Disciples of Jesus are not comfortable people to be around with because they often say things that are not pleasing to hear. This is why Jesus promised persecution not friends.
They say things that make war against the flesh. Of course they are kind because their Father is kind but their Father does not tolerate sin.
Sin is of the devil and disciples of Jesus are not kind to sin, they rebuke it in Jesus name!
True disciples of Jesus Christ pick up their cross and overcome the deception of the devil every day. Every day they force themselves into the kingdom of heaven.
Disciples of Jesus are not popular people because they do not follow the ways of this world they are busy with Jesus all the time, they guard and reserve your heart for the Lord.
They don't care about being popular, they care about the kingdom of God and serving Jesus on the narrow way.
The life of a disciple of Jesus Christ does not seem "pretty" to the natural man.
You must choose, friends or Jesus.
May Jesus bless you.