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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1261380 Canada 02/20/2016 07:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A man knows how to separate himself from trouble politely, without drama and with class after a first or second date without any issues. It would appear as if everyone just had other things to do with no loss of face to the woman and none to the man. If anything the only impression she should have of you is gentleman, a stand up guy and fun. Again lead with smile your first date. Flowers on the second. Before it gets serious on a third or fourth or fifth...you should have a pretty good idea of who you are dealing with and if it's going to work. Oh yes...turn off the fucking cell phones. You are there to be in her company and she in yours. Enjoy each other's company, the point of a date is to learn about each other and have fun. If she (or you) are on their cell the entire date, it means you aren't date-able or relationship material. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 44493293 United States 02/20/2016 07:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | >she means that when an alpha male won't tolerate a complaining witch, it means he's mean and he is hurtful. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1261380 A man knows how to separate himself from trouble politely, without drama and with class after a first or second date without any issues. It would appear as if everyone just had other things to do with no loss of face to the woman and none to the man. If anything the only impression she should have of you is gentleman, a stand up guy and fun. Again lead with smile your first date. Flowers on the second. Before it gets serious on a third or fourth or fifth...you should have a pretty good idea of who you are dealing with and if it's going to work. Oh yes...turn off the fucking cell phones. You are there to be in her company and she in yours. Enjoy each other's company, the point of a date is to learn about each other and have fun. If she (or you) are on their cell the entire date, it means you aren't date-able or relationship material. You are just telling people to LIE. Relationships built on lies will surely unravel..and wtf is it with women and flowers? I love them, but think they are better growing where they are, not just picked to die. You are suggesting flowers, sharp dressed man, no cell phones, and some wine.That is looking to get laid, that is all.If that is ones true intentions,my god, flowers and shit are an insult.If it is a two way agreement, that should be on knowing what the other wants before hand. Also, if you live on your cell phone, stay that way, or she will find out anyway.If you are HONEST, regardless, that is the best thing you can do for her, and for your self. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71095481 United States 02/20/2016 07:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | .. and very few want the betas, but the smart ones definitley want the sigma male. Quoting: LucyAnna The alpha male type is an asshole. He will hurt people, he will even hurt YOU if it serves him. He is willing to do whatever he needs to get his way. He is capable of telling a lie. He will fight because he wants others to see him win. The beta males are conformists. Enough said. The sigma male is a special type. He is intuitive and empathic. He is honest, regardless of the consequences. He is authentic because he doesn't care about how others judge him, and will act with pure unwavering integrity. He rejects trends and refuses to acknowledge authority. He avoids a fight, but will protect the vulnerable without hesitation. He is the best kind, by far. AND he doesn't know that he is identified as this, because he couldn't care less about placing himself in a pointless social hierarchy while comparing himself to douchbags. I married one of these! So happy I was able to find one who hadn't been so beaten down by life that he stopped caring. They are indeed deeply desirable and special. I feel like I can spot them on the street now, and the best part is that they tend to aggregate when they are recognized and loved; I ought to write a field guide to identifying them, lol. Alpha male = pissed off, aggro rich dude who uses others. Not attractive to smart, discerning women who can get what they need for themselves. Has no real place in the modern world. Beta male = insecure loser who has no integrity and doesn't know himself; a man-child you will have to be mommy to while he idolizes the alphas and their culture all the while playing video games in his spare time. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71515106 Portugal 02/20/2016 07:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | .. and very few want the betas, but the smart ones definitley want the sigma male. Quoting: LucyAnna The alpha male type is an asshole. He will hurt people, he will even hurt YOU if it serves him. He is willing to do whatever he needs to get his way. He is capable of telling a lie. He will fight because he wants others to see him win. The beta males are conformists. Enough said. The sigma male is a special type. He is intuitive and empathic. He is honest, regardless of the consequences. He is authentic because he doesn't care about how others judge him, and will act with pure unwavering integrity. He rejects trends and refuses to acknowledge authority. He avoids a fight, but will protect the vulnerable without hesitation. He is the best kind, by far. AND he doesn't know that he is identified as this, because he couldn't care less about placing himself in a pointless social hierarchy while comparing himself to douchbags. That sigma guy you described is in fact an Alpha... Those open chest, talk loud, jerk type guys are normally Betas overcompensating their insecurities by looking though. Real Alphas are extremely calm and composed, like the great Alpha Lions, but if someone tries to mess with them or their loved ones they are in for a surprise. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 12785012 United States 02/20/2016 08:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't like Alphas, or the term Alpha Male. I think Alphas would rather have multiple females, are cheater types, because they always have to be in control of several people or a group. I mean look at the Animal World. The Alpha Male always has more than one Female. No thanks, not for me! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71309406 United States 02/20/2016 08:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | .. and very few want the betas, but the smart ones definitley want the sigma male. Quoting: LucyAnna The alpha male type is an asshole. He will hurt people, he will even hurt YOU if it serves him. He is willing to do whatever he needs to get his way. He is capable of telling a lie. He will fight because he wants others to see him win. The beta males are conformists. Enough said. The sigma male is a special type. He is intuitive and empathic. He is honest, regardless of the consequences. He is authentic because he doesn't care about how others judge him, and will act with pure unwavering integrity. He rejects trends and refuses to acknowledge authority. He avoids a fight, but will protect the vulnerable without hesitation. He is the best kind, by far. AND he doesn't know that he is identified as this, because he couldn't care less about placing himself in a pointless social hierarchy while comparing himself to douchbags. ^^^ I wish I knew more girls that understood this... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1261380 Canada 02/20/2016 09:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | >You are just telling people to LIE. Relationships built on lies will surely unravel..and wtf is it with women and flowers? I love them, but think they are better growing where they are, not just picked to die. You are suggesting flowers, sharp dressed man, no cell phones, and some wine.That is looking to get laid, that is all.If that is ones true intentions,my god, flowers and shit are an insult.If it is a two way agreement, that should be on knowing what the other wants before hand. Also, if you live on your cell phone, stay that way, or she will find out anyway.If you are HONEST, regardless, that is the best thing you can do for her, and for your self. LOL!! Wow. Good luck champ. You sound like you'd be a lot of fun at a funeral. And guess what. YES, women actually like having sex. They also appreciate good company that's polite, fun and measuring no expectations while getting to know someone. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't. HOWEVER at the end of the day when dating, you are looking for a mate long term. if you want a best friend, great, I'm sure that exists out there. But from my experience over time it makes for a lousy long term relationship and a terrible marriage. A partner should engage you on hundreds of levels. Sight. Sound. Touch. Scent. Memory. Play. The chemistry that draws people together and keeps them strong together. To get there though; you need to actually engage and remember the person you are seeing is a woman. Not a man. Be polite, be charming, best foot forward. While women may appreciate a well built man. And some maybe gold diggers. The reality is most are looking for same thing. Someone to switch them on. For a woman, the largest sexual organ in her body that flips her light switch on is her mind. You engage her mind, you could look like a potatoe, engage her in conversation that lights her fire. She'll be wondering when she gets to talk to you again. The flowers are just a nice way of reminding your date of a good time with someone that flipped her on switch. The suit...it's what a rebel wears in a ocean full of t-shirt and jeans. You want to stand out. Be sharper than the dull butter knives around you. You put on the suit and I guarantee you'll feel different as soon as the tie straight in the mirror and cuffs are straight. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 44493293 United States 02/20/2016 09:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | >You are just telling people to LIE. Relationships built on lies will surely unravel..and wtf is it with women and flowers? I love them, but think they are better growing where they are, not just picked to die. You are suggesting flowers, sharp dressed man, no cell phones, and some wine.That is looking to get laid, that is all.If that is ones true intentions,my god, flowers and shit are an insult.If it is a two way agreement, that should be on knowing what the other wants before hand. Also, if you live on your cell phone, stay that way, or she will find out anyway.If you are HONEST, regardless, that is the best thing you can do for her, and for your self. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1261380 LOL!! Wow. Good luck champ. You sound like you'd be a lot of fun at a funeral. And guess what. YES, women actually like having sex. They also appreciate good company that's polite, fun and measuring no expectations while getting to know someone. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't. HOWEVER at the end of the day when dating, you are looking for a mate long term. if you want a best friend, great, I'm sure that exists out there. But from my experience over time it makes for a lousy long term relationship and a terrible marriage. A partner should engage you on hundreds of levels. Sight. Sound. Touch. Scent. Memory. Play. The chemistry that draws people together and keeps them strong together. To get there though; you need to actually engage and remember the person you are seeing is a woman. Not a man. Be polite, be charming, best foot forward. While women may appreciate a well built man. And some maybe gold diggers. The reality is most are looking for same thing. Someone to switch them on. For a woman, the largest sexual organ in her body that flips her light switch on is her mind. You engage her mind, you could look like a potatoe, engage her in conversation that lights her fire. She'll be wondering when she gets to talk to you again. The flowers are just a nice way of reminding your date of a good time with someone that flipped her on switch. The suit...it's what a rebel wears in a ocean full of t-shirt and jeans. You want to stand out. Be sharper than the dull butter knives around you. You put on the suit and I guarantee you'll feel different as soon as the tie straight in the mirror and cuffs are straight. Ahh poo poo to you. I would look better in the same suit as you.You sound arrogant.And I do not want to be fun.So there.. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21923372 United States 02/20/2016 09:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ah, yes. The classical Sigma type. That's a Greek letter. 18th letter of the Greek alphabet. As per Wiki, In the empirical sciences the so-called three-sigma rule of thumb expresses a conventional heuristic that "nearly all" values are taken to lie within three standard deviations of the mean, i.e. that it is empirically useful to treat 99.7% probability as "near certainty" |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 44493293 United States 02/20/2016 09:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ah, yes. The classical Sigma type. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21923372 That's a Greek letter. 18th letter of the Greek alphabet. As per Wiki, In the empirical sciences the so-called three-sigma rule of thumb expresses a conventional heuristic that "nearly all" values are taken to lie within three standard deviations of the mean, i.e. that it is empirically useful to treat 99.7% probability as "near certainty" Did you just say..AS PER, on a Sat night? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21923372 United States 02/20/2016 09:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ah, yes. The classical Sigma type. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21923372 That's a Greek letter. 18th letter of the Greek alphabet. As per Wiki, In the empirical sciences the so-called three-sigma rule of thumb expresses a conventional heuristic that "nearly all" values are taken to lie within three standard deviations of the mean, i.e. that it is empirically useful to treat 99.7% probability as "near certainty" Did you just say..AS PER, on a Sat night? Affirmative. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 44493293 United States 02/20/2016 09:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ah, yes. The classical Sigma type. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21923372 That's a Greek letter. 18th letter of the Greek alphabet. As per Wiki, In the empirical sciences the so-called three-sigma rule of thumb expresses a conventional heuristic that "nearly all" values are taken to lie within three standard deviations of the mean, i.e. that it is empirically useful to treat 99.7% probability as "near certainty" Did you just say..AS PER, on a Sat night? Affirmative. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21923372 United States 02/20/2016 09:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ah, yes. The classical Sigma type. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21923372 That's a Greek letter. 18th letter of the Greek alphabet. As per Wiki, In the empirical sciences the so-called three-sigma rule of thumb expresses a conventional heuristic that "nearly all" values are taken to lie within three standard deviations of the mean, i.e. that it is empirically useful to treat 99.7% probability as "near certainty" Did you just say..AS PER, on a Sat night? Affirmative. Subjective hearsay and irrational projection. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 44493293 United States 02/20/2016 09:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quoting: Mully and Scoldher. False premise and logical fallacy. Your thesis assumes I'm not relaxed. Yes, I could be wrong. Maybe you need to get off of your fucking lazy ass, and do some thing. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21923372 United States 02/20/2016 09:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | False premise and logical fallacy. Your thesis assumes I'm not relaxed. Yes, I could be wrong. Maybe you need to get off of your fucking lazy ass, and do some thing. Something is a compound word. You assume I have not been doing something today. That assumption is incorrect. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 44493293 United States 02/20/2016 09:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | False premise and logical fallacy. Your thesis assumes I'm not relaxed. Yes, I could be wrong. Maybe you need to get off of your fucking lazy ass, and do some thing. Something is a compound word. You assume I have not been doing something today. That assumption is incorrect. Well. You have those specific words that you want to use. I have not assumed anything about you. What did you do today? I mean, unless it is classified. What will you do a few hours from now? |