I don't think she's trying to destroy the monarchy but her behavior has people flipped the frak out. I'm sure she finds some of the rules and traditions to be quite silly and the press coverage of her is ridiculous. Only the Brits would care that she wore jeans to Wimbledon or complain about stylized photos.

I know that the taxpayers feel that she owes them many things and that the royal family are considered public figures. I just can't imagine being upset about not knowing who the Godparents are.

It's really Harry's job to acclimate her however he sees fit. It's what they must have agreed to as a couple. He probably doesn't really care. They are going to end up leaving the UK anyway after the Queen passes.