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new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"

 
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new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
Do you remember when you were young (I guess for those 40+) and someone would tease the big kid for being dumb? Then the big kid would punch the teasing brainy kid and the brainy kid never teased the big kid again?

now that the dumb kid is no longer allowed to defend himself from intellectual bullying, because he was declared the one and only bully, the bullying has gone to new levels that are fucking absurd.

I'm volunteering at my local school and have seen some of the smart kids whispering horrible fucking stuff. Pushing buttons to escalate shit to new levels.

Then the kid being bullied by words finally has enough and hits the smart kid.

Admit it, you kind of agree with the physical response, yes? Sure, it's a wrong response, but the reason is this...

I've seen adults ignore the whispered taunts. I've seen those adults jump all over the kid who hits the whisperer for doing the hitting.

Then the kid being intellectually or emotionally bullied feels alone, isolated and has no one to turn to... so the situation gets worse.

Maybe allowing a little bit of hitting might be a good thing? Because the "whisper bully" -- TO ME -- is way fucking worse than the guy who occasionally responds with force.

Sorry, not 100% sure where I'm going with this. I guess...

if you're an adult who watches kids, maybe, just maybe, stop and listen to the kid who did the hitting. Maybe if you took their "side" just a little and told the "whisper bully" to shut the fuck up, everything might be a little better.

I know this is difficult because I have seen first hand that the whisper bully is polite and charismatic with the adults, so the adults have a hard time believing that the whisper bully is actually the instigator. While the one doing the hitting is so fucking flustered that he cannot explain all the little taunts that lead up to the hitting.

maybe hitting is wrong, but ignoring all the shit that lead up to it is also wrong.

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I want to buy you a beer
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
I want to buy you a beer
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Lol, thanks!
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i hate collective bullying in safe places
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bully me outside of your safe space
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i hate collective bullying in safe places
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Yes. I've seen this too. It's very frustrating
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Double post

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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
I think there needs to be a lot more violence across the board.

Kids are supposed to beat the shit out of each other and establish their pecking order before they are big enough to actually harm each other.
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stop asking for dick pics man

edit lol

j/k it happens a lot, why you need to hear both sides of the story
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
I think there needs to be a lot more violence across the board.

Kids are supposed to beat the shit out of each other and establish their pecking order before they are big enough to actually harm each other.
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^^^^^THIS^^^^^
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
Do you remember when you were young (I guess for those 40+) and someone would tease the big kid for being dumb? Then the big kid would punch the teasing brainy kid and the brainy kid never teased the big kid again?

now that the dumb kid is no longer allowed to defend himself from intellectual bullying, because he was declared the one and only bully, the bullying has gone to new levels that are fucking absurd.

I'm volunteering at my local school and have seen some of the smart kids whispering horrible fucking stuff. Pushing buttons to escalate shit to new levels.

Then the kid being bullied by words finally has enough and hits the smart kid.

Admit it, you kind of agree with the physical response, yes? Sure, it's a wrong response, but the reason is this...

I've seen adults ignore the whispered taunts. I've seen those adults jump all over the kid who hits the whisperer for doing the hitting.

Then the kid being intellectually or emotionally bullied feels alone, isolated and has no one to turn to... so the situation gets worse.

Maybe allowing a little bit of hitting might be a good thing? Because the "whisper bully" -- TO ME -- is way fucking worse than the guy who occasionally responds with force.

Sorry, not 100% sure where I'm going with this. I guess...

if you're an adult who watches kids, maybe, just maybe, stop and listen to the kid who did the hitting. Maybe if you took their "side" just a little and told the "whisper bully" to shut the fuck up, everything might be a little better.

I know this is difficult because I have seen first hand that the whisper bully is polite and charismatic with the adults, so the adults have a hard time believing that the whisper bully is actually the instigator. While the one doing the hitting is so fucking flustered that he cannot explain all the little taunts that lead up to the hitting.

maybe hitting is wrong, but ignoring all the shit that lead up to it is also wrong.
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I know a lot of adults like that, in fact, I am surrounded by them. It's a narcissistic trait.
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
There is no bullying worse than the whisper. It has always existed, especially in the work environment. When the victim perceives it, paranoia overpowers him. Because no one confirms, and the individual begins to enter into a state of madness for not knowing if he or she has heard such a thing or not.
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
This is by no means new.
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
I know a lot of adults like that, in fact, I am surrounded by them. It's a narcissistic trait.
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share your story!

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They were so mean, lazy and entitled. They used to say the most passive-aggressive shit.
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
Gimme a break.
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
There is no bullying worse than the whisper. It has always existed, especially in the work environment. When the victim perceives it, paranoia overpowers him. Because no one confirms, and the individual begins to enter into a state of madness for not knowing if he or she has heard such a thing or not.
 Quoting: Drkzyx


well, in these many cases, the child knows exactly who said what. So it's not any kind of gas-lighting that I'm refering to.

The problem is, all the other adults in the school don't recognize it and the kid being bullied isn't allowed to defend himself and is further isolated by the adults who don't acknowledge it.

I had half a dozen fifth graders thank me today when I said some of their classmates were really mean. Just acknowledging the fact this happens seems to validate and calm some of the kids down.
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
Gimme a break.
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how so?
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
Gimme a break.
 Quoting: wtf richard


how so?
 Quoting: Sterling Malory Archer


That's not bullying. I got daily beatings when I was a kid. Sticks and stones.. lol.
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
So who's going to be the Bully Whisperer?
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
Do you remember when you were young (I guess for those 40+) and someone would tease the big kid for being dumb? Then the big kid would punch the teasing brainy kid and the brainy kid never teased the big kid again?

now that the dumb kid is no longer allowed to defend himself from intellectual bullying, because he was declared the one and only bully, the bullying has gone to new levels that are fucking absurd.

I'm volunteering at my local school and have seen some of the smart kids whispering horrible fucking stuff. Pushing buttons to escalate shit to new levels.

Then the kid being bullied by words finally has enough and hits the smart kid.

Admit it, you kind of agree with the physical response, yes? Sure, it's a wrong response, but the reason is this...

I've seen adults ignore the whispered taunts. I've seen those adults jump all over the kid who hits the whisperer for doing the hitting.

Then the kid being intellectually or emotionally bullied feels alone, isolated and has no one to turn to... so the situation gets worse.

Maybe allowing a little bit of hitting might be a good thing? Because the "whisper bully" -- TO ME -- is way fucking worse than the guy who occasionally responds with force.

Sorry, not 100% sure where I'm going with this. I guess...

if you're an adult who watches kids, maybe, just maybe, stop and listen to the kid who did the hitting. Maybe if you took their "side" just a little and told the "whisper bully" to shut the fuck up, everything might be a little better.

I know this is difficult because I have seen first hand that the whisper bully is polite and charismatic with the adults, so the adults have a hard time believing that the whisper bully is actually the instigator. While the one doing the hitting is so fucking flustered that he cannot explain all the little taunts that lead up to the hitting.

maybe hitting is wrong, but ignoring all the shit that lead up to it is also wrong.
 Quoting: Sterling Malory Archer

Its like gang stalking on the net, the third party does the bullying via inuendo or lays bait, then the victim becomes aggresive and lashes out just to be banned by mods.
No one finds out, the culprits goes unpunished and finds another victim.
This is also on par with gas lighting and in severe cases leads to the victim having the "Stokholm Syndrome" and tries to cozy up and join the advesaries to "join their gang"
People like this only learn if the table is turned..
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I want to buy you a beer
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This. I got a 12 pack for ya lol

I beat the fuck out of people in highschool. It made me more respected IMO. People need to be put in their place sometimes! I always fought for others though. Helps when your dad is in the UFC and a martial arts expert.
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Gimme a break.
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with a kit kat bar?
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Another wonderful poison mmmmmmmmmm
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
I hate bullies...and if they are taunting then they were offering themselves to a punch in retribution, in my opinion.

As an aside the title of this thread made me think of my older brother that teased my little brother when they were little and shared a bedroom...I could hear my older brother whispering to my little brother.."big fat pig" and the little brother SCREAMING..."I am not"


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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
I think there needs to be a lot more violence across the board.

Kids are supposed to beat the shit out of each other and establish their pecking order before they are big enough to actually harm each other.
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Older siblings have been known to do this to the younger siblings, and then the younger one gets in trouble for screaming and freaking out, and the older one sits there all innocent looking. Usually happens in the back seat of the car.
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
stop asking for dick pics man

edit lol

j/k it happens a lot, why you need to hear both sides of the story
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So you're the dick pic karma guy, eh?
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
I hate bullies...and if they are taunting then they were offering themselves to a punch in retribution, in my opinion.
 Quoting: InTune4529


yes, but... the one doing the hitting (defending) is the one getting in trouble. Not really fair, right?
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
Older siblings have been known to do this to the younger siblings, and then the younger one gets in trouble for screaming and freaking out, and the older one sits there all innocent looking. Usually happens in the back seat of the car.
 Quoting: Ladedah


and I have seen the whisper bully smiling while the punching kid gets yelled at by the adults... which only enrages the punching kid even more, which only upsets the adults even more.
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Re: new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully"
stop asking for dick pics man

edit lol

j/k it happens a lot, why you need to hear both sides of the story
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So you're the dick pic karma guy, eh?
 Quoting: Boaty


yeah, I was wondering about that.





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