Rebounding From Rejection ... or not? Is it even possible? LOL

wine makes me cry. so i do not drink it. wtf wants to cry?

different alcoholes have different effects on people XD

It depends on the person doing the rejecting and why he/she is rejecting. If you get rejected by a narcissist, for example, you are lucky.

i cry with wine i beat bitches up on whiskey and throw up on vodka. and tequila, well, that is on a need to know basis.

Or if you are rejected by a psychopath, that would be considered luck too, and safer!

Nothing makes me violent except sometimes I get super annoyed at backstabbers and fake people exspecially when drinking lol

I am a fun drunk and an easy one. check your pm's sweety!

Aww you are too kind

Is this a travel channel thread?

sure. do as you see fit! What's up Lady? Hope you are cozy and happy as a bug?

Oh yeah, been a bed bug for about 4 hours today. Love it! Got one of those damn 12 hour days tomorrow. Gonna make some money & piss of a cunt by putting my feet on my desk too.

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wear you red gofuck yourself shoes!

That will backfire. :omg:

She's a dike, asked me for a sexy copy last time she spun thru the office (and sat w a man spread).

ewwww! well, are you sure you want to even put your legs up?

I really do not like dikey chicks! I have some stories! they are sexual predators and that is all there is to that!

Women don't get rejected much because they never take the initiative to ask in the first place.

At least here in America. Probably different in EE.

To be honest, how she feels is created entirely in her mind.

I am sure. I really am. I know how these things go. they are predators.

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women get ghosted

LOL! My viewpoint on rejection is analogous to food. Some might hate broccoli or shrimp. There's nothing wrong with broccoli or shrimp - in fact, many people love them. So while it is not easy being rejected and is hard not to take it personally, it's not normally your problem but theirs.

If you are rejected by another, it is really luck on your part although you might not recognize that. If a person accepted you, but didn't really respect you and was a false friend or lover, what have you gained by that acceptance which is bound to be found out at some later point? So it is better to know in advance, and they are really doing you a favor by their early rejection before you invest time and affection.

People who accept you because you are there and convenient, only to reject you at a later date when somebody else better comes along (like those narcissists tend to do), well, those people you just need to be able to identify and run from if they come near.

Now the caveat to that is that anyone can have problems with a person here and there and that's normal. But if your life is filled with one rejection after another, the problem is probably not them, but you, and you need to re-evaluate yourself to figure out what you are doing that turns others away. That is, if that kind of thing bothers you.

Rewind ya a great friend <3

You're right, 1st thing she asked was if my company is folding. (insert explicative cunty remarks) I replied, no just making more money in a smaller amount of time elsewhere.

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Thank you for this post! I notice people friend you for what you can do for them, you are right! But also, I am finding some true friends still in life!

Take good care!

What if everyone you ever knew rejected you.

Then it becomes impossible to reject the possibility that your lifelong rejection is some kind of conspiracy.

There’s another name for this phenomenon. It’s called scapegoating, and it’s a Freemason thing.

I lived my entire life being scapegoated.

I am pretty mad about it. I am very motivated to help expose and stop the whole Freemason takeover of this... was going to say country, but if your eyes are open, it isnt hard to see they took over the world.

They harm innocent people. It cant be allowed to continue.

This is a typical occultist line of pure bullshit. Trying to pretend that their victims are imagining things. They successfully use this kind of lie to browbeat down their innocent victims. These people are ethically heinous. They then use fake psychologists and phony psychology, made up by them, to nail innocent victims with bogus mental illness diagnoses — and have been getting away with this.

I really don't believe you've never been rejected. Everyone has been rejected in some form or another. It's life. You'll get over it eventually. Really it just burns your ego and there's nothing really wrong with it. Eventually someone will say yes. Life goes on if everyone worried about one person's rejection for the rest of their life, no one would ever find love. One person's yes could be another person's no.

You don't need another person's acceptance sometimes they just want something else. Oh well, what can you do? Live your best life.

Shit, I've been rejected by a psychiatrist I had and kicked out of the program and I don't really know why. Sooooooo yeah rejection comes in many different forms.