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| Jough-Henery
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 71285126  United Arab Emirates05/31/2018 08:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Take a month or 3 off. Get your head straight. If a nice girl comes along, then go for it...but don't bother looking for a while. Best thing you can do for yourself! And as far as seeing your ex's family members...say "Hi, things are good" and walk away...you owe them nothing! |
| Jough-Henery
(OP) User ID: 63890815 United States05/31/2018 08:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Take a month or 3 off. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71285126 Get your head straight. If a nice girl comes along, then go for it...but don't bother looking for a while. Best thing you can do for yourself! And as far as seeing your ex's family members...say "Hi, things are good" and walk away...you owe them nothing! I could use some time off. I’ve only had 2 days off this year... *INTJ* If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? Who keeps leaving egg related karma?? Why? |
| Mollzyie
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| tiger1
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| Jough-Henery
(OP) User ID: 63890815 United States05/31/2018 09:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well atleast you have options . is it completely over w ex wife ? No chance at all of reconciliation? ... if not . Maybe it's time to move . Get off Facebook go hermit mode . Quoting: Mollzyie Yes, divorced for a year. No contact at all. Only used FB for a few months about 5 years ago. Haven’t used it since. I say to myself, “I need to move” a lot now, but I’m not sure why the push, everything seems ok, just not feeling settled anymore. I know this isn’t the best place to air my laundry, but the anonymity helps give honest accounts, and helps to receive honest feed back. *INTJ* If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? Who keeps leaving egg related karma?? Why? |
| Jough-Henery
(OP) User ID: 63890815 United States05/31/2018 09:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Their choice. They didn’t want to be around me anymore. They didn’t want to do the 50/50 visiting time. Divorce is hard on everyone, but my kids were old enough to make their own choice, which is no more Dad. They live around the corner, it would take 2 minutes to walk here. Mom is the fun mom. She lets them drink on the weekend, smoke pot, and my 15yo had a pregnancy scare. *INTJ* If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? Who keeps leaving egg related karma?? Why? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 76626284  Canada05/31/2018 09:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I’m at a lull. Divorced over a year, married 15, haven’t seen my kids in over a year. Tried dating, every chicky is either on mental drugs or should be. Just spent the weekend with a girl who didn’t “click”, so I told her it ain’t gonna happen, and she lost her mind. Saw her today with the ex who beat her and she spent 2 days complaining about. Quoting: Jough-Henery I’m 35, got about 10k in my 401k. I can grab 5k if I stay with my company, or take it all if I leave. Been with the company 12 years, but I’m almost sick of it. I might be able to stay in the company, and move to a new location... should maybe get promoted in July, but my company is so dicked, might be better to not take it... I’m sick of seeing my ex wife’s family everywhere I go. Sick of seeing women I’ve tried to talk with, that either I’ve rejected or they rejected me. I have plenty of hobbies, things to do, but I don’t know if I should stay here any longer. I can’t keep seeing all these people I don’t want to see. Don’t know if I should get a girlfriend, or go hermit mode. Don’t know if I should keep my job, or go find a new one. I have nothing but options, but I don’t know what I should do. GLP is the best place to ask this, because the answers are no-holds-bar honest. If anyone of you knew me, the real me, you’d see why me having an adbundance of choices that I can’t predict the outcome would stall my decision making process. What say you? Ever try living off the grid, in a van? No what its like to cook liver and onions in a van? Know what the smell is like? Gets into everything! Your clothes will be ruined and you'll be trying to sleep and all you can smell and think about is liver and onions! . |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 76426692 United States05/31/2018 09:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Cleolotus
User ID: 76608809  Australia05/31/2018 09:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Take a month or 3 off. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71285126 Get your head straight. If a nice girl comes along, then go for it...but don't bother looking for a while. Best thing you can do for yourself! And as far as seeing your ex's family members...say "Hi, things are good" and walk away...you owe them nothing! I could use some time off. I’ve only had 2 days off this year... Do this, you sound burnt out. Go on a Cruise or on a trip far away from your home town so you can decompress, reflect and think through your options. |
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| OU8122
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| Jough-Henery
(OP) User ID: 63890815 United States05/31/2018 09:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 12 yrs and only 10 k in the 401? no security in that sir, your ex had to find solace in fantasy land. Quoting: Sneaker The ex-wife took 20k from the 401k Pretty cool huh? *INTJ* If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? Who keeps leaving egg related karma?? Why? |
| Jough-Henery
(OP) User ID: 63890815 United States05/31/2018 09:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 12 yrs and only 10 k in the 401? no security in that sir, your ex had to find solace in fantasy land. Quoting: Sneaker My ex had spending problems, amount other things. I make between 72k and 80k, depending on the year. *INTJ* If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? Who keeps leaving egg related karma?? Why? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 76522182 United States05/31/2018 09:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Jough-Henery
(OP) User ID: 63890815 United States05/31/2018 09:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 12 yrs and only 10 k in the 401? no security in that sir, your ex had to find solace in fantasy land. Quoting: Sneaker My ex had spending problems, amount other things. I make between 72k and 80k, depending on the year. men earn, women spend, that is what we do, no problem. Yeah, it was all good. Gave me purpose, I liked to spoil her and have her brag that she could buy what she did. Saying she had spending problems over exaggerates that issue, and I’m not here to paint my ex in a bad light. *INTJ* If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? Who keeps leaving egg related karma?? Why? |
| Jough-Henery
(OP) User ID: 63890815 United States05/31/2018 09:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Take a month or 3 off. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71285126 Get your head straight. If a nice girl comes along, then go for it...but don't bother looking for a while. Best thing you can do for yourself! And as far as seeing your ex's family members...say "Hi, things are good" and walk away...you owe them nothing! I could use some time off. I’ve only had 2 days off this year... Do this, you sound burnt out. Go on a Cruise or on a trip far away from your home town so you can decompress, reflect and think through your options. Yeah, maybe I am. I have a bad habit of working harder when I feel burnt out. *INTJ* If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? Who keeps leaving egg related karma?? Why? |
| tiger1
User ID: 19262565 United States05/31/2018 09:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Their choice. They didn’t want to be around me anymore. They didn’t want to do the 50/50 visiting time. Divorce is hard on everyone, but my kids were old enough to make their own choice, which is no more Dad. They live around the corner, it would take 2 minutes to walk here. Mom is the fun mom. She lets them drink on the weekend, smoke pot, and my 15yo had a pregnancy scare. You can stop this, and it is your responsibility to do so, for your children's sake.How old are they? Praise God from Whom all Blessings flow !!! |
| Jough-Henery
(OP) User ID: 63890815 United States05/31/2018 09:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Their choice. They didn’t want to be around me anymore. They didn’t want to do the 50/50 visiting time. Divorce is hard on everyone, but my kids were old enough to make their own choice, which is no more Dad. They live around the corner, it would take 2 minutes to walk here. Mom is the fun mom. She lets them drink on the weekend, smoke pot, and my 15yo had a pregnancy scare. You can stop this, and it is your responsibility to do so, for your children's sake.How old are they? 16 and 14 *INTJ* If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? Who keeps leaving egg related karma?? Why? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 76587002 United States05/31/2018 09:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I’m at a lull. Divorced over a year, married 15, haven’t seen my kids in over a year. Tried dating, every chicky is either on mental drugs or should be. Just spent the weekend with a girl who didn’t “click”, so I told her it ain’t gonna happen, and she lost her mind. Saw her today with the ex who beat her and she spent 2 days complaining about. Quoting: Jough-Henery I’m 35, got about 10k in my 401k. I can grab 5k if I stay with my company, or take it all if I leave. Been with the company 12 years, but I’m almost sick of it. I might be able to stay in the company, and move to a new location... should maybe get promoted in July, but my company is so dicked, might be better to not take it... I’m sick of seeing my ex wife’s family everywhere I go. Sick of seeing women I’ve tried to talk with, that either I’ve rejected or they rejected me. I have plenty of hobbies, things to do, but I don’t know if I should stay here any longer. I can’t keep seeing all these people I don’t want to see. Don’t know if I should get a girlfriend, or go hermit mode. Don’t know if I should keep my job, or go find a new one. I have nothing but options, but I don’t know what I should do. GLP is the best place to ask this, because the answers are no-holds-bar honest. If anyone of you knew me, the real me, you’d see why me having an adbundance of choices that I can’t predict the outcome would stall my decision making process. What say you? Move far away from the Toxic woman. move far awat and dont leave a contact number. Been their and done that, Get away. |
| BrokenTech
User ID: 74885369 United States05/31/2018 09:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I’m at a lull. Divorced over a year, married 15, haven’t seen my kids in over a year. Tried dating, every chicky is either on mental drugs or should be. Just spent the weekend with a girl who didn’t “click”, so I told her it ain’t gonna happen, and she lost her mind. Saw her today with the ex who beat her and she spent 2 days complaining about. Quoting: Jough-Henery I’m 35, got about 10k in my 401k. I can grab 5k if I stay with my company, or take it all if I leave. Been with the company 12 years, but I’m almost sick of it. I might be able to stay in the company, and move to a new location... should maybe get promoted in July, but my company is so dicked, might be better to not take it... I’m sick of seeing my ex wife’s family everywhere I go. Sick of seeing women I’ve tried to talk with, that either I’ve rejected or they rejected me. I have plenty of hobbies, things to do, but I don’t know if I should stay here any longer. I can’t keep seeing all these people I don’t want to see. Don’t know if I should get a girlfriend, or go hermit mode. Don’t know if I should keep my job, or go find a new one. I have nothing but options, but I don’t know what I should do. GLP is the best place to ask this, because the answers are no-holds-bar honest. If anyone of you knew me, the real me, you’d see why me having an adbundance of choices that I can’t predict the outcome would stall my decision making process. What say you? Your post has some clues, and it seems you habitually make bad decisions. At first glance, it seems you might be your own worst enemy. This is just my first impression from your statement. Last Edited by BrokenTech on 05/31/2018 09:48 PM |
| Festus Hoggbottom
User ID: 72217239 United States05/31/2018 09:50 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 12 yrs and only 10 k in the 401? no security in that sir, your ex had to find solace in fantasy land. Quoting: Sneaker My ex had spending problems, amount other things. I make between 72k and 80k, depending on the year. men earn, women spend, that is what we do, no problem. You realize that's just prostitution, right? I did it. I did it on purpose. And I'll do it again. |
| Jough-Henery
(OP) User ID: 63890815 United States05/31/2018 09:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I’m at a lull. Divorced over a year, married 15, haven’t seen my kids in over a year. Tried dating, every chicky is either on mental drugs or should be. Just spent the weekend with a girl who didn’t “click”, so I told her it ain’t gonna happen, and she lost her mind. Saw her today with the ex who beat her and she spent 2 days complaining about. Quoting: Jough-Henery I’m 35, got about 10k in my 401k. I can grab 5k if I stay with my company, or take it all if I leave. Been with the company 12 years, but I’m almost sick of it. I might be able to stay in the company, and move to a new location... should maybe get promoted in July, but my company is so dicked, might be better to not take it... I’m sick of seeing my ex wife’s family everywhere I go. Sick of seeing women I’ve tried to talk with, that either I’ve rejected or they rejected me. I have plenty of hobbies, things to do, but I don’t know if I should stay here any longer. I can’t keep seeing all these people I don’t want to see. Don’t know if I should get a girlfriend, or go hermit mode. Don’t know if I should keep my job, or go find a new one. I have nothing but options, but I don’t know what I should do. GLP is the best place to ask this, because the answers are no-holds-bar honest. If anyone of you knew me, the real me, you’d see why me having an adbundance of choices that I can’t predict the outcome would stall my decision making process. What say you? Your post has some clues, and it seems you habitually make bad decisions. At first glance, it seems you might be your own worst enemy. This is just my first impression from your statement. Never had someone say I was my own worst enemy before now. I googled it up, trying to be objective, and nothing I found lead me to think I’m my own worst enemy. Further, not sure how you got that I habitually make bad decisions, but I’ll admit I can struggle with seeing myself objectively, so, don’t hold back. *INTJ* If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? Who keeps leaving egg related karma?? Why? |
| PugTard
Thread Thrasher User ID: 75682742 United States05/31/2018 10:38 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I’m at a lull. Divorced over a year, married 15, haven’t seen my kids in over a year. Tried dating, every chicky is either on mental drugs or should be. Just spent the weekend with a girl who didn’t “click”, so I told her it ain’t gonna happen, and she lost her mind. Saw her today with the ex who beat her and she spent 2 days complaining about. Quoting: Jough-Henery I’m 35, got about 10k in my 401k. I can grab 5k if I stay with my company, or take it all if I leave. Been with the company 12 years, but I’m almost sick of it. I might be able to stay in the company, and move to a new location... should maybe get promoted in July, but my company is so dicked, might be better to not take it... I’m sick of seeing my ex wife’s family everywhere I go. Sick of seeing women I’ve tried to talk with, that either I’ve rejected or they rejected me. I have plenty of hobbies, things to do, but I don’t know if I should stay here any longer. I can’t keep seeing all these people I don’t want to see. Don’t know if I should get a girlfriend, or go hermit mode. Don’t know if I should keep my job, or go find a new one. I have nothing but options, but I don’t know what I should do. GLP is the best place to ask this, because the answers are no-holds-bar honest. If anyone of you knew me, the real me, you’d see why me having an adbundance of choices that I can’t predict the outcome would stall my decision making process. What say you? Interesting!! I have a friend who lives on the Island of Cebu, in the Philipines... When I was in your situation, moving there looked quite attractive. My friend has a rental that goes for $300 per month (2 bd 1 bath) and there is a resort town about 8 miles away... Everyone rides scooters there. So, I could picture myself living in this very affordable villa and mixing it up with the natives and having a great time... but I was too old for that and had a gaggle of daughters that I needed to sttend to and so.. didn't go... but just maybe.. YOU SHOULD!!! Are we there yet? "So if we don't get some cool rules ourselves, pronto, we'll just be bogus too" Jeff Spicoli "Don't take any wooden nickels" Pugtard |
| Jough-Henery
(OP) User ID: 63890815 United States05/31/2018 10:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I’m at a lull. Divorced over a year, married 15, haven’t seen my kids in over a year. Tried dating, every chicky is either on mental drugs or should be. Just spent the weekend with a girl who didn’t “click”, so I told her it ain’t gonna happen, and she lost her mind. Saw her today with the ex who beat her and she spent 2 days complaining about. Quoting: Jough-Henery I’m 35, got about 10k in my 401k. I can grab 5k if I stay with my company, or take it all if I leave. Been with the company 12 years, but I’m almost sick of it. I might be able to stay in the company, and move to a new location... should maybe get promoted in July, but my company is so dicked, might be better to not take it... I’m sick of seeing my ex wife’s family everywhere I go. Sick of seeing women I’ve tried to talk with, that either I’ve rejected or they rejected me. I have plenty of hobbies, things to do, but I don’t know if I should stay here any longer. I can’t keep seeing all these people I don’t want to see. Don’t know if I should get a girlfriend, or go hermit mode. Don’t know if I should keep my job, or go find a new one. I have nothing but options, but I don’t know what I should do. GLP is the best place to ask this, because the answers are no-holds-bar honest. If anyone of you knew me, the real me, you’d see why me having an adbundance of choices that I can’t predict the outcome would stall my decision making process. What say you? Interesting!! I have a friend who lives on the Island of Cebu, in the Philipines... When I was in your situation, moving there looked quite attractive. My friend has a rental that goes for $300 per month (2 bd 1 bath) and there is a resort town about 8 miles away... Everyone rides scooters there. So, I could picture myself living in this very affordable villa and mixing it up with the natives and having a great time... but I was too old for that and had a gaggle of daughters that I needed to sttend to and so.. didn't go... but just maybe.. YOU SHOULD!!! Someone posted a link to a companies website on this thread. It got deleted, so I guess it was ok to post, so I won’t mention anything about it. I applied for a job there, and it’s far away. Something needs to change, and I said I’d take the best advice. I’ll give myself until the end of July at my current job, if nothing changes there, I’ll do the changing. *INTJ* If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? Who keeps leaving egg related karma?? Why? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 76636260 United Arab Emirates05/31/2018 10:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I said take a month or 3 off...I meant from women...from dating. Get your head straight. You have nothing to offer a girl when you're all busted up & confused about the torment of your last relationship. It's NOT selfish to think about yourself once in a while! |
| Jough-Henery
(OP) User ID: 63890815 United States05/31/2018 11:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I said take a month or 3 off...I meant from women...from dating. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76636260 Get your head straight. You have nothing to offer a girl when you're all busted up & confused about the torment of your last relationship. It's NOT selfish to think about yourself once in a while! Oh, gotcha. That’s good advice. Best in the thread, I’ll take it :) *INTJ* If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? Who keeps leaving egg related karma?? Why? |
