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pregnant girlfriend just told me she is not sure if she wants a family with me | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 70750749  United States05/02/2016 11:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So here it is. 2 1/2 months pregnant & has older daughter from Bedfore had been arguing alot. No drinking or drugs. None of that. I am trying to get her to open up about why I get silent treatment 24/7. After talk I say well I am working towards us being a family & I want a future for us together. She said well I'm not so sure what I want anymore. Been living together for a year & dating for 2. I Reply that if she is not comitted to a future than I am wasting my time living here. I know I shouldn't have said it but its true. have tried to be supportive. I am not perfect by any means. we work together too. I gave up my place to move in with her. This is why men do not put there faith in women. She is a great girl. Wonderful person. Sweet. I trust her. She just can't stand me anymore. Closed off. Distant 24/7. Just plays on phone or always around family. when we are alone silent treatment or fighting. I love her & she is having my baby. Most women I dated wanted to have my child & family & just my luck...now her feelings have changed. we are both in our 30's btw. Advise would be welcome. I have to work in 3.5 hours. Btw. Bank of international settlements. World bank. Imf. follow the money LOL. Since this is glp  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14992014 United States05/02/2016 11:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
JustChilling
 User ID: 71592440 United States05/02/2016 11:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like she's gonna milk you out of child support for the next 18+ years. Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery. -Winston Churchill |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 71339137 United States05/02/2016 11:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| nameles1
User ID: 71226414 United States05/02/2016 11:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | remember her hormones are crazy right now and her moods are like a bi polar person stick around and if nothing changes then its not just the pregnancy talking neither here nor there. In the spirit of brotherhood Please spin your tale of fate Let everything be understood To the celebration I might be late |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 71657157 United States05/02/2016 11:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's scared. Failed once and afraid to try again. Open your heart and ask her to marry you. If she says no, at least you know you tried. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14992014 Aw, you're too sweet for glp. Honestly, pregnancy creates hormonal disasters. I remember being weepy and crying in situations that were totally out of character. All the basement dwellers are going to jump up and say she just wants child support and welfare. Blood, sweat, and tears. It might just be that pregnancy hormones bring up emotional stuff that has to be worked through. Stick with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 70750749 United States05/02/2016 11:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 22373790 United States05/02/2016 11:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Is there any chance, even small, that this child could not be yours? It sure sounds like she may have had someone on the side who got her pregnant, and now she is feeling scared that the child may not be yours. Being completely distant towards you helps the theory that she may be fooling around on you. |
| Coppercoal
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 70750749 United States05/02/2016 11:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been patient with her. Thats what started tonight's drama. I told her that we had been there for each other & i would be patient but she shouldnt shut me out & then she says.." there you go telling me what to do" I swear im trying & if it was anyone else I would have left months ago. I dunno if its hormones or whay cuz we was arguing before. seems like the more I try the worse it gets. But if I mention leaving or just space...she says "I never try to separate us you do" "if i wanted space you wouldnt be here" |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 70750749 United States05/02/2016 11:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Imforrios
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14992014 United States05/02/2016 11:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We live together work together. But I feel alone. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70750749 I have been patient with her. Thats what started tonight's drama. I told her that we had been there for each other & i would be patient but she shouldnt shut me out & then she says.." there you go telling me what to do" I swear im trying & if it was anyone else I would have left months ago. I dunno if its hormones or whay cuz we was arguing before. seems like the more I try the worse it gets. But if I mention leaving or just space...she says "I never try to separate us you do" "if i wanted space you wouldnt be here" Hormones. Don't sweat it. Be sweet but cool. |
| Carshing D. Moran
User ID: 70771738 United States05/02/2016 11:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Basket case, holding you prisoner because she sees how you react to her game playing. You have to man up a bit with this bitch. Tell her how the fuck it's going to be. This is basically what she wants (even though she might not consciously know it). Bitches are unstable, so to let her instability and irrationality control your moods is retarded at best, with actual results being much worse. Follow through on your threat to leave. If she don't care than neither should you. Of course, let her know that this is not your preferred option, and that you sincerely want to have a family with her, "but her lack of self control, and indulgence in negative behavioral patterns will NOT EVER be the controlling factor in your life!" These ho's today. Their decision making is typically designed to impress some fucking retard on social media (usually another retarded fake ass bitch). Gnome sayin? |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 70750749 United States05/02/2016 11:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | From now on I will just be there & keep my mouth shut. Good advise. But also that sucks for me cuz in the meantime I am not getting anything in return. Thanks for all you glpers time |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 70750749 United States05/02/2016 11:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| GGAllin
User ID: 5806675 United States05/02/2016 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dude, just split for awhile and see how she likes it. Go get a hotel or whatever. Just cut off all contact and show her what it would be like if you were gone. You don't have to put up with what she's doing to you. Refuse to tolerate any of it. “Do not proffer sympathy to the mentally ill; it is a bottomless pit. Tell them firmly, 'I am not paid to listen to this drivel — you are a terminal fool!'” -William S. Burroughs |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 70750749 United States05/03/2016 12:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Basket case, holding you prisoner because she sees how you react to her game playing. You have to man up a bit with this bitch. Tell her how the fuck it's going to be. This is basically what she wants (even though she might not consciously know it). Bitches are unstable, so to let her instability and irrationality control your moods is retarded at best, with actual results being much worse. Follow through on your threat to leave. If she don't care than neither should you. Of course, let her know that this is not your preferred option, and that you sincerely want to have a family with her, "but her lack of self control, and indulgence in negative behavioral patterns will NOT EVER be the controlling factor in your life!" These ho's today. Their decision making is typically designed to impress some fucking retard on social media (usually another retarded fake ass bitch). Gnome sayin? There is some truth to this as well...if she didn't have my child I would definitely do this. Just because I am not perfect either. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 63251813 United States05/03/2016 12:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Basket case, holding you prisoner because she sees how you react to her game playing. Quoting: Carshing D. Moran You have to man up a bit with this bitch. Tell her how the fuck it's going to be. This is basically what she wants (even though she might not consciously know it). Bitches are unstable, so to let her instability and irrationality control your moods is retarded at best, with actual results being much worse. Follow through on your threat to leave. If she don't care than neither should you. Of course, let her know that this is not your preferred option, and that you sincerely want to have a family with her, "but her lack of self control, and indulgence in negative behavioral patterns will NOT EVER be the controlling factor in your life!" These ho's today. Their decision making is typically designed to impress some fucking retard on social media (usually another retarded fake ass bitch). Gnome sayin? Yep... act like Dan from the TV show rosainne would. Be a man. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 38384575 United States05/03/2016 12:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Carshing D. Moran
User ID: 70771738 United States05/03/2016 12:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ..."if I wanted space you wouldn't be here." Really? Bro, maybe YOU need some space. This bitch needs more than space. Not hard to see why she's already a single mom. She LOVES the negativity. Total indulgence in it. It makes her day. If she had any respect for you she wouldn't talk to you like that, or treat you that way. But you have to have some respect for yourself.... Might want to say something like "You can't speak to me that way... EVER!".... If she insists that she can, well, you might be at an impasse. Sounds like a total bitch.... Pussy probably amazing though huh? lol. Maybe you're just pussy whipped! |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 70750749 United States05/03/2016 12:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [/color Back off a little. Give her her space. I'm not shitting you. If you want this to work you're going to have to relax. Imma go with this. But only for as long as I can. relationships are a 2 way street. This sucks. Normally if its not working out I would just go. Seems like no matter what I'm screwed |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 61554461 United States05/03/2016 12:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 32909251 United States05/03/2016 12:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So here it is. 2 1/2 months pregnant & has older daughter from Bedfore had been arguing alot. No drinking or drugs. None of that. I am trying to get her to open up about why I get silent treatment 24/7. After talk I say well I am working towards us being a family & I want a future for us together. She said well I'm not so sure what I want anymore. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70750749 Been living together for a year & dating for 2. I Reply that if she is not comitted to a future than I am wasting my time living here. I know I shouldn't have said it but its true. have tried to be supportive. I am not perfect by any means. we work together too. I gave up my place to move in with her. This is why men do not put there faith in women. She is a great girl. Wonderful person. Sweet. I trust her. She just can't stand me anymore. Closed off. Distant 24/7. Just plays on phone or always around family. when we are alone silent treatment or fighting. I love her & she is having my baby. Most women I dated wanted to have my child & family & just my luck...now her feelings have changed. we are both in our 30's btw. Advise would be welcome. I have to work in 3.5 hours. Btw. Bank of international settlements. World bank. Imf. follow the money LOL. Since this is glp The first bastard kid of hers should have been a major red flag. Now you got fucked with child support for the next couple decades when she takes off in a couple months. Stop telling yourself you love her and man up. She got your sperm to get pregnant and your balls for a trophy. Good luck! |
