I'm sorry to hear that you were kept out of the loop. The cat's definitely out of the bag with this one and we keep him informed. He's even been to the Oncologist appointments because he told my mom he wanted to ask the doctor questions and at first her Oncologist was like.."Do you really think he needs to be in here for this?" and we were both like..absolutely..without hesitation. And he has handled this very responsibly and in a mature manner. It's still tough for him but like he said he's very confident and has such strong faith that mom is gonna pull through.