I really like this woman I'm dating but there's one problem...

But can she suck a good dick?


If she is aso cool as you say she will grow on you and you will find her beautiful eventually. Unless she's fat then run because she will only get fatter once she's comfortable in a relationship.

Yeah she's a bigger girl... and exercises daily to keep it at that. But ya know she's 31....can probably keep it together until 40 so that would make me 47... of course by then I'll be so famous I can pick and choose em.

You make a solid point sir.

hmmmm..

One thing about frumpy women... you dont have to worry so much about her ruding the CC... Attractive women are almostalways addicted to attention- they are attention whores, usually with princess syndrome.
I saygo for it as long as she weighs less than 145lbs. Also, check what her mother looks like- if shes a land whale, you can bet shewill betoo. Avoid that

I think you can, if there is at least some spark there. Attraction is all mental, but if you aren't attracted to her at all then you probably never will be.

Couple of questions: how's the body? A good body goes a long way.

If she's not "Hot" to you, you're going to be much quicker to be annoyed by her faults, ticks, bad habits, etc. If there's any part of her not lady-like in the way you want a woman to be, it's going to turn you off extra hard down the line.

She is smart and fun but are your interests the same? They'd better be, because the heat and passion are going to die quick, and when they do, you better have stuff to do together besides have disappointing sex.

If you're looking for a partner for life, she might be it anyway, you two might be awesome at raising kids together, and ultimately that's what it ends up being about, unless you don't have any and nobody wants any.

No matter how hot a female is...at some point you're looking at better legs or asses or boobs or smiles or hair or whatever. You will get bored.There is no "hot" that lasts 20 years.

Sexually compatible is definitely important, as is what to do with the other 23 hours of the day. Hot and not as fun with sex is actually bad situation.

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I didn't read down this far.

GET OUT NOW.

Fat chicks all have horrible hygiene downstairs and it will only get worse once the shower phase wears off.

Gassy, smelly, greasy...listen, someone else said it. She's not going to get any thinner. It only moves in one direction.

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Well her mother died last year from diabetes...

so oddly enough she's bone thin!




too soon?

No. I'm appearing on this show.

Solid point. Getting caught up on looks alone is a mistake.

I'm actually thinking of her feelings. Should I end it now before it gets too serious? That's why I'm asking.

I once dated a chick so much hotter than me that every friend I had would have fucked her behind my back. They just couldn't help themselves. I'm lean and handsome (haha), but no Brad Pit. I suggest you ask 10 girls what number you are out of 10 and then subtract 1 number for their niceness. Whatever number you are, you should try to find your counterpart, give or take a number. If you are a 6,5 or 4, that 5 girl is perfect for you. If you are an 8 then you'll just end up cheating on her most likely. Anyway, good luck.

I'd be a hard 6 and sometimes 7 maybe an 8 with a tan.

Really tough call...what's her mom like, or other female relative that is older. Not that you will ever find her older relatives attractive but you can glimpse a small look at the future.

Keep in mind that your Brain fucks with you. When you are 28, you would likely never picture yourself going down on a 50 year old women...gross. But when you're also 50 not a problem. So when you look at her older relatives keep that in mind...not apples to apples but you get an idea.

But in reality, you are either afraid of moving to the next step, and then the step after m-m-m-marriage, or you are just not that into her.

Why are you going to be famous?

MoS

Hit it and quit it bro, move on to the next one.

save yourself for the passionate love that you may find next year....

it is important to feel in your heart that you MUST be with the one you choose.... no alternative possible....


that you ask, shows she is not the one. Let her find the man who will be passionate about her.

I wish you both all the blessings and luck in the universe as you make your choices.

Keep her

"The one" is a lie sold to men, nothing but foolish cuckery to keep men enslaved. No judge gives a shit if she was "The one" when it comes to serving divorce papers.

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Well said.

Heya Russell! Great interview with Wells, by the way. I liked what he said about Sandy Hook. Good stuff, brother!

Look, you need to be attracted to some degree. She doesn't have to be the most beautiful thing you ever saw. You usually don't marry THOSE. But you do need to like her looks. That said, the heart connection is the most important thing to find. If you had it with this one, you wouldn't be asking these questions. Her "looks" wouldn't be an issue. You'll know when you've found "the one".

Talk to this one, be honest, and let the chips fall where they may. But don't use the poor girl. Just tell her what you're telling us here and the relationship will make itself.

It's so strange to have "Jesus" offering this kind of advice.

oh look, another sewing circle worse than old grannies.

Agreed. Operation brush-off was initiated yesterday.

UPDATE: We went out for 8 months and it ended due to political differences.

Was worried there for a moment, OP . . . thought you were going to say, "she has a penis." ; )

An avg looking chick with good attitude/character is far less of a time bomb then a smoking hot one with shit character.

Sounds like a keeper. Looks fade and so will yours. You get along....what more can you ask for? Get a hot chick. I'm certain you would report back lonely.