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User ID: 74789295 United States 06/18/2017 11:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Reconnected 30 years later. Butterflies were there, but no "friendship." Not good! It didn't work 30 years ago, and it didn't work 30 years later. Don't let the butterflies fool you! Last Edited by nutmeg on 06/18/2017 11:21 PM |
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User ID: 74789295 United States 06/18/2017 11:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes... with a couple of my exes. Quoting: Mike Ehrmantraut And for the second time, with each of these girls, it didn't work out. There was a reason we split to begin with. Yeah. I was also going to add - think about what led to the break up. Sometimes those traits don't leave the person. Exactly! Be very careful! People don't change. Last Edited by nutmeg on 06/18/2017 11:10 PM |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 2238486 United States 06/18/2017 11:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I got an email today that honestly shocked me. Let me back up first with some back story... Quoting: BamaGirl73 my ex-boyfriend and I have been split for a little over 4 years. The first few years I hardly gave him a second thought, but for over a year now I've been having dreams about him and things keep reminding me of him. And, this was probably a stupid thing to do...a few months back when I was feeling very depressed, I emailed him and confessed that I still love him and always would. I honestly didn't think I would ever hear from him as he is in another relationship and hundreds of miles away. But..today I get a short email with a promise of a longer one later, that he hasn't forgotten me and he's not happy where he is now. I don't know how to feel...part of me is elated, part of me is worried and part is just confused. Has anyone else got back together with your ex after years apart and had it work out? Yep Usually it just ends up to be hooking up and sex Be careful and stay guarded |
chrisvet
User ID: 75100973 Canada 06/18/2017 11:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It will never work, you emailed him because you was depressed and perhaps lonely? You reached out to someone from what you consider to be a happier time. Just my opinion but I do wish you luck. Quoting: Kelley_girl This is so true. In times of loneliness and sadness we often 'glorify' ex's almost in the same way we glorify mediocre people we knew who died. A seemingly cruel thing to say, but very true with regards to my own past experiences. Often Ex's are Ex's for a reason, and it needs to stay that way. I reconnected on facebook with my first love - a relationship that ended 27 years ago. After a long conversation, both us of chuckled realizing we no longer have anything in common. We wished each other the best, while holding fond memories of our past. Last Edited by ChrisVet on 06/18/2017 11:19 PM "Do the Shit out of what you Love" |
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User ID: 70388563 United States 06/18/2017 11:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | .... Quoting: chrisvet I reconnected on facebook with my first love - a relationship that ended 27 years ago. After a long conversation, both us of chuckled realizing we no longer have anything in common. We wished each other the best, while holding fond memories of our past. Reminds me of that song by Garth Brooks "Unanswered Prayers". |
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User ID: 75100973 Canada 06/18/2017 11:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | .... Quoting: chrisvet I reconnected on facebook with my first love - a relationship that ended 27 years ago. After a long conversation, both us of chuckled realizing we no longer have anything in common. We wished each other the best, while holding fond memories of our past. Reminds me of that song by Garth Brooks "Unanswered Prayers". OMG, you nailed it 1000%. I didn't know the song, but its spot on. Last Edited by ChrisVet on 06/18/2017 11:51 PM "Do the Shit out of what you Love" |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70126015 United Kingdom 06/19/2017 09:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I got an email today that honestly shocked me. Let me back up first with some back story... Quoting: BamaGirl73 my ex-boyfriend and I have been split for a little over 4 years. The first few years I hardly gave him a second thought, but for over a year now I've been having dreams about him and things keep reminding me of him. And, this was probably a stupid thing to do...a few months back when I was feeling very depressed, I emailed him and confessed that I still love him and always would. I honestly didn't think I would ever hear from him as he is in another relationship and hundreds of miles away. But..today I get a short email with a promise of a longer one later, that he hasn't forgotten me and he's not happy where he is now. I don't know how to feel...part of me is elated, part of me is worried and part is just confused. Has anyone else got back together with your ex after years apart and had it work out? I did, twice. When I was in high school I had a "friend" and never really thought much about him after we left school. Some years later we met by chance while out shopping, went to lunch, had such a great time and I couldn't believe how much we had to talk about and how much we had in common. We have been together for six years now and very happy. About two years ago I received a letter from my college sweetie. We met for lunch and what a dud...there was NO sparkage, no anything...I found myself eating faster just to get rid of him. LOL, it was awful. I agree with others who said, "Be careful," though. So, Davvi, you been with your guy for six years, but two years ago you decided to meet up with another old flame to see if there was still a spark? You dirty little cheater you. Shame on you. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 15320663 United States 06/19/2017 09:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Men traditionally just play with exes. There's rarely a authentic motive behind men talking to exes. It's either him wanting to know if he still has power over her, or he wants to have a lil sexy texting fun to get his rocks off while his gf is on the rag, or he is actually looking for sex but he has zero intentions on getting you back, he is merely keeping his sexual options open. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73540371 Men will say and do almost anything to keep their sexual options open, even if that means he is confessing his dire love to 7 different women at one time just to have them all on the hook. no bitterness, huh? I contacted my ex 40 years later and we apologized to each other. We should have met when we were more mature. I had a situation end so messy - it was horrible. I wanted to apologize for my behavior but he cut off contact - truth is my behavior was the result of some of his behavior so we were both guilty of being nasty. But I sure hope - some day forgiveness is had and given. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 15320663 United States 06/19/2017 09:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | .... Quoting: chrisvet I reconnected on facebook with my first love - a relationship that ended 27 years ago. After a long conversation, both us of chuckled realizing we no longer have anything in common. We wished each other the best, while holding fond memories of our past. Reminds me of that song by Garth Brooks "Unanswered Prayers". Lot of truth in that one. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 12358812 Canada 06/19/2017 10:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We dated in college. I took her virginity and by this point she was dating someone else. Dated for two years and almost got married but I was a little too wild for her. Liked the party and drugs. Anyway we stepped outside to talk and my shit got hard as fuck painful. I was like I have a medical emergency right now. An erection lasting forever. She started stroking me and we ran to my car and I banged her like I was a cave man mating to save the world. She soaked the leather and was sliding around. I didn't use a condom. Busted nuts deep in her. She thanked me profusely. I didn't talk to her after that but looked her up online out of curiosity. She got married soon after that so I forgot about her. Then a few years later I looked her up again and there was a pic of her family. Her 3 kids. Her dark haired husband. And her oldest kid totally blond looking just like me and other males in my family. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70126015 United Kingdom 06/19/2017 10:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I ran into an ex at a club in Chicago. Hundreds of miles from where we were together. It was strange. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12358812 We dated in college. I took her virginity and by this point she was dating someone else. Dated for two years and almost got married but I was a little too wild for her. Liked the party and drugs. Anyway we stepped outside to talk and my shit got hard as fuck painful. I was like I have a medical emergency right now. An erection lasting forever. She started stroking me and we ran to my car and I banged her like I was a cave man mating to save the world. She soaked the leather and was sliding around. I didn't use a condom. Busted nuts deep in her. She thanked me profusely. I didn't talk to her after that but looked her up online out of curiosity. She got married soon after that so I forgot about her. Then a few years later I looked her up again and there was a pic of her family. Her 3 kids. Her dark haired husband. And her oldest kid totally blond looking just like me and other males in my family. Bro... don't... lie. You done a There's Something About Mary, and got a PI to track her down, then you accidentally on purpose bumped into her coming out of a nightclub. But it didn't work out as planned, at least not when she called you a stalker and tazed your nut sack. |
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User ID: 12716342 United States 06/20/2017 04:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I got an email today that honestly shocked me. Let me back up first with some back story... Quoting: BamaGirl73 my ex-boyfriend and I have been split for a little over 4 years. The first few years I hardly gave him a second thought, but for over a year now I've been having dreams about him and things keep reminding me of him. And, this was probably a stupid thing to do...a few months back when I was feeling very depressed, I emailed him and confessed that I still love him and always would. I honestly didn't think I would ever hear from him as he is in another relationship and hundreds of miles away. But..today I get a short email with a promise of a longer one later, that he hasn't forgotten me and he's not happy where he is now. I don't know how to feel...part of me is elated, part of me is worried and part is just confused. Has anyone else got back together with your ex after years apart and had it work out? I did, twice. When I was in high school I had a "friend" and never really thought much about him after we left school. Some years later we met by chance while out shopping, went to lunch, had such a great time and I couldn't believe how much we had to talk about and how much we had in common. We have been together for six years now and very happy. About two years ago I received a letter from my college sweetie. We met for lunch and what a dud...there was NO sparkage, no anything...I found myself eating faster just to get rid of him. LOL, it was awful. I agree with others who said, "Be careful," though. So, Davvi, you been with your guy for six years, but two years ago you decided to meet up with another old flame to see if there was still a spark? You dirty little cheater you. Shame on you. LOL, my current knew perfectly well what I was doing...he wasn't the least bit worried as he is really quite secure in our relationship... BTW, Mr. Current sees his "ex" almost everyday as they work together. |