauchery It didn't go over well. It freaked me out. Might work for you though.  Did he work within sight of you receiving them? Yes. I was upstairs in my office looking down at everyone, him included, when the florist came walking up. Of course everyone saw it and there were rumors. I went after him and it turned into a big scene. Was really lovely. And the LORD spake, saying, "First shalt thou take out the Holy Pin, then shalt thou count to three, no more, no less. Three shall be the number thou shalt count, and the number of the counting shall be three. Four shalt thou not count, neither count thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be reached, then lobbest thou thy Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch towards thy foe, who being naughty in My sight, shall snuff it. I am an evil giraffe, and I shall eat more leaves from this tree than perhaps I should, so that other giraffes may die. |
| Oldboy
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(OP) User ID: 69953222 United States02/12/2016 05:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? Someone I worked with had a ginormous arrangement sent to me, at work, on V day. Quoting: Debauchery It didn't go over well. It freaked me out. Might work for you though. Did he work within sight of you receiving them? Yes. I was upstairs in my office looking down at everyone, him included, when the florist came walking up. Of course everyone saw it and there were rumors. I went after him and it turned into a big scene. Was really lovely. When you say "went after him" what do you mean? Positive |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 63265313 Ireland02/12/2016 06:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? Someone I worked with had a ginormous arrangement sent to me, at work, on V day. Quoting: Debauchery It didn't go over well. It freaked me out. Might work for you though. Did he work within sight of you receiving them? Yes. I was upstairs in my office looking down at everyone, him included, when the florist came walking up. Of course everyone saw it and there were rumors. I went after him and it turned into a big scene. Was really lovely. Scarlet for you. I'd be mortified too presuming he knew you were in a relationship!!! In your office!!!  |
| Debauchery
User ID: 71355332 United States02/12/2016 06:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? Someone I worked with had a ginormous arrangement sent to me, at work, on V day. Quoting: Debauchery It didn't go over well. It freaked me out. Might work for you though. Did he work within sight of you receiving them? Yes. I was upstairs in my office looking down at everyone, him included, when the florist came walking up. Of course everyone saw it and there were rumors. I went after him and it turned into a big scene. Was really lovely. When you say "went after him" what do you mean? Just that I came downstairs and yelled at him. I was his superior at that job and sexual/romantic relationships were against policy, they'd fire you for it. Even the appearance of an inappropriate relationship was grounds for termination. He knew all this and put me in a bad spot. He was obsessive, he had bothered me prior to this incident. I'm sure your situation is different. If you work with her though just send them to her residence. If you don't work with her I'm sure it would be ok to send flowers. It's nice. It's sweet. If she doesn't go for it just move on. No harm no foul. And the LORD spake, saying, "First shalt thou take out the Holy Pin, then shalt thou count to three, no more, no less. Three shall be the number thou shalt count, and the number of the counting shall be three. Four shalt thou not count, neither count thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be reached, then lobbest thou thy Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch towards thy foe, who being naughty in My sight, shall snuff it. I am an evil giraffe, and I shall eat more leaves from this tree than perhaps I should, so that other giraffes may die. |
| Oldboy
(OP) User ID: 69953222 United States02/12/2016 06:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? Yes. I was upstairs in my office looking down at everyone, him included, when the florist came walking up. Of course everyone saw it and there were rumors. I went after him and it turned into a big scene. Was really lovely. When you say "went after him" what do you mean? Just that I came downstairs and yelled at him. I was his superior at that job and sexual/romantic relationships were against policy, they'd fire you for it. Even the appearance of an inappropriate relationship was grounds for termination. He knew all this and put me in a bad spot. He was obsessive, he had bothered me prior to this incident. I'm sure your situation is different. If you work with her though just send them to her residence. If you don't work with her I'm sure it would be ok to send flowers. It's nice. It's sweet. If she doesn't go for it just move on. No harm no foul. Yea that's a little out of line.Putting someone on blast like that in front of everyone...is dick move. Hope he got fired. Nothing like that here she owns a dog grooming/boarding bushiness...was going to send there. Positive |
| Debauchery
User ID: 71355332 United States02/12/2016 06:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? ... Quoting: Debauchery Yes. I was upstairs in my office looking down at everyone, him included, when the florist came walking up. Of course everyone saw it and there were rumors. I went after him and it turned into a big scene. Was really lovely. When you say "went after him" what do you mean? Just that I came downstairs and yelled at him. I was his superior at that job and sexual/romantic relationships were against policy, they'd fire you for it. Even the appearance of an inappropriate relationship was grounds for termination. He knew all this and put me in a bad spot. He was obsessive, he had bothered me prior to this incident. I'm sure your situation is different. If you work with her though just send them to her residence. If you don't work with her I'm sure it would be ok to send flowers. It's nice. It's sweet. If she doesn't go for it just move on. No harm no foul. Yea that's a little out of line.Putting someone on blast like that in front of everyone...is dick move. Hope he got fired. Nothing like that here she owns a dog grooming/boarding bushiness...was going to send there. I think it would be ok. If shes's single. It's not like you are stalking her. You could even attach a note telling her that you expect nothing in return, that you just wanted to do something nice for her. I've had friends that have gotten flowers from an anon admirer, they were flattered. I don't think it's creepy unless you've harassed her prior or you start following her around after. And the LORD spake, saying, "First shalt thou take out the Holy Pin, then shalt thou count to three, no more, no less. Three shall be the number thou shalt count, and the number of the counting shall be three. Four shalt thou not count, neither count thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be reached, then lobbest thou thy Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch towards thy foe, who being naughty in My sight, shall snuff it. I am an evil giraffe, and I shall eat more leaves from this tree than perhaps I should, so that other giraffes may die. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 63265313 Ireland02/12/2016 06:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? Just that I came downstairs and yelled at him. I was his superior at that job and sexual/romantic relationships were against policy, they'd fire you for it. Even the appearance of an inappropriate relationship was grounds for termination. He knew all this and put me in a bad spot. He was obsessive, he had bothered me prior to this incident. I'm sure your situation is different. If you work with her though just send them to her residence. If you don't work with her I'm sure it would be ok to send flowers. It's nice. It's sweet. If she doesn't go for it just move on. No harm no foul. Yea that's a little out of line.Putting someone on blast like that in front of everyone...is dick move. Hope he got fired. Nothing like that here she owns a dog grooming/boarding bushiness...was going to send there. I think it would be ok. If shes's single. It's not like you are stalking her. You could even attach a note telling her that you expect nothing in return, that you just wanted to do something nice for her. I've had friends that have gotten flowers from an anon admirer, they were flattered. I don't think it's creepy unless you've harassed her prior or you start following her around after. :bullies: |
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| BunBun
User ID: 70719364 United States02/12/2016 06:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? If you leave her your number, she doesn't know who she's going to get when she calls it. That also doesn't give her the ability to choose to call you or not. I would throw the flowers out and prepare for battle. It's just not as romantic as it might seem in this day and age. There are crazy stalkers, OP. Include your name. Be a gentleman. Christard and Lover of God |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 57894089 United States02/12/2016 07:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? I don't think I would like getting flowers from someone I didn't know. It puts you on the spot, OP. That's kind of uncomfortable. Some people might handle that better than others. I think you should put your name on it and state how you know her. That would only be fair. Quoting: BunBun If you leave her your number, she doesn't know who she's going to get when she calls it. That also doesn't give her the ability to choose to call you or not. I would throw the flowers out and prepare for battle. It's just not as romantic as it might seem in this day and age. There are crazy stalkers, OP. Include your name. Be a gentleman. This Sign your name |
| Oldboy
(OP) User ID: 69953222 United States02/12/2016 07:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Valentine Poll !!!! Is Sending Flowers On Valentines.. As A Secret Admirer... Creepy Or Romantic???? technically you are revealing yourself if you leave the phone number, right? if she is too creeped out she won't call. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65988170 Yes it is my phone # but she does not know it. Totally creepy. She obviously doesn't know you well. Or at all. Yes we know of each other ..groups of friends....she has been divorced over a year...I knew she started dating another dude right after divorce...but I was told from a reliable source she is single again. Positive |
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