Anyone else pretty much given up on dating?

CigarTigher, honey I think you'll do fine, just stay away from those without your values...don't give in to some low life because you think your clock is ticking. That's the mistake I made and it lead to 10 years of loneliness and heartache and 8 different custody court battles after she left. Yes I had a family but now my kids are messed up and now I'm getting too old to start over.

Even though I don't know you I think you're a good woman...don't compromise. God bless you honey.

This advice is ridiculous, of course a woman ten years older than you would appreciate you, because she is getting a guy way above her league. What kind of loser are you to even think about a notion like this? Basically you are opting to be second choice, because she turned down thousands of men like you when she was younger and now that she is older she is ready to settle down and appreciate a man. Forget that.

I mean I understand where you are coming from, everyone wants to be appreciated by a partner and if you Are dating most women they can not appreciate you because they have hundreds of men trying to pursue them at the same time.

But I don't Think the answer is to date women ten years older than you just to get that feeling of being appreciated. Remember even 40 year old women have hundreds of men in their twenties trying to beg them for sex. Will she be more likely to appreciate you? Sure she will, but by dating women 10 years older you are encouraging women to play this game of only dating chads in their twenties and thirties and then finally finding a stable man in her 40's. don't encourage this behavior, stay single, don't give them a relationship.

I know there are some good men, but I have all but given up trying. I want a committed thing with a good companion and that's been hard to find.

And as I get older I get way more picky. Being with someone who hasn't gone down the rabbit hole would be impossible. And there's the whole healthy lifestyle situation too. So I haven't quite given up, but not actively trying anymore. The disappointments hurt too much!

Stop chasing Chad and go for Erkle.

I am an older woman who has raised her family and as of last year realized I will live it out alone. It is a hard realization. I just don't feel like cleaning up after anyone else or dealing with someone's rotten ex-wife.

I did not picture my later years like this, but it is what it is.

Had I know I would be alone, I would have planned my finances differently. Now I am constantly playing make up as far as my 401k, etc. goes.

Yes, it is lonely. But being abused is much, much worse than being alone. The cost is loneliness once or twice a month. The benefit is not having to report to someone else or explain my actions. All in all, I am happy 28 days out of 30. I'll stay this way.

Do you plan on rolling the dice and marrying a Tyrone or you more inclined to marry a Ricardo or maybe a Jim?

Why are women crapping on this thread? Their crazy asses are the problem!

Gross. I despise leftist chicks that feel it's okay and funny to announce that they just farted. Disgraceful.

I used to expect a date, but after being the sole one making an effort, I realized dating wasn't missing from the relationship. I expect honesty and kindness from a clear eye, a truthful heart and compassion with the capability to grow together. I don't want someone who's been complacent in a rotten relationship. Make it work from the spirit up. It doesn't take a "date" to get that, it takes a willingness to get to know someone, date or not.

Meet people, don't become reclusive.

Yes this is true, unfortunately... It drastically narrows down the 'playing field' to the point where it feels like the odds are totally working against you...

I've given up too. Everyone looking for sugar mommies or just sex

Last Edited by ambermink on 07/23/2017 11:12 PM

I've been without a woman
so many years that I don't
even want one anymore.

Yes I have given up. At my age it is no big deal. I was married over 30 years and my wife died of cancer.

The younger ones are insane.

The middle age females are mostly prescription drug junkies

The older women have way too much baggage for me to deal with.

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I'm a married 40 year old male. Met a 23 year old girl in a chat room who lives 15 minutes from me. She wants me to bang her so hard. Always sending me pics and videos where she's moaning my name. I won't touch her cause I won't cheat. But it's pretty entertaining.

Get out there Chad. You can find one like her.

I'm in the same boat. I window shop on the dating sites, but haven't found anything that makes me want to get back into the dating game.

Gave up yrs ago. Although when I visit Russia I have a feeling Ill be bringing a woman back with me. :)

The fact that you're thinking about household income and marriage and then having kids place you light years ahead of your carefree irresponsible peers! I'd bet women are so sick of the Mr. Feels.

:3pepe:

looking for love in all the wrong places
no fine gals
just ugly faces



why not just
bust a move

I don't care about ethnicity. As long as he has great values and earn enough to take care of a family.

You will.

I am married but it's pretty much on the rocks. I'm just sticking it out for the kids right now. If and when I become single again - I will remain so. After dealing with all the bullshit of the institution they call marriage it's a real downer to consider getting tied down again. Young people are wise to flip their fingers at the Old custom that no longer works.

i came to the conclusion monogamous relationships just dont make any sense. men and women are to different.

i have given up on finding a mate. so many women are stuck to the old way of doing things which never worked for anyone.

I'm okay lol

TATS !

As an old woman I have observed this. Went to dinner and a young couple were on what looked like a first date. The young man was clearly not the center of attention. She kept looking at her cellphone and texting. I made eye contact with the young man and slightly shook my head no. I hope he didn't ask her out again. What was she doing? Just looking for a free meal I guess.

I need a girl. Because when I get bored I put on my golf spiked shoes, strip her naked then kick her around the fucking house. The dog starts barking... he likes it. She screams and tries to get away but I push her down the fucking steps into the sound proof basement. Sometimes I pick up a baseball bat and whack her in the fucking knee so she don't run so fast. I tie her to the iron post in the basement. Then I call weatherman Frankie MacDonald to come over and fuck her as I record it and laugh. I tell Frankie to yell... "MY VERY OWN TV STATION IN SYDNEY NOVA SCOTIA ... THE PERV CHANNEL".... oh we have fun in my house.