This sounds similar to something I experienced once after moving from one apartment to another in a 4-plex from the 1920's.

The person that lived in the apartment before me had been there for a few years. I don't recall exactly how long but I befriended her and knew her for almost 2 years and spent some time in there.

Not long after I moved in I was doing something in the kitchen, cooking maybe and my friend, who was not over for a visit, came dashing through the backdoor of the kitchen, through me and into the living room! It took a second to assess what had happened and she was gone. I didn't see her disappear.

She was not over for a visit. She was somewhere else, alive and well. It was crazy.

She is the type that is very high strung, didn't sit still for long. I think she spent a lot of time, dashing around that old house and had left some sort of energetic imprint.

Similar to "hauntings" when a tramatic event seems to replay over and over?

Idk, I call them energy imprints. Are these imprints a glimpse of an alternate reality? It doesn't seem so. It just seems like 'recorded' snippets.

Does your husband do that often, wake people up by screaming? He could have energetically imprinted that aggressive record into the aethers or into some remote packet of your psyche and a door slammed (or whatever) and your dream state pulled a familiar reason for waking up in such a dreadful manner?