new kinds of bullying by children... the "whisper bully" | |
Iknowhim
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Sterling Malory Archer
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^Mutariel^
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^Mutariel^
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Sterling Malory Archer
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Sterling Malory Archer
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BiblioPhile
User ID: 70897929 United States 08/29/2018 07:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think there needs to be a lot more violence across the board. Quoting: Evil_Twin Kids are supposed to beat the shit out of each other and establish their pecking order before they are big enough to actually harm each other. ^^^^^THIS^^^^^ "Be wary of mathematiciens, particularly when they speak the truth." - Augustine |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76145571 United States 08/29/2018 07:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do you remember when you were young (I guess for those 40+) and someone would tease the big kid for being dumb? Then the big kid would punch the teasing brainy kid and the brainy kid never teased the big kid again? Quoting: Sterling Malory Archer now that the dumb kid is no longer allowed to defend himself from intellectual bullying, because he was declared the one and only bully, the bullying has gone to new levels that are fucking absurd. I'm volunteering at my local school and have seen some of the smart kids whispering horrible fucking stuff. Pushing buttons to escalate shit to new levels. Then the kid being bullied by words finally has enough and hits the smart kid. Admit it, you kind of agree with the physical response, yes? Sure, it's a wrong response, but the reason is this... I've seen adults ignore the whispered taunts. I've seen those adults jump all over the kid who hits the whisperer for doing the hitting. Then the kid being intellectually or emotionally bullied feels alone, isolated and has no one to turn to... so the situation gets worse. Maybe allowing a little bit of hitting might be a good thing? Because the "whisper bully" -- TO ME -- is way fucking worse than the guy who occasionally responds with force. Sorry, not 100% sure where I'm going with this. I guess... if you're an adult who watches kids, maybe, just maybe, stop and listen to the kid who did the hitting. Maybe if you took their "side" just a little and told the "whisper bully" to shut the fuck up, everything might be a little better. I know this is difficult because I have seen first hand that the whisper bully is polite and charismatic with the adults, so the adults have a hard time believing that the whisper bully is actually the instigator. While the one doing the hitting is so fucking flustered that he cannot explain all the little taunts that lead up to the hitting. maybe hitting is wrong, but ignoring all the shit that lead up to it is also wrong. I know a lot of adults like that, in fact, I am surrounded by them. It's a narcissistic trait. |
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Drkzyx
User ID: 76880082 Brazil 08/29/2018 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There is no bullying worse than the whisper. It has always existed, especially in the work environment. When the victim perceives it, paranoia overpowers him. Because no one confirms, and the individual begins to enter into a state of madness for not knowing if he or she has heard such a thing or not. We are one, divided and isolated from each other and yet acting together with one another. |
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Sterling Malory Archer
(OP) User ID: 75219378 United States 08/29/2018 08:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know a lot of adults like that, in fact, I am surrounded by them. It's a narcissistic trait. Quoting: sseess share your story! My last job was at a company of about 60 people. Half were extended family of the five primary brothers and sister owners. They were so mean, lazy and entitled. They used to say the most passive-aggressive shit. |
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Sterling Malory Archer
(OP) User ID: 75219378 United States 08/29/2018 08:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There is no bullying worse than the whisper. It has always existed, especially in the work environment. When the victim perceives it, paranoia overpowers him. Because no one confirms, and the individual begins to enter into a state of madness for not knowing if he or she has heard such a thing or not. Quoting: Drkzyx well, in these many cases, the child knows exactly who said what. So it's not any kind of gas-lighting that I'm refering to. The problem is, all the other adults in the school don't recognize it and the kid being bullied isn't allowed to defend himself and is further isolated by the adults who don't acknowledge it. I had half a dozen fifth graders thank me today when I said some of their classmates were really mean. Just acknowledging the fact this happens seems to validate and calm some of the kids down. |
Sterling Malory Archer
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Mkitrik
User ID: 18390607 Denmark 08/29/2018 08:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do you remember when you were young (I guess for those 40+) and someone would tease the big kid for being dumb? Then the big kid would punch the teasing brainy kid and the brainy kid never teased the big kid again? Quoting: Sterling Malory Archer now that the dumb kid is no longer allowed to defend himself from intellectual bullying, because he was declared the one and only bully, the bullying has gone to new levels that are fucking absurd. I'm volunteering at my local school and have seen some of the smart kids whispering horrible fucking stuff. Pushing buttons to escalate shit to new levels. Then the kid being bullied by words finally has enough and hits the smart kid. Admit it, you kind of agree with the physical response, yes? Sure, it's a wrong response, but the reason is this... I've seen adults ignore the whispered taunts. I've seen those adults jump all over the kid who hits the whisperer for doing the hitting. Then the kid being intellectually or emotionally bullied feels alone, isolated and has no one to turn to... so the situation gets worse. Maybe allowing a little bit of hitting might be a good thing? Because the "whisper bully" -- TO ME -- is way fucking worse than the guy who occasionally responds with force. Sorry, not 100% sure where I'm going with this. I guess... if you're an adult who watches kids, maybe, just maybe, stop and listen to the kid who did the hitting. Maybe if you took their "side" just a little and told the "whisper bully" to shut the fuck up, everything might be a little better. I know this is difficult because I have seen first hand that the whisper bully is polite and charismatic with the adults, so the adults have a hard time believing that the whisper bully is actually the instigator. While the one doing the hitting is so fucking flustered that he cannot explain all the little taunts that lead up to the hitting. maybe hitting is wrong, but ignoring all the shit that lead up to it is also wrong. Its like gang stalking on the net, the third party does the bullying via inuendo or lays bait, then the victim becomes aggresive and lashes out just to be banned by mods. No one finds out, the culprits goes unpunished and finds another victim. This is also on par with gas lighting and in severe cases leads to the victim having the "Stokholm Syndrome" and tries to cozy up and join the advesaries to "join their gang" People like this only learn if the table is turned.. Endless changing moniker is static. |
The Deplorable >LSDMTHC<
User ID: 73986972 United States 08/29/2018 08:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This. I got a 12 pack for ya lol I beat the fuck out of people in highschool. It made me more respected IMO. People need to be put in their place sometimes! I always fought for others though. Helps when your dad is in the UFC and a martial arts expert. Floridian. Christian, Father, Hard worker and a millenial. Fuck Big Pharma! Don’t be a pussy, if you leave red at least leave your name. I can’t guarantee I’ll be alive come this time next year… |
The Deplorable >LSDMTHC<
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InTune4529
User ID: 76801662 United States 08/29/2018 08:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I hate bullies...and if they are taunting then they were offering themselves to a punch in retribution, in my opinion. As an aside the title of this thread made me think of my older brother that teased my little brother when they were little and shared a bedroom...I could hear my older brother whispering to my little brother.."big fat pig" and the little brother SCREAMING..."I am not" |
Loup Garou
User ID: 75575694 United States 08/29/2018 08:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think there needs to be a lot more violence across the board. Quoting: Evil_Twin Kids are supposed to beat the shit out of each other and establish their pecking order before they are big enough to actually harm each other. Why is this happening? Because those who wish to topple These United States of America are following their play book to the letter. News Flash>>>> Communism always fails, it simply can't stand because people who embrace it are weaklings who's only sustenance comes by way of theft from the hard work and sweat of another's brow. May 1919, in Dusseldorf, Germany, the Allied Forces obtained a copy of the “Communist Rules for Revolution.” A. Corrupt the young: get them away from religion. Get them interested in sex. Make them superficial; destroy their ruggedness. B. Get control of all means of publicity thereby: 1. Get peoples’ minds off their government by focusing their attention on athletics, sexy books, plays and other trivialities. 2. Divide people into hostile groups by constantly harping on controversial matters of no importance. 3. Destroy the peoples’ faith in their natural leaders by holding the latter up to contempt, ridicule and obloquy. (speak against, condemnatory utterances) 4. Always preach true democracy; but seize power as fast and as ruthlessly as possible. 5. By encouraging government extravagance, destroy its credit; produce fear of inflation, rising prices and general discontent. 6. Foment unnecessary strikes in vital industries; encourage civil disorders and foster a lenient and soft attitude on the part of government toward these disorders. 7. By special argument cause a breakdown of the old moral virtues; honesty, sobriety, continence, faith in the pledged word, ruggedness. C. Cause the registration of all firearms on some pretext with a view of confiscation of them and leaving the population helpless. -------------------------------- Just because YOU don’t believe in the Rougarou; or the Loup Garou, don’t make you safe; No ! The Constitution is a blend of 'moral certitude' -- which is one of the reasons that criminals are determined to be rid of it and We the People must be even more determined to defend it. "If there must be trouble, let it be in my day, that my child may have peace." - Thomas Paine The only thing the Illuminati fears is an independent person who can live, eat, sleep, stay warm and defend themselves separate from Federal help. Pray that the Lord gives us more time! The End is near and time is short! A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion. ~Proverbs 18:2 For those who understand, no explanation is needed. For those who do not understand, no explanation is possible "A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle" - James Keller Checkd, Keked, and Rekt! #Kids2 |
Ladedah
User ID: 75974990 United States 08/29/2018 08:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Older siblings have been known to do this to the younger siblings, and then the younger one gets in trouble for screaming and freaking out, and the older one sits there all innocent looking. Usually happens in the back seat of the car. As you think. |
Boaty
User ID: 75138722 United States 08/29/2018 08:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | stop asking for dick pics man Quoting: Denholm edit lol j/k it happens a lot, why you need to hear both sides of the story So you're the dick pic karma guy, eh? ```````````````` ````__/\__`````` ~~~\____/~~~~ .~~..~~~....~~~ ~..~~~....~~~~ Thoughts do not come from you nor God; you do not create thoughts; you are not your thoughts; every thought is a lie. - 2 Corinthians 10:5 - [link to www.biblegateway.com (secure)] |
Sterling Malory Archer
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Sterling Malory Archer
(OP) User ID: 75219378 United States 08/29/2018 08:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Older siblings have been known to do this to the younger siblings, and then the younger one gets in trouble for screaming and freaking out, and the older one sits there all innocent looking. Usually happens in the back seat of the car. Quoting: Ladedah and I have seen the whisper bully smiling while the punching kid gets yelled at by the adults... which only enrages the punching kid even more, which only upsets the adults even more. |
Sterling Malory Archer
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