no, you are all about the stalking, which you've admitted you've been doing for at least 10 months now.

and GOD's word tells us about grace through faith.

Ephesians 2:8-9 For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, Not of works, lest any man should boast.

which is what your guy in the video was referencing.