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The_Meridian
Breshears is Off: Ask Me Why User ID: 76838634 United States 12/20/2018 02:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | lol sounds like you've a victim of expectations. Anyway, how many kids do you have and how old are they? This will be the determining factor in how big of a piece of shit you are. (B)ullshit™ always needs an amplified bullhorn demanding kneeling subservience - or else.- SyncAsFunk The light within me always draws me back to make the dark decision to leave the false counterfeit light. -New Heart |
Drlightshow
User ID: 71986223 United Kingdom 12/20/2018 02:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | lol sounds like you've a victim of expectations. Quoting: The_Meridian Anyway, how many kids do you have and how old are they? This will be the determining factor in how big of a piece of shit you are. Lmao cold For prescriptions [email protected] |
Drlightshow
User ID: 71986223 United Kingdom 12/20/2018 02:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You "might" have to leave her and just make arrangements for kids, why sit in misery, 16 years I'm sure there was good times, cherish them and say ciao For prescriptions [email protected] |
seekinginformation
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janedoenut
User ID: 73633884 United States 12/20/2018 02:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get her to a doctor and get her on Hormone therapy. Quoting: seekinginformation If she truly doesn't like you anymore it will still show and you can part amicably. Hormone therapy destroys menopausal women! It takes about a year to adjust. “If you'll let me tell you what I imagine about myself, you'll find it a lot more interesting” –Anne Shirley "Seemingly your father nor mother taught you that as a man, it's your job to protect and provide for women and lead strong families. As men, had you done your job, you wouldn't be living in a matriarchal society." - Janedoenut, 2018 |
Tangy
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American Indian Elder
User ID: 76516148 United States 12/20/2018 03:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get her to a doctor and get her on Hormone therapy. Quoting: seekinginformation If she truly doesn't like you anymore it will still show and you can part amicably. Hormone therapy destroys menopausal women! It takes about a year to adjust. I agree with your assessment of Hormone therapy. You are ment to taper off the hormones and the ovaries do keep producing minimal amounts estrogen. Thats life and biology. Send her to a Doctor? To get a tranquilizer? to get Hormones? IMHO, Doctors have made menstruation, pregnancy and menopause all diseases instead of normal acceptable phases of life. And why do they pick on only women? You;ll also end up with big bills and drug costs with possible addiction counseling. When I was a teen, all the non Ojibwe girls got excused for cramps and laid on the couch at home watching soaps for a week a month. I asked my Mom about it and she said ''thats for those girls, our girls cant afford to be so weak...go chop some wood for tonight." We didnt have a word for Menopause, it was regarded as a good thing, no more periods, no more pregnancies, INCREASED sex drive. And hot flashes!! I loved them, in -20 cold, a real treasure, LOL. OP, look in the mirror, do you shave?Brush your teeth? Bathe?Then, she probably feels undesireable, so tell her you love her,hire a cleaning woman for a day and get a sitter and take her out to dinner. Pretend she's your mistress. Be polite. Ask her to make a list of what she needs, what she wants changed, and you do the same. Remember, to a woman in her state of mind,SEX IS NOT LOVE. Love is love.,if she starts to respond to you dont think you can carry her off to the bedroom. Be patient. amdg Forgiveness means giving up every hope for a better past, In exchange for a better future. P.S. Ive always had an American Flag, now all of a sudden you gave me a Canada one. ?? Please whoever did this change it back. Not that free Ojibwe/Chippewa acknowledge any imaginary boundry lines... |
jkm1864
(OP) User ID: 74933864 United States 12/20/2018 03:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | lol sounds like you've a victim of expectations. Quoting: The_Meridian Anyway, how many kids do you have and how old are they? This will be the determining factor in how big of a piece of shit you are. She is 14 and an only child. I have been gone the majority of Her childhood because I had to work to support a family. I will still support the family and pay all the bills for a year until the wife gets help. I'm not asking for much just some sort of intimate connection and maybe an "I love You from time to time". She told Me yesterday when I asked for it that She will not lie so She can't tell Me that She loves Me. I have been very understanding and have put up with Her crap for 16.5 years and that crap includes over 90k in credit card debt and spending every penny I make which leaves Me constantly stressed. All the problems I had were manageable as long as I had a loving wife but now that I don't then there is no point in putting up with Her shit anymore unless She decides to get help. Pussy Grabber Extraordinaire |
jkm1864
(OP) User ID: 74933864 United States 12/20/2018 03:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get her to a doctor and get her on Hormone therapy. Quoting: seekinginformation If she truly doesn't like you anymore it will still show and you can part amicably. Hormone therapy destroys menopausal women! It takes about a year to adjust. I agree with your assessment of Hormone therapy. You are ment to taper off the hormones and the ovaries do keep producing minimal amounts estrogen. Thats life and biology. Send her to a Doctor? To get a tranquilizer? to get Hormones? IMHO, Doctors have made menstruation, pregnancy and menopause all diseases instead of normal acceptable phases of life. And why do they pick on only women? You;ll also end up with big bills and drug costs with possible addiction counseling. When I was a teen, all the non Ojibwe girls got excused for cramps and laid on the couch at home watching soaps for a week a month. I asked my Mom about it and she said ''thats for those girls, our girls cant afford to be so weak...go chop some wood for tonight." We didnt have a word for Menopause, it was regarded as a good thing, no more periods, no more pregnancies, INCREASED sex drive. And hot flashes!! I loved them, in -20 cold, a real treasure, LOL. OP, look in the mirror, do you shave?Brush your teeth? Bathe?Then, she probably feels undesireable, so tell her you love her,hire a cleaning woman for a day and get a sitter and take her out to dinner. Pretend she's your mistress. Be polite. Ask her to make a list of what she needs, what she wants changed, and you do the same. Remember, to a woman in her state of mind,SEX IS NOT LOVE. Love is love.,if she starts to respond to you dont think you can carry her off to the bedroom. Be patient. She works for a living and when I'm home I do all the cleaning so there is no need for a cleaning lady. Her sex drive has completely shut down and Me showing any sort of appreciation or affection is met with the Jeopardy ginngle going on in Her head as She waits for Me to finish. I am at My wits end with this crap and I nearly had a nervous breakdown while I spent 5 months on a boat so I could do the right thing and I knew something was wrong because Her personality changed overnight. I'll let her spend the holidays alone and contemplate poverty and maybe she will decide to talk to someone whom has went through menopause or goto the doctor and get help. Pussy Grabber Extraordinaire |
The_Meridian
Breshears is Off: Ask Me Why User ID: 76838634 United States 12/20/2018 03:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | lol sounds like you've a victim of expectations. Quoting: The_Meridian Anyway, how many kids do you have and how old are they? This will be the determining factor in how big of a piece of shit you are. She is 14 and an only child. I have been gone the majority of Her childhood because I had to work to support a family. I will still support the family and pay all the bills for a year until the wife gets help. I'm not asking for much just some sort of intimate connection and maybe an "I love You from time to time". She told Me yesterday when I asked for it that She will not lie so She can't tell Me that She loves Me. I have been very understanding and have put up with Her crap for 16.5 years and that crap includes over 90k in credit card debt and spending every penny I make which leaves Me constantly stressed. All the problems I had were manageable as long as I had a loving wife but now that I don't then there is no point in putting up with Her shit anymore unless She decides to get help. Nothing puts a girl on a pole quicker than an absentee father. You need to be present for your daughter until she's an adult. 14 is too young, 17 is a grey area. Some girls lock it in quicker. (B)ullshit™ always needs an amplified bullhorn demanding kneeling subservience - or else.- SyncAsFunk The light within me always draws me back to make the dark decision to leave the false counterfeit light. -New Heart |
jkm1864
(OP) User ID: 74933864 United States 12/20/2018 03:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | lol sounds like you've a victim of expectations. Quoting: The_Meridian Anyway, how many kids do you have and how old are they? This will be the determining factor in how big of a piece of shit you are. She is 14 and an only child. I have been gone the majority of Her childhood because I had to work to support a family. I will still support the family and pay all the bills for a year until the wife gets help. I'm not asking for much just some sort of intimate connection and maybe an "I love You from time to time". She told Me yesterday when I asked for it that She will not lie so She can't tell Me that She loves Me. I have been very understanding and have put up with Her crap for 16.5 years and that crap includes over 90k in credit card debt and spending every penny I make which leaves Me constantly stressed. All the problems I had were manageable as long as I had a loving wife but now that I don't then there is no point in putting up with Her shit anymore unless She decides to get help. Nothing puts a girl on a pole quicker than an absentee father. You need to be present for your daughter until she's an adult. 14 is too young, 17 is a grey area. Some girls lock it in quicker. I was abandoned as a child and that's the last thing I want for My daughter believe Me but I see no other way until She gets help and acknowledges Her problems. Pussy Grabber Extraordinaire |
Mikhailman
User ID: 76811228 United States 12/20/2018 03:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm such a piece of shit but I'll be leaving My wife for the holydays because I can't stand the bullshit anymore. I put up with a lot of shit from Her so My child could have a family but She hit menopause and decided She no longer loves Me anymore after a 16.5 year relationship. I've been dealing with this crap for 8 months now and sharing a bed and a life with a woman whom no longer loves Me is tearing Me up and I can't take it anymore. I'll leave Her and let Her taste poverty for a while and see if She learns to appreciate all the sacrifices that I have made for Her and My daughter. Jesus menopause is a bitch and I wouldn't wish this crap on My worst enemy. Quoting: jkm1864 8 months is NOTHING, I have put up with my wifes crap (laziness, cheating and non stop Byiatching) for over 20 years... Mikhailman |
A Dave in the Life
User ID: 8124010 United States 12/20/2018 03:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm such a piece of shit but I'll be leaving My wife for the holydays because I can't stand the bullshit anymore. I put up with a lot of shit from Her so My child could have a family but She hit menopause and decided She no longer loves Me anymore after a 16.5 year relationship. I've been dealing with this crap for 8 months now and sharing a bed and a life with a woman whom no longer loves Me is tearing Me up and I can't take it anymore. I'll leave Her and let Her taste poverty for a while and see if She learns to appreciate all the sacrifices that I have made for Her and My daughter. Jesus menopause is a bitch and I wouldn't wish this crap on My worst enemy. Quoting: jkm1864 The solution is really simple: You guys need bunkbeds. |
Drlightshow
User ID: 71986223 United Kingdom 12/20/2018 04:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | lol sounds like you've a victim of expectations. Quoting: The_Meridian Anyway, how many kids do you have and how old are they? This will be the determining factor in how big of a piece of shit you are. She is 14 and an only child. I have been gone the majority of Her childhood because I had to work to support a family. I will still support the family and pay all the bills for a year until the wife gets help. I'm not asking for much just some sort of intimate connection and maybe an "I love You from time to time". She told Me yesterday when I asked for it that She will not lie so She can't tell Me that She loves Me. I have been very understanding and have put up with Her crap for 16.5 years and that crap includes over 90k in credit card debt and spending every penny I make which leaves Me constantly stressed. All the problems I had were manageable as long as I had a loving wife but now that I don't then there is no point in putting up with Her shit anymore unless She decides to get help. Nothing puts a girl on a pole quicker than an absentee father. You need to be present for your daughter until she's an adult. 14 is too young, 17 is a grey area. Some girls lock it in quicker. Loooool I shouldn't laugh For prescriptions [email protected] |
The_Meridian
Breshears is Off: Ask Me Why User ID: 76838634 United States 12/20/2018 04:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was abandoned as a child and that's the last thing I want for My daughter believe Me but I see no other way until She gets help and acknowledges Her problems. Quoting: jkm1864 Repeating cycles. Look at your logic: "Daughter, your mother is crazy, therefore, that's why I'm leaving you alone with her. Good luck!" Nothing will endear you more to her than leaving her with a crazy woman to fend for herself. You might as well just put her on a plane and send her directly to Larry Flynt or Disney. (B)ullshit™ always needs an amplified bullhorn demanding kneeling subservience - or else.- SyncAsFunk The light within me always draws me back to make the dark decision to leave the false counterfeit light. -New Heart |
Drlightshow
User ID: 71986223 United Kingdom 12/20/2018 04:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was abandoned as a child and that's the last thing I want for My daughter believe Me but I see no other way until She gets help and acknowledges Her problems. Quoting: jkm1864 Repeating cycles. Look at your logic: "Daughter, your mother is crazy, therefore, that's why I'm leaving you alone with her. Good luck!" Nothing will endear you more to her than leaving her with a crazy woman to fend for herself. You might as well just put her on a plane and send her directly to Larry Flynt or Disney. Lmao For prescriptions [email protected] |
Soundman
User ID: 40546062 United States 12/20/2018 04:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get her to a doctor and get her on Hormone therapy. Quoting: seekinginformation If she truly doesn't like you anymore it will still show and you can part amicably. Hormone therapy destroys menopausal women! It takes about a year to adjust. I agree with your assessment of Hormone therapy. You are ment to taper off the hormones and the ovaries do keep producing minimal amounts estrogen. Thats life and biology. Send her to a Doctor? To get a tranquilizer? to get Hormones? IMHO, Doctors have made menstruation, pregnancy and menopause all diseases instead of normal acceptable phases of life. And why do they pick on only women? You;ll also end up with big bills and drug costs with possible addiction counseling. When I was a teen, all the non Ojibwe girls got excused for cramps and laid on the couch at home watching soaps for a week a month. I asked my Mom about it and she said ''thats for those girls, our girls cant afford to be so weak...go chop some wood for tonight." We didnt have a word for Menopause, it was regarded as a good thing, no more periods, no more pregnancies, INCREASED sex drive. And hot flashes!! I loved them, in -20 cold, a real treasure, LOL. OP, look in the mirror, do you shave?Brush your teeth? Bathe?Then, she probably feels undesireable, so tell her you love her,hire a cleaning woman for a day and get a sitter and take her out to dinner. Pretend she's your mistress. Be polite. Ask her to make a list of what she needs, what she wants changed, and you do the same. Remember, to a woman in her state of mind,SEX IS NOT LOVE. Love is love.,if she starts to respond to you dont think you can carry her off to the bedroom. Be patient. She works for a living and when I'm home I do all the cleaning so there is no need for a cleaning lady. Her sex drive has completely shut down and Me showing any sort of appreciation or affection is met with the Jeopardy ginngle going on in Her head as She waits for Me to finish. I am at My wits end with this crap and I nearly had a nervous breakdown while I spent 5 months on a boat so I could do the right thing and I knew something was wrong because Her personality changed overnight. I'll let her spend the holidays alone and contemplate poverty and maybe she will decide to talk to someone whom has went through menopause or goto the doctor and get help. Ummm, She is not going to contemplate poverty after you make her spend the holidays alone. You see all her divorced female work friends have already convinced her she can and will do better than you and she can take your house and money and be in the divorced club with the "office girls". Trust me, she has already been given the name of the best man hating divorce Attorney in town from her coworkers. Lots easer to do the girls night out with you out of the way... And all her Facebook old high school boyfriends have her convinced she is still hot. She is not worried about anything you may do or not do. I think the times we live in... I would say don't take the holidays away from your child as your plan is not gonna work. Last Edited by Soundman on 12/20/2018 04:32 PM Soundman |
jkm1864
(OP) User ID: 74933864 United States 12/20/2018 04:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I agree with your assessment of Hormone therapy. You are ment to taper off the hormones and the ovaries do keep producing minimal amounts estrogen. Thats life and biology. Send her to a Doctor? To get a tranquilizer? to get Hormones? IMHO, Doctors have made menstruation, pregnancy and menopause all diseases instead of normal acceptable phases of life. And why do they pick on only women? You;ll also end up with big bills and drug costs with possible addiction counseling. When I was a teen, all the non Ojibwe girls got excused for cramps and laid on the couch at home watching soaps for a week a month. I asked my Mom about it and she said ''thats for those girls, our girls cant afford to be so weak...go chop some wood for tonight." We didnt have a word for Menopause, it was regarded as a good thing, no more periods, no more pregnancies, INCREASED sex drive. And hot flashes!! I loved them, in -20 cold, a real treasure, LOL. OP, look in the mirror, do you shave?Brush your teeth? Bathe?Then, she probably feels undesireable, so tell her you love her,hire a cleaning woman for a day and get a sitter and take her out to dinner. Pretend she's your mistress. Be polite. Ask her to make a list of what she needs, what she wants changed, and you do the same. Remember, to a woman in her state of mind,SEX IS NOT LOVE. Love is love.,if she starts to respond to you dont think you can carry her off to the bedroom. Be patient. She works for a living and when I'm home I do all the cleaning so there is no need for a cleaning lady. Her sex drive has completely shut down and Me showing any sort of appreciation or affection is met with the Jeopardy ginngle going on in Her head as She waits for Me to finish. I am at My wits end with this crap and I nearly had a nervous breakdown while I spent 5 months on a boat so I could do the right thing and I knew something was wrong because Her personality changed overnight. I'll let her spend the holidays alone and contemplate poverty and maybe she will decide to talk to someone whom has went through menopause or goto the doctor and get help. Ummm, She is not going to contemplate poverty after you make her spend the holidays alone. You see all her divorced female work friends have already convinced her she can and will do better than you and she can take your house and money and be in the divorced club with the "office girls". Trust me, she has already been given the name of the best man hating divorce Attorney in town from her coworkers. Lots easer to do the girls night out with you out of the way... And all her Facebook high school boyfriends have her convinced she is still hot. She is not worried about anything you may do or not do. I think the times we live in... I would say don't take the holidays away from your child as your plan is not gonna work. Except She knows She will do no better without Me. My wife is a spendaholic and She has so much credit card debt in Her name She can't even support Herself much less My daughter. She can sell the home and split the profit and I'll still walk away with 50k in My hard while all Her cash goes to paying off credit card debt. Believe Me if I just paid Her 1500 a month child support I would be way better off because She contributes nothing toward bills and I have to give Her 2k a month just to keep Her account from getting over drawn. Pussy Grabber Extraordinaire |
BRIEF
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BRIEF
User ID: 39607259 United States 12/20/2018 04:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm such a piece of shit but I'll be leaving My wife for the holydays because I can't stand the bullshit anymore. I put up with a lot of shit from Her so My child could have a family but She hit menopause and decided She no longer loves Me anymore after a 16.5 year relationship. I've been dealing with this crap for 8 months now and sharing a bed and a life with a woman whom no longer loves Me is tearing Me up and I can't take it anymore. I'll leave Her and let Her taste poverty for a while and see if She learns to appreciate all the sacrifices that I have made for Her and My daughter. Jesus menopause is a bitch and I wouldn't wish this crap on My worst enemy. Quoting: jkm1864 My ex-cunt left because I'm king of my castle. I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71748103 United States 12/20/2018 04:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's not gonna learn shit bro. Women don't learn. Seriously. They either have it in them to do the right thing..or they don't. Never expect a woman to change...AT ALL! Quoting: Chip Cut your losses and walk. When she begs...go dick her and then walk again. Get into shape and "longdick" every bitch you see with champagne titties forever more. And he lived happily ever after.... Fuck man I wasn't going to say it but since you did. |
graff2
User ID: 75758325 United States 12/20/2018 04:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | there is a poster at my work that is up for some reason it says something like 'when you let him go off in the world, into his own home, you realize his sacrifices and how great he really was' sounds so fitting here. I'm sorry brother. Just know life ALWAYS gives us new meaning when confronted with new situations. Your life will go SO VIBRANT soon enough, that you'll start saying to yourself, 'OBVIOUSLY, the last 16.5 years HAD to happen just so I could make it to this fantastic spot in my life' blessings, truth and love to you brother. SiTeS a sNaRe, sPiTEful & bArE Safety Disclaimer: Nothing I've ever said on this profile or any profile ever connected to or in communication with this profile or IP address, or any IP address affiliated with this profile or IP address, is meant to be construed as fact. Everything I say or appear to suggest is 100% satire or only meant for entertainment purposes. I dont believe anything I ever say here because it's all a joke and should all be considered as such. Assuming anything I've ever said is true or meant to be education, or anything any account ever, in any way whatsoever, remotely associated with this account or IP address is true or meant to be educational, would result in you assuming something on your own accord knowing what you are assuming is not based on fact. Every communication to and from this account is satire and/or entertainment only, always. |
Jake
User ID: 76890717 United States 12/20/2018 04:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sorry op, hope it works out. Evil controls the ignorant... Climate change is a hoax so is the vax you have been fear-porned into compliance! Definition Satan from the bible: Satan (Rev 12:7) exercising his subtle (indirect) impact on heathen governments (powers) – i.e. accomplishing his hellish agenda from "behind the scenes." |
jkm1864
(OP) User ID: 74933864 United States 12/26/2018 02:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I caught My wife making plans to meet another man while I was offshore but Her plans didn't fall through because the man was unavailable. I read Her facebook posts to one of Her friends and apparently the wife has been having an emotional relationship with another man and I caught it right before it became physical. So now I get the joy this holyday of not being able to trust My spouse because I caught here in the act of looking for strange. Pussy Grabber Extraordinaire |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77166291 Australia 12/26/2018 02:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Bouts of depression and anxiety were daily routine in my house coupled with two stepsons who have never respected the sacrifices I made to ensure their wellbeing as they grew into adulthood. We too have a daughter together and she is also fourteen. It's a tough age and I feel for her having to live with her mother however there was no other option for me other than to leave. I too have paid most of the household bills for the last two months since we separated and to be honest I don't mind one bit. I justify the expense for the sake of my daughter and I'd pay twice as much if I had too just to ensure her safekeeping. I call her everyday and text her in between jobs just to let her know I'm thinking of her. I also opened a bank account in her name and deposit funds for her each week. Be a rock for your daughter and try to keep it civil with your partner otherwise your daughter may find you to be the culprit. Hard to do I know but it's doable and your daughter will appreciate it in the long run. I have no plans to reconcile my relationship and I'm fine with it now. I have found a new life outside of a toxic marriage that I never knew existed and I wish the same for you. Best of luck. |
Crowdedhouse
User ID: 69322350 United States 01/04/2019 03:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like my life you're describing albeit 8 months for you was 16 years for me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77166291 Bouts of depression and anxiety were daily routine in my house coupled with two stepsons who have never respected the sacrifices I made to ensure their wellbeing as they grew into adulthood. We too have a daughter together and she is also fourteen. It's a tough age and I feel for her having to live with her mother however there was no other option for me other than to leave. I too have paid most of the household bills for the last two months since we separated and to be honest I don't mind one bit. I justify the expense for the sake of my daughter and I'd pay twice as much if I had too just to ensure her safekeeping. I call her everyday and text her in between jobs just to let her know I'm thinking of her. I also opened a bank account in her name and deposit funds for her each week. Be a rock for your daughter and try to keep it civil with your partner otherwise your daughter may find you to be the culprit. Hard to do I know but it's doable and your daughter will appreciate it in the long run. I have no plans to reconcile my relationship and I'm fine with it now. I have found a new life outside of a toxic marriage that I never knew existed and I wish the same for you. Best of luck. Sounds like my life you're describing albeit 8 months for you was 16 years for me. Bouts of depression and anxiety were daily routine in my house coupled with two stepsons who have never respected the sacrifices I made to ensure their wellbeing as they grew into adulthood. We too have a daughter together and she is also fourteen. It's a tough age and I feel for her having to live with her mother however there was no other option for me other than to leave. I too have paid most of the household bills for the last two months since we separated and to be honest I don't mind one bit. I justify the expense for the sake of my daughter and I'd pay twice as much if I had too just to ensure her safekeeping. I call her everyday and text her in between jobs just to let her know I'm thinking of her. I also opened a bank account in her name and deposit funds for her each week. Be a rock for your daughter and try to keep it civil with your partner otherwise your daughter may find you to be the culprit. Hard to do I know but it's doable and your daughter will appreciate it in the long run. I have no plans to reconcile my relationship and I'm fine with it now. I have found a new life outside of a toxic marriage that I never knew existed and I wish the same for you. Best of luck. [/quote Stop being so gay |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 67765500 United States 01/04/2019 03:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm such a piece of shit but I'll be leaving My wife for the holydays because I can't stand the bullshit anymore. I put up with a lot of shit from Her so My child could have a family but She hit menopause and decided She no longer loves Me anymore after a 16.5 year relationship. I've been dealing with this crap for 8 months now and sharing a bed and a life with a woman whom no longer loves Me is tearing Me up and I can't take it anymore. I'll leave Her and let Her taste poverty for a while and see if She learns to appreciate all the sacrifices that I have made for Her and My daughter. Jesus menopause is a bitch and I wouldn't wish this crap on My worst enemy. Quoting: jkm1864 Why in the hell haven’t you two discussed Hormone Replacement Therapy?? Her estrogen levels have tanked. HRT would make her a whole new woman again. Believe it or not, her testosterone levels are probably too low as well. Along with estrogen, she may need small amounts of testosterone. Get those levels to OPTIMAL (not “low normal”), and she’ll be fine. . |
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Mousse
User ID: 77155094 United States 01/24/2019 02:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I caught My wife making plans to meet another man while I was offshore but Her plans didn't fall through because the man was unavailable. I read Her facebook posts to one of Her friends and apparently the wife has been having an emotional relationship with another man and I caught it right before it became physical. So now I get the joy this holyday of not being able to trust My spouse because I caught here in the act of looking for strange. Quoting: jkm1864 What is it about men that makes them think their abscence for 5 Months won’t have a negative affect on the wife? StrongLion |