Tell me about it! I'm very sad for your friend, but death is inevitable for all of us. There are no accidents my friend. Everything is for our own spiritual growth. She will either get through it or go on to the next plane and maybe be born again immediately or not. If people would follow the eastern beliefs, they would realize that death is not the end and for many, it's the karmic wheel. I've always wondered why many of the eastern enlightened are born around the Indus Valley. I've read some of the books the Gurus have written and their spiritually developed understanding of life is way beyond what we know.