Thanks for the post OP and good luck I don't feel so alone now. I have been on the end of this behavior from all races equally.

It is scarey how shameless full grown, generally healthy adults are now a days. I am not talking about the types you mentioned that may not be as neat as a pin, but they are generally self reliant. If they ask for help for something it is only when they are truly in a bind. And they will only ask for that type of help once.

I am talking about people who are devolving to the point where they need someone else to turn their door handles for them, but at the same time they have "evolved" into experts on incredibly complex shit that did not even exist 10 years ago like smart phones, deep plot television shows/movies, games, social media, etc.

Oh and they are also healthy enough to party, socialize, have hobbies, toys, pets, spouses/lovers, kids, etc. They have enough money and mobility enough for events, vacations, gatherings, but they can't drive to the local store to buy a $3 cheapo screw driver. They know you have one. They know you know how to use it for them. They don't see the point in doing any of it themselves. They get enraged if you dare ask them what is preventing them from doing whatever minor task it is for themselves.

Scared for where our civilization is at right now. Rich or Poor. all races.