At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. | |
rewind
Militant Bitch User ID: 77294798 United States 01/30/2019 07:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. If you treat it like someone is messing with you, it could be easier to understand? And tell grandma what is going on so she can know the voices are not her husbands girlfriends. Set some baby monitors up here and there. cheap and easy method of surveillance. Definitely let gm know you all think this is going on etc etc.. at least calm her down some. sounds horrible.. Last Edited by rewind on 01/30/2019 07:55 PM |
Nevermind32
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wisconsin
User ID: 33911911 United States 01/30/2019 08:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. . ... seems some good security monitoring is in order! ... . . Our family celebrates The Lord's Feasts: [link to www.grafted-promise.net] Fools and the dead don't change their minds. Fools won't and the dead can't. When you tear out a man's tongue, you are not proving him a liar. You are only telling the world that you fear what he might say. Quoting: CountryWise Amos 5:13 - Therefore at such a time the prudent person keeps silent, for it is an evil time. |
Interferon
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Wise Serpent, Gentle Dove
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jimmyrigger
User ID: 54872330 United States 01/30/2019 09:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. I have talked to senior citizens a lot in the past years. A few of them became like your grandmother. One lady told me that strangers would come into her kitchen and cook while she was trying to wash dishes. She yelled and screamed at them to no avail. She drove the police crazy with her " strangers " harassing her. Its one of the effects of alzheimers disease. Your grandmother needs help and to make sure those around her understand what is happening to her and her husband. There may be help out there from alternative medicine. You have to look for it. |
JStav
User ID: 69424012 United States 01/30/2019 09:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. You need to get her to go to the mental health doctor so they can help evaluat her. My mother has schizophrenia, and has similar thoughts, so I am very familiar. However, she has been like that since her early 20's. Your Grandmother may have something that can be treated. In general, I am against taking any long term pharmaceuticals, but my Mom really needs them or can't manage to overcome her paranoia. |
pinkuspink
User ID: 76842222 United States 01/30/2019 09:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. You can get some cheap (price)ip cameras on Amazon for about $30. I have had these for about 4 years. They record about 10 seconds if there is any kind of motion and that service is free. All you buy is the camera. No subscriptions or monthly fees of any kind. You do need wifi though and setup is super easy. You can see whats going on in real time any time from your smart phone. [link to www.amazon.com (secure)] pinkuspink |
JooGetOut
User ID: 77202060 United States 01/30/2019 10:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. Crazy story. On one hand you have your grandma hearing things, but maybe it could be she's hearing the people that sliced your cable? The christ spreading gandpa might have made the neighbor mad since they don't answer? Or maybe they're using headphones possibly removed a hearing aid? Are they getting their nutrients? Coconut oil, tumeric, and cardio might improve their status. Last Edited by JooGetOut on 01/30/2019 10:16 PM |
Miss Bunny Swan
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Wise Serpent, Gentle Dove
(OP) User ID: 45746259 United States 01/30/2019 10:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. I’m sorry but what a bitch to accuse your grandpa of having affairs with her hallucinations. I can’t stand people like that. Yea she may be losing it, but you know he’s probably had to deal with her insecurity from way back. Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan He really has had to deal with a lot but at the same time as an outside observer its really sad because she definitely is not well and something is causing her to believe these things as if they are a reality and she needs to get checked out but I dont know how to get her help. |
Shadow Dance
User ID: 59490123 United States 01/30/2019 11:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. sounds to me like there is something toxic in their environment... new cell towers??? a new smart meter installed, how about black mold (in the basement) behind the walls in a bathroom ... do they have "pest control" who spray glyposate around the house to keep out bugs ... last but not least ... what are they eating, is it organic like the food they were raised on ... are they getting all the nutrients (iodine) are they drinking tap water why aren't your parents dealing with their parents ... why are you involved ... do you think you will inherit if they are moved to an Assisted living complex ? have you checked their meds for conflicts ... |
l0ves0ul
User ID: 72412739 United States 01/30/2019 11:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. Is she on any meds? Any new meds? My grandmother takes Ambien and does alot of what you said your grandmother is doing. Almost to the T. She mostly does all of it after taking it, hallucinations and delusions wise. Also, was this sudden? Or slowly started? If it's alzheimers related, I will say, my great aunt in a few short months it seemed just deteriorated from it and it can quickly happen. I'm so sorry this is happening and I will also pray in Yeshua's name Last Edited by l0ves0ul on 01/30/2019 11:27 PM |
justanothergranny
User ID: 77326314 United States 01/30/2019 11:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. Aside from the mental aspect of Alzheimers, there is a chance she has a urinary tract infection. I've known several women who had mild infections but terrible hallucinations. They stopped after the infection was treated. Praying for your grandparents and you - this is a stressful situation to be sure. TANSTAAFL - There Ain't No Such Thing As A Free Lunch |
SpringLeak
User ID: 75632946 United States 01/30/2019 11:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. Take her to the doctor. SpamSpamSignatureSpamSpam Force Ghost Void God Zombie Wookie King From Beyond The Stars - Also I'm modest and understated. "Those who know, don't teach. Those who teach, are fucking with you." "When a true genius appears, you can know him by this sign: that all the dunces are in a confederacy against him." Jonathan Swift "Whenever possible be more compassionate. It is always possible to be more compassionate." "Four hearts combined are one." "There is a reason we use brains for thinking and concrete for sidewalks." "God is love. All you need is love...and GALAXY BLASTING SPACE WEAPONS." (I knew there was something wrong with this one, it just took me a while to figure it out) "Women are evil, men are dumb, somebody pissed in the beer." "The thing about smart people is: they seem like crazy people... to dumb people." "He who says it cannot be done should not interrupt he who is doing it." "Humanity has driven off the cliff, now the military is holding their hands over our eyes so we don't see the ground coming." "Some of what you read is wrong because the people who wrote it also did not have a very good education and were groping around in the dark when they wrote it. Lets thank them for trying because without people like them we would have a lot more groping to do in a much darker world" |
TheLordsServant
User ID: 77331205 United States 01/30/2019 11:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. I’m sorry but what a bitch to accuse your grandpa of having affairs with her hallucinations. I can’t stand people like that. Yea she may be losing it, but you know he’s probably had to deal with her insecurity from way back. Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan My Dad had times when he accused my Mom of affairs - while he was in bed dying of bone cancer. He was phasing in and out of reality. When he was coherent he never remembered it. She was taking care of him 24/7. Prayers for OP Last Edited by Servant-of-the-LORD on 01/30/2019 11:51 PM I am a humble Servant of the one True Living God. |
TheLordsServant
User ID: 77331205 United States 01/30/2019 11:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. Aside from the mental aspect of Alzheimers, there is a chance she has a urinary tract infection. I've known several women who had mild infections but terrible hallucinations. They stopped after the infection was treated. Quoting: justanothergranny Praying for your grandparents and you - this is a stressful situation to be sure. I've never heard of that before - but my mom was the same way for several years. Now I know why Last Edited by Servant-of-the-LORD on 01/30/2019 11:54 PM I am a humble Servant of the one True Living God. |
Wise Serpent, Gentle Dove
(OP) User ID: 45746259 United States 01/30/2019 11:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. sounds to me like there is something toxic in their environment... new cell towers??? a new smart meter installed, how about black mold (in the basement) behind the walls in a bathroom ... do they have "pest control" who spray glyposate around the house to keep out bugs ... Quoting: Shadow Dance last but not least ... what are they eating, is it organic like the food they were raised on ... are they getting all the nutrients (iodine) are they drinking tap water why aren't your parents dealing with their parents ... why are you involved ... do you think you will inherit if they are moved to an Assisted living complex ? have you checked their meds for conflicts ... Its all a screwed up situation.. youre asking about my parents, well they divorced when I was ohh I dont know four or five years old I dont have much of a relationship with either of them and this is my dads mother and from what I get from him he’s never really forgiven her for putting him through a pretty crappy life as a child so he just brushes her off. The whole family is really screwed up and I’m kind of just caught in the middle of it all. Im curious though as my grandmother has metal implant prosthesis because of jaw injuries from abuse she suffered (not from my grandfather from back before she met him) and with the 5g rolling out lately if its affecting her even worse now. Thank you for bringing this point up. |
Jake
User ID: 76890717 United States 01/30/2019 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. call an ambulance, when they get there Tell them she has mental health issues to ignore what she says. Evil controls the ignorant... Climate change is a hoax so is the vax you have been fear-porned into compliance! Definition Satan from the bible: Satan (Rev 12:7) exercising his subtle (indirect) impact on heathen governments (powers) – i.e. accomplishing his hellish agenda from "behind the scenes." |
Wise Serpent, Gentle Dove
(OP) User ID: 45746259 United States 01/31/2019 12:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. I’m sorry but what a bitch to accuse your grandpa of having affairs with her hallucinations. I can’t stand people like that. Yea she may be losing it, but you know he’s probably had to deal with her insecurity from way back. Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan My Dad had times when he accused my Mom of affairs - while he was in bed dying of bone cancer. He was phasing in and out of reality. When he was coherent he never remembered it. She was taking care of him 24/7. Prayers for OP Thank you so much for the prayers and the picture, my grandfather loves her so much and I just cant imagine how it breaks his heart having to go through this and he literally never leaves her side or talks to anyone its very gutwrenching watching all this to be honest with you it hurts so bad. |
Wise Serpent, Gentle Dove
(OP) User ID: 45746259 United States 01/31/2019 12:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. call an ambulance, when they get there Quoting: Jake Tell them she has mental health issues to ignore what she says. I need to do this, Jake. My names Christopher by the way. I’m just really scared how they will react but you know what its probably going to be the only way to get her to the doctors and get the help she needs. Please pray for me and for them. I appreciate your being rather direct about this. |
Rabbit In The Hat
User ID: 77047002 United States 01/31/2019 12:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. Aside from the mental aspect of Alzheimers, there is a chance she has a urinary tract infection. I've known several women who had mild infections but terrible hallucinations. They stopped after the infection was treated. Quoting: justanothergranny Praying for your grandparents and you - this is a stressful situation to be sure. I was thinking this as well. Hallucinations due to a urinary tract infection may sound odd, but it can happen. It’s something to look into. Also, is it possible that a rodent or squirrel could have chewed through the cable line? This is a pretty common occurrence with fiber optic lines. |
Wise Serpent, Gentle Dove
(OP) User ID: 45746259 United States 01/31/2019 12:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. Aside from the mental aspect of Alzheimers, there is a chance she has a urinary tract infection. I've known several women who had mild infections but terrible hallucinations. They stopped after the infection was treated. Quoting: justanothergranny Praying for your grandparents and you - this is a stressful situation to be sure. I was thinking this as well. Hallucinations due to a urinary tract infection may sound odd, but it can happen. It’s something to look into. Also, is it possible that a rodent or squirrel could have chewed through the cable line? This is a pretty common occurrence with fiber optic lines. I put a link to a picture of the cable itself you can tell it was cut its too clean to have been an animal chewing it. |
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clock
User ID: 74739351 United Kingdom 01/31/2019 01:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. Happened to my Grandmother recently, she kept hearing people behind Her fireplace my Father and I went to investigate, obviously nobody there long story short, Doctor tested Her found out She had onset DIABETES, couple of pills later right as rain. Grandmother back to full health in less than a week, as for the cable.......well I have no idea, could be a disgruntled neighbour due to television volume? none |
Dee49
User ID: 77332892 United States 01/31/2019 01:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. Aside from the mental aspect of Alzheimers, there is a chance she has a urinary tract infection. I've known several women who had mild infections but terrible hallucinations. They stopped after the infection was treated. Quoting: justanothergranny Praying for your grandparents and you - this is a stressful situation to be sure. I was thinking this as well. Hallucinations due to a urinary tract infection may sound odd, but it can happen. It’s something to look into. Also, is it possible that a rodent or squirrel could have chewed through the cable line? This is a pretty common occurrence with fiber optic lines. This is what should be looked into especially if the changes were sudden. UTI can cause delirium. Very common in elderly women. |
Who is Blue Fairy
User ID: 62898375 United States 01/31/2019 03:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. Thread: ive met a few schizophrenics, they all tell me that there is a type of transmitter... Important! Read page 3 at least Last Edited by Who is Blue Fairy on 01/31/2019 03:41 AM Jesus Wept |
MissCleo
User ID: 77082640 United States 01/31/2019 03:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: At my wits end and need advice regarding my grandparents and odd things going on at their apartment. My mom was the same. I finally had to take her into my home to care for her. She just didn't feel safe, that's when they conjur up voices and paranoia. Perfectly natural part of aging, they need assisted living situation and can no longer live alone. It was an honor to care for my mom for 7 years. As soon as she felt safe she normalized a little. I put her into a routine, gave her the things she needed (food, shelter, clothing). I just went along with her hallucinations, held her hand, asked her questions about what was going through her head until she realized she was safe, many times, just allowing her to comfort herself and go to sleep. Time to have a family meeting and set up some care for the old folks. I did it alone, no relatives to help. |