Marriage

If you knew a tenth of what went into porn you wouldn't feel so strongly in support. I didn't say anything against masturbation but watching porn is beyond bad for you, body, mind and soul. There's levels of mind control put in there that are beyond messed up.

It also trains you to get off watching other people do it. Which is some limp dick weird shit.

You don't seem too in tune, here's a glimpse of the dangers lurking in the seedier parts of society. Go to www.cia.gov go to the reading room and search Grill Flame. Your research should lead you from there, but once you realize the army proved 'psychic phenomena' is real you won't be so willing to link your psyche up to anything that comes your way.

The CEO's of porn companies also hate you down to their core. Very bad people in that business.

Edit: tablet typos. Oh also not to mention jerking it to porn is a collosal waste of your time.

Marriages fail these days because people are lazy, or made bad decisions of making promises to someone before they knew themselves enough to carry out their promises. For some odd reason, people think once they get married, all their problems disappear. But, it's quite the opposite. Marriage is hard work, it's about compromises on both ends. It's not for the selfish and it takes real love to make it work. If you marry someone you don't really love, it will never work out

Not everyone Leaves. Often I wonder if I’m doing the right thing by staying. I made a commitment for lots of reasons. It’s hard to just throw it all out even if it isn’t exactly always feeling like the right thing.

I appreciate your response and yes you have a very good argument. I am a firm believer in everything in moderation is OK.. (except adultry murder and rape)

You seem like a kind person and i would definitely have a beer with you. (If you drink) I guess what I am trying to say is we live in a different time then we did 20 years ago or 50 years ago and me being a young lad we have to change and adopt to other meaningful changes that pushes us into the next age. The church has been controlling people since christ has died. Why cant we be as him? He was never married but had children with Mary. He was an outcast crucified. (Which I will be after this post) I personally think jesus wanted us (men)to be in his image an alpha male that took care of his flock. That's all I want to be. Just my opinion.

Marriage is hard. It's not easy and wont be. All you need is to get up every day and make an effort. Be a great father, support your kids dont just give them money but show them how to make money as jesus showed us to provide for ourselves. We dont have to be a religious nazi to figure out the lessons the bible was teaching us. My father didn't go to church but I will tell you he is closest to god then I ever seen or read about. You dont have to go to a church to do the RIGHT thing.

Wow. People need to be careful and process things in a healthier manner.

Judgement and hate aren't a good combo. Some even say,'what you hate you become'. Instead of judging others, work on yourself. I know when I started doing that, I realized I have a lot of room for improvement. Very humbling.

Yes. Most important advice ever!!!!!

That's only possible with those who have depth of character and convictions about that relationship
and who never bed hopped prior

bed hoppers destroy their ability and the wiring for the imprint

like a duckling that follows the first thing it sees

when you consummate at the burning of the V-Cards this imprinting wires you to that person for life

bed hopping destroys the wiring and prevents imprinting from ever happening

without the imprinting it makes the marriage relationship exponentially more difficult to keep and maintain

there is also the aspect that, what marriage stands for, is an image of and foreshadowing of
means that it is, of all the various forms of human relationships,
it is the most hated and attacked from all angles natural and spiritual

Last Edited by Swirl King on 09/04/2018 02:18 AM

There are many more temptations now then there used to be with the age of technology. Marriage was a bond not just between two people but was also supposed to exempt you from advancement from others. More people then there are now would allow married people to be peaceful with themselves without interference of others. They wanted the same for themselves so it looked at in that way. People suck these days.

8 years strong! I’m glad I got married, beats the single life.

Marriage was created as the basis for family structure.

The Marriage certificate was created as a way to enforce and bind the family together.


Your confusion arises from the feminism movement. It destroyed the family structure. Its mostly because Mothers don't know their place anymore.

2B fair: Nobody Does...

2b Fair we point the finger at the cause, not the effect.

How many is we?

Saturn, Structure-yes it is a construct and it can go well for some & not so for others; i think it is more about family units (power) packs like wolves, swans, etc. (strength, survival) . You ca divorce if you are unhappy

who thinks OP has an agenda here?

Maybe OP got a woman pregnant and she wants to marry?

Maybe OP has been living with a woman who wants to marry?

There was a man up the street from me who was very "enlightened". He felt the institution of marriage was wrong (i forget why). He was very proud of his enlightenment. He told me that these institutions were wrong, that his training showed him a new path.

He told the woman he loved, the woman he had several kids with that he would never get married, but would commit to her for the rest of his life.

Marriage was important to her.

Eventually, they broke up.

If he loved her enough to share everything, why couldn't he just suck it the fuck up and marry her? Why did he care so much about his objection?

She moved an hour away and took the kids. He barely saw them. He got depressed and killed himself.

How's that for enlightenment.

When I was young, I thought marriage was what married couples around me displayed: negative towards each other.
When I was middle-aged, I thought marriage was what I would display around me: stability within the group.
When I was widowed, I believed that marriage was what everyone else wanted from me: identity w the dead.
Now going forward, I believe marriage is what I will display: eternal love.

Maybe he is already married to her in the spiritual realm. Having kids is a greater bond then marriage in my opinion. Marriage is in the physical money power security. Maybe he wasnt there yet physically. You dont know til you ask.

are you talking about OP or the guy in my post?

Guy in the post. I dont get why women jump to conclusions. Ask the right questions not just look for the answer.

The number of people with common sense is dwindling.

I don't have an exact number.

Touche'

Atleast they have common core, no child left behind, and are still allowed to park in their driveways though. ^^/

I don’t need to be told I am loved, I just know by actions — words are not necessary.

Do you really believe woman was created out of Adams rib?

Was “God” Married?

Does “God” have a religion? If so, what religion is it?

What is the the primary reason Men marry? To beget Legal/Legitimated citizens? To engage in Legal sexual Union (or as an allowance to prevent lust from spawning sin)? If one desire sex from ones wife is it not still lust? When did biblically permitted polygamy end? Why was polygamy allowed and not polyandry?

What is it that men are “protecting”women from? Other men?

What are women submitting to? Sex on demand?

Did you know that in the aristocracy a unmarried daughter is the parents greatest asset? Should women submit themselves to arranged marriages?

Do you believe if a married man lusts for another woman he commits adultery with his heart?

Do you believe the government via a legal “contract” has any business in a couples relationship?

Why is it okay for some men to have three or four marriages? Why is it okay for men to cheat on their wives including (plural marriage) but a death sentence for women in the Bible?

Why is it that women are considered the man’s property in the ten commands; Thou shalt not covet thy neighbors ass, House, male or female slave or WIFE?

Just asking because you seem to “know” much.

Forced Consanguineous (first cousin) marriage by meddling parents is also a Jewish tradition and continues today. Where do you think the Muslims inherited the practice from? The British aristocracy also engaged heavily in this practice as Queen Victoria and her both her parents were both married to their first cousins.

“The ultra-Orthodox Jewish woman who hung herself in her family's Brooklyn home on Sunday had suffered from extreme depression brought on in part by being forced to marry her first cousin, a "family insider" tells the NY Post. Sara Mayer, 31, was found dead in her parents' Borough Park home not long after being released from a Staten Island psychiatric center. Her sister, Faigy Mayer, had killed herself in July.

“The family insider tells the Post that Sara Mayer "had a nervous breakdown on the eve of her arranged wedding about five years ago" and had been mentally and physically abused by her relatives her whole life. "[Her suicide] was a family mental-health and abuse issue on top of being forced into marriage with her first cousin,” the source said. "Ever since [her marriage], she has been in and out of mental hospitals."

[link to gothamist.com]

Just touched on the subject in brief responses to your questions.

Read The Bible for yourself and your questions will be answered in greater depth.

The King James Bible can be used for history, science, civilized law, relationships, and moreover it is God’s love letter to us.
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Thank you for your lengthy response. You’re fast! Lol.

I agree with most of what you say but I don’t belive the Adam and Eve story as Literal. I have an entirely different idea about it’s meaning.

One more question— do you believe ve in an eternal “Hell”? And did you know the word Hell was translated from the word Sheol and given an entirely new meaning by early biblical translators? There were about 110 mentions of Hell in the vulgate and there are 54 in the KJV — but it is still a fiction.

Here’s a list of Hell mentions....it seems the KJV is the leader of the leader of the pack on his list.

[link to www.thehypertexts.com]

And what do you make of Deuteronomy 15:6?

Last Edited by Yesterday ~ TODAY ~ Tomorrow on 09/05/2018 08:16 PM

Thank you about being "fast". LOL

Been in ministry for over 20 years, 24/7 in the Word and doing outreach (type about 95 wpm), to The Glory of God, The Father.

I believe in Eternal Lake of Fire as it is written in Revelation 20:15

About Deuteronomy 15:6, The general object of these precepts, is the year of Jubilee and the laws respecting inheritance.

It is put in place prevent the ruin of a person in need, in relation to the families of Israel by the sale of his patrimony (inheritance from one's father or another designated male ancestor).
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Last Edited by Kiss_Your_Illusions_Goodbye on 09/05/2018 08:24 PM

Eh. I was hoping for a good one. Instead I got some hollowed out thing that couldn't be saved. Like when you're a little kid and you go to hug Santa only to find out it's one of those plastic Santas they put out on the lawn.